I have only have 4 people answer this and I need more answers! I'll Ask again! okay, I was writing something until Kaijor (My exboyfriend) saw it and look at it. he was asking me, "Who's Jake?" and his friends, Zack and Cameron said that he must be my imaginary boyfriend. I said to them, "He's not my imaginary boyfriend! Now, shut up with that!". so after that, Kaijor keeps making funny faces at his friends and sometimes shows it to me and staring at me. I can't stop laughing at him because of that! so when I was doing something in the computer lab, he kept asking me, "who's Jake?" and I said, "Why do you want to know?" and he said that he doesn't want me to get hurt again just like my 4th exboyfriend Sunny did to me. so Should I tell him that Jake is my boyfriend or not? if not, what should I do about him? plz be honest about this and NO STUPID OR PERVERT/RETARDED ANSWERS! Thanks so much for answering my question and I will check on this later!
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-18 09:52:22 · 18 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, Jake is my current boyfriend right now.
2007-12-18 09:52:48 · update #1
okay, that will work except that I'm in a long-distance relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-18 12:58:57 · update #2
I'm in a long-distance relationship right now and how will that plan work, Su?
2007-12-18 13:00:05 · update #3
Boys suck, I know. If Kaijor keeps bugging you about Jake, he is either trying to get a reaction out of you, or he's jealous. My guess is you can tell which. If pesters you cause you get all worked up and pissed off, just ignore him. If he is curious, just answer with a "Jakes a good friend of mine." or if your ready just tell him "Oh, he's just a guy I'm seeing." If he continues bugging you feel free to ignore him. Haha one thing...if youre looking for a way to piss him off, next time he asks "who's jake???" ask "Why do you want to know...looking for a new boy toy?" or something like "Why...you interested? I can set you up!" He will probably get flustered and leave you alone from then on. Good luck. :)
2007-12-18 12:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Aryn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there any compelling (really good) reason why these people need to know any of your business? There is great value to keping some information close to the cuff...not because it's some deep dark secret, but because (as you correctly asked him) you're not sure why he needs to know, or what he will do with the information. Let me teach you a "guy" trick...we're famous for this, and I only recently discovered that women aren't necessarily aware of (or good at) this tactic without benefit of practice. It's called "zoning out", and from the outside looking in, it appears that nothing you say to a zoned out person gets through...he'll look at you with a blank stare without saying a word. Now, they bug you with the "Who's Jake?" question to get a rise out of you. They really don't care who Jake is, it just pisses you off to be badgered and they know it, so they keep doing it because they're enjoying your reaction. An emotionless and silent blank stare robs them of the enjoyment they seek, and your refusal to answer any questions robs them of information to continue fueling the hardtime they're trying to give you. So, practice "zoning out". It's a lot of fun, and it works wonders!
This wasn't a particularly retarded answer, was it? Good luck, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-18 10:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is none of his business who Jake is. Kaifor is trying to get you upset. Just ignore Kaifor and his friends.
They know what buttons to push to get you mad. You took the time to ask this question, and a young heart needs to have a respectful answer. Giving respect to you and your feelings I answer you. The other boys could have feelings for you, and in their immature way, bother you. If this persist, you should tell one of your teachers that they are harassing you and won't leave you alone. Don't let them think they can get the best of you. Boys can be cruel at this age. Remember that you deserve the best life has to offer. You don't need this kind of stuff bothering you. You have enough on your mind, with classes and everything else to worry about. I also advise you to follow the advise of Captain S. I could not have said it better myself.
God Bless You and always be good to yourself.
2007-12-18 11:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that Jake is your boyfriend. You are obviously playing games with your x. It's time to be honest and stop messing around.
2007-12-18 09:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by always an opinion 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think your ex boyfriend still likes you and wants to kno as much about this other guy as possible i think he really does care.....BUT unless you want this to be a love triangle with 2 men fighting over you (i kno that sounds nice but its not) keep u and your ex's conversation to a minimal be polite if he really wants to kno who jake is say he is a very good friend of mine dont go all into detail about your new love life..... Good luck!!
2007-12-18 09:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by GREATGRL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very immature question. Tell him that you are dating Jake. If you are not ready to tell people about dating him, you aren't mature enough to date.
2007-12-18 12:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him about Jake
2007-12-18 09:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by solelone 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kaijor? Hahahahahaha!
2007-12-18 09:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Abe 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Probably just tell him. It might get things over with.
2007-12-18 10:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you not expect stupid answers, when you ask stupid questions? Do whatever you want. Who are we to tell you? It's not important, and your begging for help is really pathetic.
2007-12-18 09:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋