I have been having these ongoing internal issues with the fact that my bf chooses 2go out every week with mates & get drunk...stayin out till 4am. I talked 2him about it and said that the fact he feels the need to do it every week makes me feel uncomfortable and I don’t understand why.
His argument is that we spend a lot of time together and when the lads are in town he gets to see a lot of them all in one go etc. He said he feels that hes just trying 2ave best of both worlds as he doesn’t want 2lose his mates/ neglect them…says he needs his friends &that they mean alot to him.
Part of me knows hes right,cause even when he is out on a Sat night he’ll more times than not spend alot of the day with me &then we’ll likely have dinner 2gether as well before he heads out so I really don’t know what is wrong with me.
But in my mind when I know hes choosing to go out on a sat and get hammered I get all emotional and I don’t like it….dont know how to move past this…any advice?
2007-12-18
20:58:15
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here in the UK bars and clubs are now open till 4am x
2007-12-18
21:09:13 ·
update #1