Hello everyone how are yall. I hope everyone is doing well. Ok i need major advice/help. Ok so there is this guy that I really like. He is from Pakistan. He is the sweetest guy i've ever met. I've known him like since the 5th week after school was already in. I dont think he knows that I really like him or how I really feel about him. I think he likes me too but he's giving me mixed signals. I am african americn girl that is really shy, and nice. He is engaged but i dont think he likes the girl he is engaged to, she isn't in the United States, but i think he really likes me alot too. I once heard him say he doesn't like his wife to be to sum1. We are very good friends but I am still to shy to tell him how I feel. But idk maybe he feels the same way i do and is too shy to tell me. I dont know much about his culture either. And soon I want to ask him to prom and maybe be my new bf. What should I do >___< !!!
The guy is from pakistain, he doesn't speak very good........
2007-12-18 09:39:18 · 15 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S they have prearranged marriages in his culture so i believe he was engaged before he was even born
2007-12-18 09:39:53 · update #1
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2007-12-18 09:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Juicy Girl.♥♪ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are in a tough situation! your probably right about him liking you but if he is in an arranged marriage what do you do? he could live by very strict beliefs and culture which means he wouldnt ignore his parents wishes. maybe you should ask him a question like "how far would you go for love" or " would you marry outside of you culture?" this way you can get a feel for how far you should take this thing. good luck.
2007-12-18 09:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki from K-town 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. um from Pakistan too ..
to get him .. be more close for 4 to 5 days and then suddenly go off or off the school for two days .. and he should be informed that you ill .. then on the very next day of school purpose her .. and I bet .. he'll be with you ..
and as far as his culture or our culture .. before purposing .. ask him questions about his culture and try to act in that way .. ask about his parents .. show more care to his parents then him .. then he'll think that you love his family too ..
Pakistani guy mostly want that girl who cares for him and most importantly his family too .. and be like his best friend ..
2007-12-18 09:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Virus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is Muslim. am Muslim to, am from Kuwait, which far from Pakistan but their are many Pakistanis people living in my country. any way, Muslim men of-course like girls like any man in the word, they like shy girls, who respect the man and listen to him. i don't know if he is going to stay in the states for ever or some years. and what about his wife, she is also a human, with feeling. he went to her and as her for marriage even if it prepared marriage. he made love with her and have her his feeling and love and the same thing with the wife. he likes you because he find a good woman from the states with similar properties of what he want. i don't know its real dilemma. if i like some one i will not leave him, but at the same time i will not thing about a married man. its up to you.
2007-12-18 10:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by fruit1981kw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about relationships. Ask him if he sees himself with anyone else besides his wife. You can also ask who he is interested in. Guys from other countries give hints that they like a girl without evening knowing it. So take his hints into consideration!
2007-12-18 09:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl!!
well i think that u should talk with him and see that's going on, you don't lose nothing... he might like you as the same you like him, don't let your shyness stop you from something that you will regret later....
And about the engagement... he didn't decide to get married with that girl.... he might like you and later on he will fight ageist that...
It's better to let him know how you feel, you can ave something good from that!!
Have hope, but remember anything can happen either good or bad for the moment!!
2007-12-18 10:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he's engaged you should probably leave him alone just think how you would feel if someone was hitting on your fiance... and he's old enough to make his own decisions so if i were you i would wait until he's not involved then just simply tell him how you feel
2007-12-18 09:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
i read your matter i can understand what type of importance one have to whome you got attetchment.
i shall advise you to just open your heart in front of him and you should tell him what you think about clearly and boldly.
Don't waist you time and dont wait for oppertunity all you have to do that you just go plz go and talk to haim be quick and talk to him.
your wellwisher
attie
2007-12-18 21:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by attie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know him as a person better and learn his culture.
2007-12-18 09:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is let god lead u the way. may god bless u 2
2007-12-18 09:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by the hot chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him, what's the worst that could happen compared to the best that could happen?
2007-12-18 09:41:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋