I went out to this bar and i got up to go to the bathroom and this guy in front of me turned around and said "Oh wow you are ugly... definietly no going to be with you..." I was so upset i just turned around and left. The worst part is it is not the first time someone has said that to me..
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I had almost decided that it would be good to stop trying but i thought i would give this a shot. Should i stop trying? And just face the fact that i am ugly...
2007-12-18 18:50:27 · 52 answers · asked by tree319 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude.. you are not ugly.. Your just a little big size.. But thats not really a problem.. Who cares what that guys say.. Move on with your life, and live it.. Don't let anybody stop you from doing what your doing... You are not ugly, just lose pounds and you'll be as good as you can get..
2007-12-18 19:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
That guy or all those guys are crazy! You are not ugly, in fact, I feel you are quite attractive.
Listen, they dont know that a woman's beauty has to be found much beyond the depths of her skin, and a woman is much more than just looks alone. They dont know about women. They dont know how to treat women. They dont know how to respect or love women.
Be happy you are far away from them and they chose to give you a miss.
You should not stop trying, but at the same time dont present yourself as if you are trying. Just hang out in places you think you would find men oif your choice and I am sure sometime soon you would find a nice guy who would respect and love you.
In the meanwhile if you think you would do better with some changes in your presentability or appearance in terms of dress or style or less make-up etc, you may do that. You can also trim down a bit to make sure you have a longer healthier life, that will make you look gorgeous and men will come after you.
All the best, Take care...
Merry Christmas and a Very Happy New Year to You..
2007-12-18 19:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't give up, sweetie!!!! You have a great smile and a pretty face ( what I would not do for nice even teeth like yours!!).. I cannot see the color of your hair clearly, it looks to be a medium blonde. Have you ever thought of jazzing it up a bit? Even when I was a larger gal (326 pounds) people would comment that my hair was gorgeous because of the color. A sort of ice-breaker. For what it is worth, I think you are quite pretty and if I were a fellow, I would want to be with you. I hope however that you find someone that is worth more than just going home from a bar with. A real keeper. You deserve real love!! Good luck to you--MIssDelanne
2007-12-18 18:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Delanne 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy was probably drunk, and when you get an ****** like that, mix in 5 or 6 beers(or whatever he was drinking) NOTHING good can ever come from that.
You look a lot like my sister-in-law, hopefully your personality is better, but I don't think you're ugly. BTW. DO NOT go to bars trying to get with someone...
Most likely, if a guy is at a bar(unless just having some fun like a night club) he's probably a drunk who goes there a lot and has a tab of 2 million dollars...lol jk, but he probably owes a lot!
2007-12-19 05:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are so ugly on the inside they are obsessed with beauty on the outside, because they have to have someway to get away from their own disgusting heart that they even find hard to live with. So feel sorry for them, know they have this real problem that drives them to be vain, and shallow, and value the opinion of the beautiful heart, that will also see you as beautiful inside and out, because models are a spectacle to the world, to be on display and to not be alive, the same example is in a sports car, so overmade that it is no use to drive around in, but the car that never lets you down, is the true value and who you should love and the person will shine in delight and know they look exactly as you dream them to be..
2007-12-19 01:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by prophecy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not ugly. Being happy and confident with who you are will shine through to people. There are a lot of shallow people out there, who aren't willing to look at somebody if they don't look like a supermodel. You can either choose to be happy with your body, or to change it. Either way, you have a cute face, and a great smile. Dress for your body, and let your personality and confidence be what attracts people. People like the guy at the bar who was rude to you are not the people you want to be with anyway.
I think there is a perfect match for everybody, some people just have to wait longer to find theirs. Keep your hopes up! Your guy will come around.
2007-12-18 18:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Katie A 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what could you possibly mean stop trying? The only reason people would say that must be because 1) they are absolutely as$ holes and 2) you're emanating a big lack in self confidence and as$ hole thrive off of that
people say those things to make them selves feel better. Just be confident. I would say a lack in self confidence is ugly and Confident is beautiful no matter what and it feels a lot better than worrying about what other people think about you. be gorgeous! :)
2007-12-18 18:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I looked at the pictures and I'm not going to say that I think you are beautiful.I don't think you are repulsive either.I don't now your personality so I can't give you extra points there either.As far as the guy in the restroom,next time tell him not to flatter himself because it is YOU who wouldn't go with HIM and you wouldn't even fart in his direction!!!I know that he hurt your feelings but try not to focus so much on what he said and focus on all of the positive things people have said about you and are still saying ....take a look at the answers you are receiving!!!
2007-12-18 19:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Juliana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aw girl ur so cute and you have the prettiest smile ever!!
All girls eventually get some immature cocky A**hole trying to bring her down for no reason.... Thats just the way some guys are.,,, It's happened to me before and i'm 18, & stuff like that happens to some of the prettiest girls i know too. you know you're pretty, so WHO CARES??
Plus, you said you were at a bar, so he was probably drunk.
Ur gorgeous!!! Just go out and have fun and let loose and don't let losers get you down!! xo
2007-12-18 18:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Han 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geez, ppl can suck can't they? Your not ugly. Your a little hefty, so am I so I am not knocking you....you have a beautiful smile and pretty eyes. I would just work with what I had and show that cleavage, maybe try a little more makeup (actually I don't know about that, hard to tell from those photos). The cleavage thing, I do that because I feel I might as well - it draws attention away from my tummy....lol!
2007-12-18 18:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋