A woman who lives far away, we wrote and i called her, she called me. She used to write me a lot. Now there is little to nothing. She makes excuses and says her pc is broken or she is so busy. yet, I look at myspace and i see that she has signed on. She went on about how she could not message me. i got that fixed. Yet she never leaves me messages, she rarely texts me. I sent her a Xmas card i made. I am an artist and I made this from my heart for her. She has not even said thank you or anything. this has upset me and I feel like she is playing games with me. i have been mistreated by women all my life. And this really upsets me because its just more of the same. i am unappreciated and taken for granted. i didn't do anything wrong. nor did I write her all of the time. So i dont want the "you creeped her out" excuse from women. that would suggest, as always, that the man has done something wrong.
2007-12-18 09:40:14 · 3 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women are just utter scum, sadly boys and men aren ot taught that growing up and we learn the hard way by being abused and mistreated. in the end we end up analyzing ourselves in a society that tells us that we are at fault for everything anyway. but in most cases when a guy is himself, that is the worse of all. i don't know if I should try to communicate with this woman. i do not want to seem desperate or give her the power to dictate my life. its just that when I give someone something I have made and they reject it or fail to even say thank you at the very least, that gets to me.
2007-12-18 09:43:04 · update #1
looks like that she hasn't talk to you, so you should forget about her and try to move on.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-18 09:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Awww. Sorry to hear how she hurt you, but she's really not that worth the heartbreak. You may like her, but you don't even know her in real life so she won't be able to do much for you anyway. And obviously, she's lost interest or has "gotten too busy" for you, which always hurts. Just move on. You'll find a wonderful woman who loves you dearly and is loyal and commited to you. <3 Hopefully, she won't live 2931204 miles away. =]
2007-12-18 17:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't get the hints she was giving you - very big hints, I must say. Then you sent a Christmas card anyway. So you didn't understand, or wish to understand, that she lost interest at some point, and the communication was over. Don't take it as a statement about you - it was just one of those things that don't work out.
2007-12-18 17:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋