i am in a weird position..?

Question

i am married to a guy who is wierd lol. we are having lot of problems.and yesterday he gave me a present IPHONE. even though i always tell him do not ever give me anything that has to do with electronics i mean god how hard is it to understand that ur wife likes coach purses and chanel perfumes. i feel like he buys stuff with an excuse as in buying it for me but he wants it. i mean its 400 dollar phone. i dont want it. last year he bought me a GPS ON my birthday and returned it after he opened it and didnt like it and got me a laptop which he uses, he likes electronics and i end up with sumthihg i don't want. well anyways yesterday after i saw what he bought me i told him u can keep it , how hard is it for u to buy me 80 sumtihng dollar thing that i like, i mean talk about me being mean right when i told him i don't want it.so he starts fighting about that i don't want my wife to have cheap stuff bla blah... and he kinda made me open up the iphone... more details

i mean that sureely tells me that he wanted it even after telling him all this crap he made me accept that 400 dollar phone. he KNOWS I DON'T LIKE EXPENSIVE phones.he bought me laptop last year and used it for himself to watch porn and crap. i dunno man what to do. he is so manipulative.

Answer 1

Take it back get the $400 and buy something you like!

Answer 2

Did you tell him what you wanted? You tell us you want all that frilly girly stuff, does he know that? By the sound of it, you married a geek. That's not a bad thing, I'm a geek too. However, as a fellow geek, I can promise you that him buying you a frilly girly thing is as foreign to him as an "AthlonXP 1700+ with 1 GB DDR" is to you. He tried, by getting you a present that any geek would love. I mean, a GPS! That's a great gift! Anyhow, try telling him what you want. Give him a list if you must... In other words, don't tell US you want Chanel, tell HIM. If he still doesn't get the hint, buy him a black dress...

Answer 3

maybe he bought those items for you to be used. GPS and iphones are great for traveling, especially in times of danger and confusion and such. i love those coach purses too, but there are more useful things to blow 400$ on, such as a GPS. even if you dont want it, it'd more thoughtful to accept them and just use them. not everyone has a husband that'll buy them a 400$ phone with a 100$ monthly plan. common courtesy, and he's not weird. He's keeping up with technology and making sure you're caught up too. . a purse will not tell you that theres going to be bad weather in 30 minutes or help you find certain restaurants in your area.

Answer 4

Take it from someone who doesn't like expensive phones or electronics - iPhone is mind-blowing; once you start using it, you'll never want to go back to a boring old phone. Seriously. My husband got me one last year, and now it's practically an extension of me. Give it a shot.

Answer 5

well he wants you to like the same things he does, I would just take it back. It might hurt his feelings but I doubt he'll do that again in the future.

Answer 6

Buy him Perfume Chanel #5 and than you wear it, maybe he will get the hint????

Answer 7

Sounds like you married a selfish and controlling geek.

Let me guess, you married him for security because he makes good money at his geek job right?

Answer 8

Ask him this same question. He might be buying for himself but maybe he just does not get it.

Answer 9

If you were my wife I would buy you writing lessons.