ok. friday my boyfriend wants me to come over and go to the mall or something with him but i don't want to. i am so afraid of his parents. what should i do?
2007-12-18 09:47:08 · 22 answers · asked by tay!or 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go.
2007-12-18 09:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Steve is cool 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you'd rather him come over to your house and then head off to the mall or something. Tell him that it has nothing to do with him, but that you are scared of his parents. If you want a relationship with him bad enough, though, then you will be willing to work out the kinks with his parents. Try having dinner with your boyfriend and his parents one night. Get to know them. I don't know the whole story, but I'm sure your boyfriend will understand and that you and his parents will get along fine once you get to know them and they get to know you.
2007-12-18 17:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afaid of his parents then go! get over the fear of them if his parents are just weird and not normal people and you are truthful about them being strange then say oh heck no.
However you're just as good as anyone else on the planet and you won't be with them after you get to the mall...you'll be with your b/f so think about it It could be fun!
2007-12-18 17:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tony Burke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key in a good relationship. So you need to either talk to him about how you feel and what to do about it OR get in a realtionship where you can talk to each other openly. Sometimes it is hard to say things like fear of parents but you are right in not putting yourself in a situation where you feel uncomfortable.
2007-12-18 17:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by charityislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not yet comfortable around his parents and ask him if it's ok if you two meet at the mall.
2007-12-18 17:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by drivn2excelchery 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get over the fear of his parents--they are just people. If you end up marrying him they will always be there--besides you are more important than they are--he was born with them, but he chose you--thus you are the important one.
2007-12-18 17:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nemo the geek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him no, or if you want to be a little easier on him, say you're busy. Myabe tell him you have a christmas party, or you could tell him you're sick. If it's his parents you're afraid of, then you could try going somewhere where you don't have to see them, or you could ask him to go to your house.
2007-12-18 17:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Thanks for the offer but I'm busy tht night." And then u continue the convo. duh. If u dont wanna do something say NO! its easy as pie. And dont b afraid of ur bfs parents. U should rly get to kno them and stuff. U ned to have a good connection with his parents cuz they r ur bfs family.
2007-12-18 17:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rawr I'm a turtle? ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you need to tell him. It shouldnt be a big deal. Maybe you need to get to know his parents so that you are not scared anymore. Just tell him
2007-12-18 17:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by cherryinked 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh dont go what does u going to the mall have to do with his parents?
2007-12-18 17:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're scared of his parents. He'll probably explain whatever actions they did to make you scared. Or, he'll try to have you around them as little as possible
2007-12-18 17:51:52 · answer #11 · answered by Danger2Society 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋