I'm seeing two guys, which one should I choose?

Question

I'm seeing two guys at the current moment. I've been on dates with both of them, but we're not going out. Both of the guys know that I have been doing that. I also been in bed with both of the guys.

Guy #1: 19 years old. A freshmen in college. Works at T-Mobile right when he gets out of school. Knows the value of things. He makes me know that I have to work hard to earn things and that things are not so easily granted to you. Has very nice personality. He's not a cheater because his ex cheated on him various times so thats why he dumped her, they were in a 2 and a half year relationship. Drives a Neon Dodge. Does not like his family too much. Blond and blue eyes.

Guy#2: 18 years old. Also a freshmen in college. Works at Dave&Buster as a bartender. His friends like me very much. A lot of his things are granted to him, but works for stuff also. Loves his family, very close with them. Lives in a 6 bedroom house. Drives a Ford Mustang. Brown eyes with curly brown hair. Pays 4 eveyrthing

Answer 1

Keep both..

Answer 2

a few things i learned over the years

#1 never date a bartender
#2 never date someone with a showy car (mustang)
#3 a good family helps
#4 if a guy cheated once, always a cheater
#5 a guy who treats u as an equal is worth alot

using that u should be able to decide

Answer 3

YOU seems to be so materialistic
girl why don't you try to date yourself for a few months
then the choice my be easier, because if you get a chance to know yourself you might realized that guy #1 might not be for you after (why does he hate his family ) and guy # 2 might not be good as well because you are only with him for what you can get

Answer 4

Hmm, well that is hard, there must be one that you have stronger feelings for? Do they want you to choose? If not, maybe just wait till you can choose and keep seeing them both, let them know you are fine with not being too serious and they can date around too if they want.
they both sound great to me. It's really all up to what you want and feel. Good luck. You sound like a lucky girl. :)

Answer 5

I like guy#2 better because of the whole family thing and he pays for stuff for you. Guy #1 sounds okay but I don't think it sounds like he treats you as well as the second guy.

Answer 6

#2 if a man is not family oriented then he probably wont care to much for you....my mom says you can always tell how a guy is goin to treat u by the way he treats ur mother...no no no not guy
#1 for sure sounds tempting but no think long term how old are u.

Answer 7

This is a lifetime decision that you have to make by yourself. Be patient, the serious one will propose to you. The two can not be completely identical. Think of their character, vision, caring attitude, love etc and ask yourself who you will like to spend your entire life with.

Answer 8

Just choose the one you like more. Given everyone details about them is just finding out who sounds better but not the one that you actually see as better. Deep down inside you know which one you want

Answer 9

you've told us what cars they drive, where they live, and what they look like, but not a lot about whether they're kind or caring. do you really like either of these guys?

if you do, follow your heart. if not, better to be single than in a relationship cos the guy has a nice car

Answer 10

!st of all, I don't think that, you should be cheating on either of them... ya'll will just end up getting hurt. But, 2 answer your question, I think that, the 19 yr. old is the 1 you should pick.

Answer 11

Neither, it seems that their too good for you!! Sorry sister but all you seem to care about is what they have, material wise. Seriously the world would be a better place with alot less gold diggers like you. You give females a bad name!!