Im going to call her tonight and tell her that i dont like her. Should i say "hey whats up" first then go to the "i dont like you we should stop" part or should i have a normal conversation for 10 minutes then break the news or what.
2007-12-18 10:04:24 · 50 answers · asked by steelermonarchy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say not to do it over the phone...esp if you are only calling her to tell her that.
it may be best to do it in person, even though shell get upset and all. i still think thats the best way.
2007-12-18 10:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Evan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well please don't tell her you don't like her you don't have to put it that way oh my God! Simply put call her up and talk to her this isn't fun........ what don't you like?
Just say that you have some issues that you need to work out and you will be busy taking care of some problems that you are being forced to deal with... have a normal conversation.
If she asks if she can help tell her after you do some thinking she might be able to but as of now you can't think of anyway she can help with the problem then stop calling her for about a week. then If she calls you tell her you want to be friends and that the problems are still a problem she will move on and you can get a new girl friend and if you see her you can tell her you met someone don't use the word else
2007-12-18 10:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not practise being more mature about this and you'll never make an enemy amongst the female populace.
Breaking up on the phone is not only not very nice, its kind of cowardly.
Telling someone you 'don't like' them is more than a little harsh.
How about this....
SEE her in person. Tell her you are very sorry but it just isn't working out for you. Leave her with the feeling that she is a lovely person, just not the right person for you.
Think about there possibly being a day when you are perhaps crazy about someone who doesn't share your feelings but wants to break up with you. How would you prefer they do it? Gently and kindly or would you rather they shatter you into a bajillion little pieces?
2007-12-18 10:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by SkippedyDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off all DO not tell her on the phone tell her in person. It will be way less awkward and if you absolutely must tell her on the phone break it to her easy and say i like you as a friend i just don't like you the way i used to
just be nice because girls are really sensitive haha =]
and if you do tell her on the phone after that just have a normal convo as possible
hope i helped =]
2007-12-18 10:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never good to do it over the phone, but if you have to, say it in the beginning, otherwise she's going to hate you more for dragging on a good conversation and then breaking her heart. Just let her know the REAL reason you're breaking up, not something to make her stop crying.
2007-12-18 10:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to not like someone, so don't let others bash you. Just be polite with her, tell her that you are not making a connection with her or that you would prefer to have her as a friend. When you get on the phone, tell her right away that you have something you need to say. If she gets mad and hangs up, oh well! Big loss to you right? lol
Trust me, you will do more harm stringing her along and then having to break it to her later. Know what I mean?
Good Luck!!
2007-12-18 10:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really the sort of thing to do in person, hard as it will be. Take her to dinner, or for a walk or something. Tell her she's an amazing person but you just don't feel the chemistry between you and want to move on, but don't want to hurt her in the process. It'll be over with soon enough and you will feel better it's done in a respectful way.
2007-12-18 10:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get it over with right away, but DON'T say you don't like her!! That's mean.
Just say "Hey listen, I need to talk to you. I think you are a really cool girl and everything, but I'm just really not into being in a relationship or anything right now. Can we just be friends?"
And then talk for a minute and then say you've gotta go.
2007-12-18 10:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Shana B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you do it over the phone? wouldnt you want more than that if the shoe were on the other foot? tell her next time you see her that you need to talk about things. then break it gently to her, keeping her feelings in mind. i wouldnt just say " i dont like you ", thats kind of immature. good luck with it all and God bless
2007-12-18 10:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by mom of 4 boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro if u really want to get rid of her do this in person so you dont seem like a bisnatch by just being a voice on the othere side of the line. sides she'll at least see u as man enough to do that u might just give her a pity ****?!?!
2007-12-18 10:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by cummingbehindya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think do her a favor be more generous and polite. make her laugh but let her know that something is changed. then after saying about good memories add " but i think we have to stop dating for a while" and answer her questions by " i'm confused and i need a rest " if she is a normal smart girl she will understand that it's the end point. if she is a obstinate person you have to reject her calls for a while.
2007-12-18 10:17:44 · answer #11 · answered by benjamin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋