I really shouldn't have to prove that I love him, right. Because I love him and when I say it I mean, and I don't be saying it to be saying either. In my heart I really do feel like i love him, but I really don't know how long it's going to last, simply because of the situation that were in. Nobody knows for sure that we are seeing one another. We just keeping it on the down low. Do our thing behind closed doors.
2007-12-18 06:39:35 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you really love someone you don't have to prove it!! You will automatically do things to show the person that you love him.
2007-12-18 06:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mike D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've done enough to "prove" your love. The problem is not with you. It is with HIS perception of your love. For some reason, he isn't tuned into the reality that you love him, and would rather let his imagination get the better of him. Maybe he is insecure and feels he isn't good enough for you, therefore questions how you could possibly love a guy like him.
How to deal with this? Not an easy answer there. His insecurity is his problem to deal with, and the sad thing is that he probaby doesn't realize how insecure he is and it's effect on your relationship. You could try being patient...though I hope you have an incredible amount of tolerance and strength, because having to constantly "prove" your love will eventually exhaust you both emotionally and physically.
You could try being very firm, explaining that if he can't see how much you love him then HE has a problem that needs to be addressed, either by himself or with professional help (and your lovign support). The risk here is that he may refuse.
Or you could just cut your losses and move on. Find a man who won't question your love, but rather will ACCEPT your love and reciprocate what you give.
2007-12-18 14:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all since the relationship is behind closed doors,you or him will think you need to prove your love to each other because you can say that you love him but doesnt mean it, only you knows that you love him.Maybe its time to come out of the closet and see what happends.
2007-12-18 14:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by wildcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really truly love him, there's no need to prove it. He'll know it already. =) Make sure that you are showing your love with action rather than just with words.
2007-12-18 14:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by VSangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not prove that you love someone, you shouldnt prove Love to someone,
If you know that you love him, then it is left to him to feel the love and know that you truely love him..
2007-12-18 14:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elizabeth M. Well there ya go. Come out of the darkness and into the light, be proud ! Be happy !! Congradulations !!!
2007-12-18 14:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question
2007-12-18 14:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't
2007-12-18 14:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋