I live in california and she lives in canada.we have a strong relationship.she is related to my sister in law..my mom wants a girl from india. I know i will never marry anyone but her nor will she. my sister in law's family has lied to both sides about how i am and how she is..they have portrayed her as a party girl and me as a player. I cant live with out her but she does not want to run away..she wants to do it the right way. her family thinks she has stopped talking to me. my family knows i love her and want to marry her. i just want to fix things. i feel it is very unfair. i am punjabi sikh in fact we both are . no religions or caste issues..i dont understand what the problems is. my mom thinks it wont work out with her but has never met my girl or even talked to her.. she is basing it on things my sister in law has said..i really want to fix the siutation i neeed some help..i will do watever it takes to fix it..we both finished school last year and feel ready for marriage
2007-12-18 09:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by SACT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sact.
You have a job on your hands. I would get together with my girl-friend and talk this over very carefully. You both need to have a strategy to speak to both of your parents separately. You must convince them the absolute truth about your relationship first, and secondly your sister-in-law lied to both of them fabricating these things they were told. The feelings that you both have for each other are sacred, and nobody has the right to attempt to jeopardize that relationship.
You need to start of with a good honest relationship with your GF. I think that is very important, and I have a feeling you both do also. Part of starting off right is being honest with both of your parents, and convinced them what they heard was false, and you want them to know the truth. Good Luck, Best to you both. Butchrgt
2007-12-18 11:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Butch. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the woman you love and prove everyone wrong!! Be happy, life is too short to let people stand in your way!
2007-12-18 10:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lv Dr. 4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should introduce her to your family and she, hers.
2007-12-18 10:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋