I really like this girl but she doesnt like me. i asked her out a few weeks back but she said no. She has had alot of boyfriends not including me and i have had alot of girlfirends. What do i do now? should i ask her out? should i wait? i dont know what to do before some other boy gets her.
2007-12-18 10:02:49 · 22 answers · asked by I need answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could always try and become friends with her and see what happens. you never know, she could find something she likes in u
2007-12-18 10:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by [off the deep end] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time takes it toll my friend.
Moving on isnt necessarily the best solution.
She may be playing games with you, wanting you to play along. I personally do not do that, but some girls find it amusing and begin to like the fact you stay around after they put you though hell.
Keep it simple. Tell her hi, ask her how she is. Small talk will work wonders for the most part. If she responds with a smile or says more than the usual "good", then you're on your way.
TAKE IT SLOW! If you start seeing results, dude, dont even rush back into it. Take your time and work the magic, if you're chasing her, let her make the moves.
Give a little take a little. If you tell her hi, next time let her do it. Dont give all the effort, put out as much as she does.
If some other guy does happen to get her, you stay right where you are. IF shes in a bad mood, tell her it'll be ok, comfort her, tell her she deserves better. Let her know you're gonna do it, without coming right out and saying it.
Everytime she smiles she's gonna picture you for making her happy.
But if it doesn't work out, time will heal you up and you now are on to another girl to give the world.
Hope this helps man
2007-12-18 10:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this is a bad
time to ask her out. She most likely
just got out of a stressful relationship,
and for now, just wants to stay single.
If you asked her out already, and she
turned down the offer, you should
probably just lay off. She is in an arkward
situation, and is confused about what
she wants.
The last thing she needs right now is
a new guy in her life..
Don't give up completely,
just give her some more time..
2007-12-18 10:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. The saying, "If it's meant to be, let it free and they will come back," kind of apply's to this scenario. No one is worth the time to wait for if they don't reciprocate those feelings. If in time she would like to date you, and you are still interested, then go ahead. But don't ever wait for someone because while you wait your life for this person, their life keeps passing you by without a care in the world. Good Luck man, I know it's tough but you'll be fine...
2007-12-18 10:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by harroldreyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might really like you, but doesn't want to dissapoint her friends because they don't like her. I'd try asking her out again and if she sayes no move on and start dating some other girl. Maybe make her jealous. If she doesn't say something then forget about her. She isn't the girl for you.
2007-12-18 10:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make her wanna like you!
If you change your style to make you look even hotter.Then she will fall in love with you but then there will be other girls falling in love with you too.
Or you should start socializing with other girls she may become jelous.
Or...
Be yourself.
If youre ugly.
She will probally say no if she go for the outside of you.
&...
I can tell you that theres probally anolther girl crushing on you & you dont know it.
2007-12-18 11:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Go for your dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man if she doesn't like you im really sorry but you've just gotta move on. Ive had my share of that problem but there's really nothing you can do. If your desperate then do your best to win her over (it usually doesnt work), but dont be cheesy about it...just be smooth.
Hope i helped
2007-12-18 10:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Christian T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by nastasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she says that she doesn't like you, then you should just leave it alone for a while. Be you, and show her what she is missing, you never know if you can change her mind
2007-12-18 10:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a bottle of vodka to ease your misery.
Just kidding...
There's nothing you can do about it really,
if she doesn't like you then there's nothing you can do to change that.
Try getting over her and move on,
I'm sure you'll find someone just for you one day.
2007-12-18 10:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get with another girl to some place she can see you. get her jealous. then ask her out again. start dating her BFF, if she is still not into you. start dating a popular girl, who she is jealous of. show her that you can get any girl you want, and she will start liking you.
2007-12-18 10:10:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋