How do you cope this?

Question

i mean, losing someone special ,your mom, dad, brothers, sisters how do you ever cope mentally if something daily like this happens, how can you cope someone special which you had a great time with, like how could i ever cope if i would lose my mom?
any ideas, but like saying they're in heaven is just not proven, mean you always wander..is there a heaven , am i really gonna see them back ever again :'( what do you guys think?

Answer 1

When something like this happens in your life, you just have to get it over. If you lose your dear person like mom you can't undo anything, you just must keep moving on. It is really hard and seems to be like you might feel so weak that you can't get it over,but you have no choose. There's a saying like: what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. It sounds ridiculous but it's true. I've lost my mom 12years ago, i was a kid than, I thought it will kill me, but with time it made me stronger. Stronger in the way that I understood that I can't undo anything even if I wanted it sooooo much. One thing:you must choose to understand,if you won't this will torture you the whole your life, you must accept it and move on.

Answer 2

I don't know if there's a heaven or something like it. Nobody knows! But I still hope that there is... I don't believe (as in a religion) but I just hope that there is a place where are lovings go to after the have left this world. Its kind of a comfort to me, just knowing that they will be at a lovely place (like heaven) with no hate and only love. Where the sun always shines, where the are no poor and rich.
It gives me a lot of comfort of believing this. I couldnt stand the thought that they would be nowhere or at somewhere at an awfull place.

And besides that... You still have a the wonderful memories and you carry this lovely people for the rest of your life in your heart!!

I know that someday I will have to let go my mother, father, brother, grandparents. But there is only one thing were I have some big troubles with is: my hubbie! I'm just so terrified that some day there will be an accident and that he will leave me alone on this planet. I never want to lose him, he's my protection. So its going to be really difficult to get over that. But we all have to survive... Life is too short to be unhappy and sad. Life has to be the best experience ever!! We have to enjoy every minute of it.

Answer 3

Here is what I think:
We all, people, animals plants, are interconnected in some special way. I kept a diary for 36 years and people even visited me on the same days without planning it. I was only aware of it coz it was a 5 year diary and I could see the years entries previous.

We all will be reunited after life here. We have a source and a creator and an afterlife. Near death experiences show us that. Read some NDE's.

Coping is hard. But death comes to us all. I lost my brother, grandfather, father and stepfather in a 2 year span. I thought I couldn't survive, but I did. We are much stronger in spirit than we think. Online support groups help. I chatted in and moderated TCF chat. It is VERY helpful to chat wiith others who have had losses.

Try to understand what love really is, and as you live, you will see that love is at the center of all good things, and love is our source and our destination.

Don't worry;)

Answer 4

I am greatful that i have never lost any one in life, that's important to me, but i know if i do, i will focus on the good things in life, but take some time to remember the person.

Answer 5

try not to think about things like that right now your too young,enjoy life.but usually time is the only thing that heals.