I'd rly like to increase my chances of getting the type of girl I really want.. By this i mean not dating girls I meet at work and school, or at bars and clubs.. But girls I see walking down the street or shopping at the store... Any girls have tips on what you like best when a guy approaches you, or if you like to be approched in that situation? If you like it than any good conversation starters you think that guy should use when talking to you? What about body language what bothers you most when a guy approaches you?
2007-12-18 10:22:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweet, this helps out alot guys thanks... Some fo you obviously don't want to be approached but for the most part it seems more of you do want to be approached....
On and Juliana do you want to go out with me? hahaah Nah I'm playing but i'm sure that either made you roll your eyes or laugh...
2007-12-18 10:43:38 · update #1
it's okay to walk up and start a conversation with a person(girl) you don't know. however it can be extremely creepy unless you keep it light. don't use cheesy pick up lines and stick to the basics. its definitely weird when someone comes up to me and automatically asks for my number. but maybe you could try walking up to a girl and saying something like hey i need help picking out a gift for my sister can you help me? if it doesn't work on one girl keep trying!
2007-12-18 10:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys randomly walking up
to girls they've never met before,
is never good, in any case scenario.
I know if a stranger walked up to me
and randomly started chatting with me,
I'd honestly be really weirded out.
You need to focus on the girls
you see at work and at school,
they're the ones you'll have a better
chance with.
2007-12-18 10:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would be a bit weird but if your a nice confident bubbly person it would matter because they would know your not strange you just want to chat well if your in a snooker hall or bowling alley comment on the game and how well there doing or joke (nicely) on how there not doing so good and that you could do better than that if your in a skate park you could always ask them to show you have to so a trick or ask if they could maybe teach you how to skate if you don't know. just ask them once you've got into doing something like talking about snooker or skating try asking them about there favourite bands are or if there in a mall ask what there favourite shop is Hope this helps :)
2016-03-16 02:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to seem conceded, but guys hit on me all of the time and sometimes I'm just not in the mood to deal with them.But what does catch my attention is a guy ,regardless of how they look , that can disarm me and usually a guy who makes me laugh from jump can.Now that doesn't mean that I am going to go out with them, but I am not as abrasive toward someone who puts a smile on my face and for the most part,the whole exchange ends up being a pleasant one whether I choose to go out with them or not.
2007-12-18 10:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Juliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was alone and someone approached me, I might be scared. If I was with friends, it would just be weird. What I would suggest is, with many people around (like in a store), say something funny. My dad is constantly flirting and just making women life. If you take an interest in a cashier, let's say, go to her line often and always leave her with a smile
2007-12-18 10:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Danger2Society 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should start with things that relate to what your doing at that place and time.. dont be scared to ask questions and start from there... always wear nice cologne and have on a great smile with extra white teeth and good smalling breath :D body language is kinda treaky when u dont know the person so you should just use small taps on the shoulder or put you hand on theirs when asking a question small stuff like this to show tht ur flirting.. before u leave just get her name and number but dont be put down if she wasnt interested
2007-12-18 10:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Parii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in most cases, it makes a girl feel good when a guy randomly walks over and makes eye contact and smiles directly at her in a non-stalkerish way. so i think they will be slightly weirded out in a does this guy really like ME? kind of way, but overall, i think your good
2007-12-18 10:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by mlegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all it is deff. ok to walk up to a girl. you dont know how many times im walking in the mall or something and wishing that a guy i see will come up to me. u can say almost ne thing but be friendly funny and cute
2007-12-18 10:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur like in the mall like @ the food court make small talk about the food, if your in a movie line for food ask them what they think of the buttery stuff, just dont come off scary!
Mostly just avoid yes or no questions, and also dont make it seem like a bet!
2007-12-18 10:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by shacka t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You walk up to me in a public place when I'm not expecting it and you're liable to get a smack... and I don't mean a kiss.
2007-12-18 10:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by odandme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋