Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

pray for me that she'll do the right thing!
i wanna trust her!
i know she'll do the right thing!
i just dont wanna get hurt again!
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2007-12-18 09:53:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anthony xD 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-18 09:53:37 · 17 answers · asked by Николай 3 in Weddings

I commited blasphemy, the unforgiveable sin, by telling God I dont need him. I am a 15 yr old girl.
Since a few years ago, God has been telling some of the christians that see me (ppl in public or mostly teachers, preachers) what I have done. And probably telling him that I have lust so much and do other wrong things. The other day my teacher who I am almost positive is a christian (he said he was) told the class that in ancient time a group of ppl in ancient times beleive that if you look at something wrongly, you get your eye poked out.
And he stared at me for a long time until someone else started talking to him. (whats funny is at that same time, I was also thinking how hot he was until thoses words came out of his mouth) but my two other friends say he is so hot and love him!! sooooo... yeah!!!! anyway I am really shy! believe it isnt my imagination, I have been thorugh this so many times! I am not crossed, I can see when someone stares at me for 10 min.I just want advice????

2007-12-18 09:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ash♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

A woman will make significant sacrifices if a man makes okay money? If a guy has a job generally. That's good enough for most. She'll put up with annoying habbits like him playing videogames or watching porn for hours while telling her to not talk so that he can finish watching the movie or the game without making a mistake. I mean the more he treats her like ****. The more she thinks he really likes her. Even though he primarily likes her mostly for sexual favours and cooking & cleaning duties.
But,if a guy who's less well off and is nice to her and treats her with respect gets rejected.

2007-12-18 09:53:22 · 6 answers · asked by John D 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, from the moment I woke up this morning to this minute (its 5.30pm) its been one bad thing after another happening to me . My job license was not renewed( their mistake not mine) my favorite expensive watch broke, I was just told I have to work christmas day (even though I requested it off about a month ago) and to top it off there's this lady here working my last good nerve and the day's not over. Tell me people, could it get any worse or how can I end my day on a good note......thanks for your time.

2007-12-18 09:53:03 · 10 answers · asked by kharilli 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have only have 4 people answer this and I need more answers! I'll Ask again! okay, I was writing something until Kaijor (My exboyfriend) saw it and look at it. he was asking me, "Who's Jake?" and his friends, Zack and Cameron said that he must be my imaginary boyfriend. I said to them, "He's not my imaginary boyfriend! Now, shut up with that!". so after that, Kaijor keeps making funny faces at his friends and sometimes shows it to me and staring at me. I can't stop laughing at him because of that! so when I was doing something in the computer lab, he kept asking me, "who's Jake?" and I said, "Why do you want to know?" and he said that he doesn't want me to get hurt again just like my 4th exboyfriend Sunny did to me. so Should I tell him that Jake is my boyfriend or not? if not, what should I do about him? plz be honest about this and NO STUPID OR PERVERT/RETARDED ANSWERS! Thanks so much for answering my question and I will check on this later!

-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*

2007-12-18 09:52:22 · 18 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

We are currently in a Chpt 13 bankruptcy and I am contemplating divorce. What would happen to our payments? Would the courts split it evenly? What happens if the other person defaults on their payment? Would it affect both?

2007-12-18 09:51:24 · 4 answers · asked by westvalleycityavonlady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get over my old friend who I fell in love with but practically destroyed my life.

2007-12-18 09:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by caomicc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any websites would be great!

2007-12-18 09:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by sugar_baby_sweetness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls, how much clavage in office dressing and casual dressing is cofident to you? i see may girls with lots of clavages that u can almost see their boobs. do you think they must be feeling comfortable?

2007-12-18 09:50:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 09:49:40 · 1 answers · asked by Sexy Chica 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys what would you and me do if we were locked up in a room for the whole day???
there would be no way for us to get out unless someone came and unlocked the door, and we wouldnt have a phone to call for help. so what would you what to do with me if i let you do anything????

2007-12-18 09:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by Elizabeth F 1 in Singles & Dating

Isn't it great they got rid of the Will and Amy gap ad?

2007-12-18 09:48:42 · 8 answers · asked by triton 4 in Singles & Dating

So that I could intially just leave her alone even though i still like her and want to be friends. Or does the fact that she has a bf ruin everything?

2007-12-18 09:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We work together and he has two kids. I do not have any. We get along well. I just dont think I'm up for the darma of the divorce or the kids. Anybody have any ideas about how these things usually play out. Should I run now?

2007-12-18 09:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by Vicki 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 09:48:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. friday my boyfriend wants me to come over and go to the mall or something with him but i don't want to. i am so afraid of his parents. what should i do?

2007-12-18 09:47:08 · 22 answers · asked by tay!or 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 09:46:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...so Ive been liking this guy for about 7 months now...and he just broke up wit his gf like 3 weeks ago...&& now were talking ALOT more...we talked before but it wuz like 3 days out of a 7day week....but ne way now he wants me to do sumthing with him...(sexually)....I want to but Idk becuz we dont go out or ne thing...but I think I luv him and maybe if I do this..he'll like me more! But then a part of me sayz no, he's just going to use me and never ask me out or ne thing. HELP!

2007-12-18 09:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been engaged for 2 months, just recently we starting talking about money matters etc......things that we want to discuss before we walk down the aisle....
truth is....
He has a property that is foreclosing, over 32k in credit card debt, credit scores not so great, only 5000.00 cash to contribute to the wedding right now.... He is currently renting a home right now.

I own a condo, have no credit card debt , and 25,000 cash to contribute to our wedding. Since our families are huge we are going to have about 450 guests....

He wanted us to budget about 42,000 for the wedding , but i'm the one contributing the most cash right now. I'm starting to feel a little insecure......
its not fair that he has all this debt carrying over into the marriage. am I going to be responsible for paying off his debts after we marry? I know you should combine finances after marriage, but I'm not exactly feeling good about paying off debts he incurred before i ever came into his life...

2007-12-18 09:44:37 · 22 answers · asked by kiki 2 in Weddings

Still dark in Los Angeles when my phone rings
It’s early drizzly morning.
My alarm clock blares like a megaphone
Who could be calling? …Yet somehow I just know it’s her.

I hear the gentle voice say “Honey..?”
She missed me cause I overslept
5 minutes late to call her and say “Good morning sayang”
5 eternal minutes Is all that she could take

My girl what for are you so far from me
Great distance though makes me love you more each day
I will see you at the airport soon my love
I only pray we both can wait till May...

So, I fall asleep with her sweet face smiling back from the screen
And I wake thinking of her even before my eyes open
She loves me for the retard that I am
I don’t know why, but fear to question her

2007-12-18 09:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my crush & i were flirting a lot & it was goin really well. he's definitely into me. but one day we were teasin ea. other & we both went a lil too far & upset each other. since then we've apologized but i'm really quiet around him cuz i'm afraid of sayin the wrong thing now. but i always catch him lookin at me & he's been tellin his friends about me. i think he's confused & i really want him to know that i'm still interested in him. what's something i can do in the 2 days before vacation to fix this??? i was thinkin of givin him an xmas present... nothing fancy, just something that relates to one of our inside jokes.

2007-12-18 09:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by kmkween24217 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 and my ex is 31. I loved him very much during our 6 year relationship, but my feelings have faded (which is why he is still an "Ex"). The reason I lost my feelings for him was because he kept promising that we'd get engaged. He'd say wait till this summer, wait til I get myself together financially (he's a doctor by the way), wait til New Year's, wait unitl after I come back from this trip, etc, etc. Once, I even gave him an ultimatum telling him that if he backed out, I would leave. He told me he would get me a ring, then the next day he changed his mind. I had already told people and everything! I was terribly embarrassed. So we broke up the last time he flaked on his promise, and I just said "f" him. I havent' moved on per say, but I don't even think about him anymore. Today he called me and said he took a trip to "get away" and think. He called me baby and said we need to talk. Do you think he might actually commit this time or am I in store for a let down?

2007-12-18 09:40:36 · 14 answers · asked by Just gorgeous dahling 4 in Singles & Dating

A woman who lives far away, we wrote and i called her, she called me. She used to write me a lot. Now there is little to nothing. She makes excuses and says her pc is broken or she is so busy. yet, I look at myspace and i see that she has signed on. She went on about how she could not message me. i got that fixed. Yet she never leaves me messages, she rarely texts me. I sent her a Xmas card i made. I am an artist and I made this from my heart for her. She has not even said thank you or anything. this has upset me and I feel like she is playing games with me. i have been mistreated by women all my life. And this really upsets me because its just more of the same. i am unappreciated and taken for granted. i didn't do anything wrong. nor did I write her all of the time. So i dont want the "you creeped her out" excuse from women. that would suggest, as always, that the man has done something wrong.

2007-12-18 09:40:14 · 3 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Singles & Dating

Moley and stop myself from ranting on without let up about my pubescent infatuations to the point of making all my contacts want to strangle themselves with their own nosehair to avoid hearing anymore of my vacuous semi senile loved up ranting.

2007-12-18 09:39:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone how are yall. I hope everyone is doing well. Ok i need major advice/help. Ok so there is this guy that I really like. He is from Pakistan. He is the sweetest guy i've ever met. I've known him like since the 5th week after school was already in. I dont think he knows that I really like him or how I really feel about him. I think he likes me too but he's giving me mixed signals. I am african americn girl that is really shy, and nice. He is engaged but i dont think he likes the girl he is engaged to, she isn't in the United States, but i think he really likes me alot too. I once heard him say he doesn't like his wife to be to sum1. We are very good friends but I am still to shy to tell him how I feel. But idk maybe he feels the same way i do and is too shy to tell me. I dont know much about his culture either. And soon I want to ask him to prom and maybe be my new bf. What should I do >___< !!!

The guy is from pakistain, he doesn't speak very good........

2007-12-18 09:39:18 · 15 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife have been together for about 3 years but we have been seperated for the last two months. Lately she has lost her job because of an angry outburst. She is always changing her mind about things even her relationships. Sometimes she give me trouble seeing our shild and sometimes not. Her sister has a mental disorder that is gentic and she is 29 and lives at home and doesnt do anything. My wife refuese to sign custody agreement or divorce papers. When we argue she always very resitant to questioning then opens up latter. She is very spiteful sometimes, she always give me hard time, and can never negioite or be flexible. She doesnt like to be helped with anything unless she ask. she thinks she need a therrapist. she changes her opion alot.She says that she hates me sometimes. she said that she wantrd to kill herslef after she lost her job. I have been paying child support, we lieve seperately becaus e she moved out to her mothers house.she 23 and im 23.Could she have a mental diord

2007-12-18 09:39:03 · 15 answers · asked by ace82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the paperwork done. I can't afford another lawyer that does nothing. I have been seperated 6 years with a child. I have nothing to show for it and 3 lawyers later I declared bancrupcy and no child support! I got the paperwork but don't know where to go next. I refuse to try another lawyer...help!

2007-12-18 09:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by Hester, Rachele 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 09:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by elleB 1 in Friends

My boyfriend said that I was one of the few people he'd never dreamt about. It kind of bothered me, do you think it's signifigant? What could it mean? We've been dating for awhile.

2007-12-18 09:36:34 · 3 answers · asked by LoneliestGirlInTheWorld 1 in Singles & Dating