im just having such a rough time right now with my confidence im so up and down with it. people tell me im very pretty which is a huge compliment im flattered, but i dont see it or i have a hard time seeing it sometimes. i think it has alot to do with guys(which it shouldnt i know) i fall so hard and they just want some from me. even though am i saving myself for someone special, i was about to give myself to this recent guy who ended up breaking my heart. which brings me back to my confidence it makes me look in the mirror and think whats wrong with me???? my friends just dont understand why i dont have a boyfriend. Im 20 years old and sometimes i feel so odd and left out, but thats a side of me i dont show alot of people. i had to get all this out.
2007-12-18 15:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't listen to gorge.bu. Just wait for the right guy. Eventually he will come along. In the meantime, work on yourself. Go to the library and check out some self help books or join a womens group.
2007-12-18 15:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by India 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to place a higher value on yourself. That's called self-esteem. Guys can sense what you think about yourself and take their cues from the you. They will be as good as you are. You need to hold your head up, be friendly and confident, and go for what you want, while being true to your own beliefs. A guy will come along that wants to get to know you based on personality not just what he can get. Be patient.
2007-12-18 15:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem people used to tell me that I was pretty and I didn't believe them either. You just need to remind yourself everyday how special you are. Don't worry about your friends.And don' worry about not having a boyfriend. Trust me they are not all that great. Just wait until your confidence is up. And keep waiting for that specia someone
2007-12-18 15:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Keisha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very cool of you a lot of people dont have the same ideas but you should accept your self and feel good about your self no matter what anyone says. if people cant accept you for who u are than they miss out not you. i am also saving myself 4 someone special and it feels good to know i have something that others dont, the self restraint to wait. just think about it
2007-12-18 15:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by timo_28_90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get ready in the morning...
cranck up the music and take ur time getting ready..
when u put effort into looking good it makes u feel good.
the music also helps to help u get into a good mood=]]
2007-12-18 15:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should psot a photo ,some girls worry too much .
If you cannot figure out who is just after sex then that it tough .
What aI do know most guys will cut and run if they get something in the first few weeks .
You could be setting your sights too high.
2007-12-18 15:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from the internet and read a novel.
2007-12-18 15:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by whyme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋