I'm sick and very exhausted. My mamma is in Pasadena I live all the way in LA near Inglewood. I'm in glendale, so my moms is closer. Well I'm wondering if I should go to my moms or to my place. We live with his parents so I would really get some quiet at my moms.
It's raining and I would have to go on the traffic jam on the 110.
which hand?
Moms- warm, quiet, nourishment. Closer, maybe safer to drive to. Fold out couch.
My place- not so quiet, my hubby would be there, further drive. My own bed? Hubby wont get home till 9pm which I expect to be in bed by then.
what do you think. one night only
2007-12-18 11:37:32 · 7 answers · asked by MS.veronica 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hope it makes sense, I'm tired
2007-12-18 11:37:57 · update #1
I agree with Marina and Sips, and here's another thought. You said you're sick AND exhausted. That doesn't make for a very good driving combo. On that alone, and as a parent of a grown up, I would say, go to mother at once. If she's willing it will thrill her no end to have a quiet moment with you around.
And I'm sure hubby will be ok, even give him a chance to miss you a little, eh? (My spouse would not even notice if I was not in the bed until the alarm goes off, such a deep sleeper). Even if he doesn't like it, it's your body and your health and you will be the better wife if you are well than if you jepordize your well being by driving home under such conditions.
Feel better soon and good choice for not driving further than you must in your physical and mental state. Bravo and blessings :)
2007-12-18 11:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the traffic before going home, if it's bad call your husband you will be spending the night with your mom.
Three nights a week with mom will save you lots of gas. You can take your husband to nice dinner on the money you save on gas.
2007-12-19 00:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to mom's. Hubby will understand, if he doesn't, tell him to get over it, that you were sick and needed rest. Nothing makes you rejuvenate better than a little time with mum. Sleep well !
2007-12-18 19:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by busymomkaren 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Moms! Once my bro was tired and thot he was fine and fell asleep at the wheel and it was rele bad. The shorter the drive the better. Not childish at all
2007-12-18 19:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you've weighed it up, if your hubby doesnt mind spending the night alone then go spend the one night with you mum. call your hubby and tell him you want to spend some time with your mum and ask if hes ok being alone tonight and etc. if hes ok with it then do it.
2007-12-18 19:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Y notttt shes ur mom
2007-12-18 20:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crash at your mother's house for the night.
2007-12-18 19:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Marina 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋