To cut long story.I mistakingly accused a friend of taking some money from my room.I found out weeks later (last week)I was wrong (i found it).I have been to her house to apologize she won't see me.I have emailed her and txted her.Before I went to college we were such good friends.I have tried to say sorry so many times this week I don't know if there is anything else I can do.
2007-12-18 10:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you hurt her feelings. There is not a lot you can do now apart from apologize. If she doesn't want to know you anymore you can't change that.Lesson learned from this, never jump to conclusions, never fall out over money.
2007-12-18 10:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by **** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of my friends ever accused me of stealing their money I know I would find it very hard to forgive them and would be very upset.
You should give her some time. I would send her a proper, handwritten letter telling her how sorry you are and end it by saying that you completely understand how she must feel and that you would understand if she didn't forgive you and that you will leave her alone now unless she wishes to get in touch. That way the ball is in her court. Hopefully she will come around, if you are close friends.
xx Emmie
2007-12-18 18:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best way is to let her be, let her calm down shes still annoyed at you accusing her for stealing your money. Youve done your bit and sad sorry so its sort of up to her to return that and say its ok, let her be for a few days and see if u get any return from her, if not txt her again and say, look am sorry for wrongly assusing you of stealing my money, it was my mistake that i never looked hard enough for it and i just jumped to conclusion, shes prob missing u as a friend to but her head is all over the place, so let her calm down and see from there
2007-12-18 18:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by chris_0000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter.
Dear (friend),
I am so sorry, i wronfully accused u. :( i am sooooooooooo sorrryyyyyy. I hope we can be friends agian because i need u and i hope we can move on. If not i understand but i will still keep apolagizing. Plz i am sooooo sorrry.
I love and miss u
Love, your sad, (sorry) friend
Ps. I am truly sorry.
Something like that. I lost all my friends once, even though i wasnt in the wrong. I wrote letters to them and guess wat? were bf"s
2007-12-18 18:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Secrets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without doubt you have caused unpleasantness on the basis of mere suspicion!
Friends talk to each other,they communicate.
Try to arrange another meeting to correct your error with the person and declare respectfully your apology.
2007-12-19 02:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you be friends with someone if you thought for even a second that they could steal from you?
try and remind her of why you were friends in the first place, apologise that you ever entertained such a stupid notion, and don't doubt her again
2007-12-18 19:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by mimzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw that's a shame. The best thing would probably be to leave it for a while and let her come round in her own time - she knows you're very sorry and you can't do any more x
2007-12-18 18:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by hortense h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time may heal...
patience may heal
persistance may just make things worse....
this kind of false accusation can hurty badly and the hurt can go quite deep.
you might need to address the issue,
but you could always try to go through a mutual friend too!
2007-12-18 18:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Emma Jean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you need to do is txt her or summat once more apolagizing and leave it for about a week because then ul just look like ur nagging them and it will give her time to calm down and for you to make a good apolagie it should work.
2007-12-18 18:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Deppressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a proper old fashioned letter, you know, pen and paper.
Tell her how very sorry you are (again) and beg her forgiveness.
If she chooses not to forgive you, there's nothing you can do about it but chalk it up to experience.
2007-12-18 18:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋