Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

I fell asleep while studying, last night. My laptop was plugged in, so it was able to remain on for the night, and into the morning. As I woke up in the morning, I found a note from my girlfriend on the table. She had seen my laptop, and wouldn't be home for several days. She stated that she "needed a break from this chickenshit bullshit." Everyone has a certain fetish, and mine is a character for the hit television show "Full House." My background is set to a rather revealing picture of Bob Saget, while other more 'risky' pictures can be found in various files. She thinks that I'm obsessing over him -- how can I get her to understand that she's overreacting, and that he is ultimately deserving of the attention? \

2007-12-18 04:27:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right i want people to tell me what they think is right! Mum's Dad's a Kids.

Right I’m 17 and my boyfriend is 18, with have been going out for 2year and only see each other at week ends as we live 2 hours apart train rid.

He always comes down and stays at weekends (Friday night Saturday and goes home Sunday) for 2 years this has been fine.

But now my mum and dad want him to start paying 15 pound a weekend rent for showering here, although we buy our own food and drink mostly and some weekend we are never in.

I’m not sure if this is right or wrong, and its coarsen a lot of trouble between me and my boyfriend I need some really help let me know what you think

thanks for reading Candy x

2007-12-18 04:25:29 · 25 answers · asked by Candy 4 in Family

just tell me what you think! and please give a star if you like it!

2007-12-18 04:25:17 · 19 answers · asked by Cupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

Not too long ago I got married. My sister-in-law was causing me problems before marriage as well as after. Aparently she does not think it will work out between me and her brother because of the age difference. And aparently she believes that the fact that she thinks this way gives her right to intrude on our life and insult me. There are three things that bother me the most

1) She speaks to my husband in front of me in a foreign language which I happen to understand and I know that she is speaking about me in a third person, saying things that are not nice. After she is done, she starts speaking english to me and is acting very friendly.

2) Whenever she comes over, she criticizes my housekeeping skills, even though I never claimed to be a housekeeper, I am a career woman. She'd walk into the kichen while I am peeling vegetables in the sink and say something like "what the hell happened here?" I feel a lot of pressure every time she comes over. The funny thing is that my mother-in-law never does anything like this, the only thing she does is offers help with cooking or serving the table.

3) Whenever my husband and I visit the in-laws, his sister either tries to lure him away from me with lame excuses or gets mad at him and hisses "You are not helping with anything!" Why should he help? He does not live there anymore. I used to try to encourage him to help out but now I won't. If he decides to help she should be grateful, but she cannot demand help in my opinion

Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with my situation? Is there anything I can do to minimize the hostility or to fix my relationship with her? I love my husband and she is his sister, so I'd want to build good relationship with her. I tried everything but it does not seem to work.

2007-12-18 04:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by foxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me out

2007-12-18 04:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by samontedaqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

Years ago, the man my mom was married to molested me. It was more like rape really. I was 11 years old. After I told my grandma what happened, my stepdad went to jail for this. My mom said I put her husband in jail.

My mom blamed me for what happened and for years we can't talk to eachother. I have tried to reach out but it is noticably strained. She told me she feels bad about not being a good mother to me and my brother.

But I am now 25- and it is still the same way. My mom has gone down a path of drug abuse and we still can't talk.

Any sugestions? I love my mom and wish we had a relationship.

2007-12-18 04:21:07 · 10 answers · asked by CaliGirl 5 in Family

My husband loves me but he wants me to lose my weight. I am 23. I hate it when I think that he dont like my physical appearance. Does he mean that I am ugly or he just wants me to get more beautiful?
P.S: I feel I am beautiful in face but bit fat in my hip and waist area. Does that really matter in love?

2007-12-18 04:17:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

with me, i love how hes always there for me, his smile, how he cares....
i could go on forever

2007-12-18 04:16:06 · 24 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

Everywhere I go i get hit on. Some people like it, because it boosts their confidence or whatever... but I don't! I's obnoxious!
I hate it when I am out with my friends or family, and some old geezer comes up and asks for my number, or if I plan on being in playboy.

And don't give me that 'stop asking for it' speech, because I really don't. Today for example, I am terribly sick with laryngitis... but my dog was out of food. So I go to the store in a pair of soffes and a baggy t-shirt, with my hair up, and no make-up. Yet I got hit on THREE times.

What is it? Guys, why do you do this?! And girls... What do YOU do about this? Come on, I know I am no the only one!

2007-12-18 04:13:33 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a recent newlywed. As such, there are several facets that my wife and I are encountering that neither of us necessarily expected.

One of these such facets is the fact that she talks to her mom everyday. Allow me to explain.

First, I do not in any shape or form want to segregate her from her mom. I love her mom and her relationship with my wife. However, my wife never left her mom's house until we were married. I am worried about this, because I feel as though my wife hasn't really left her parents. For example, when we do go over to her parents house (they live ~2 miles away btw) she will still act as if she lives in the house.

What makes things worse is when we disagree. I feel that I'm fighting on 2 different fronts sometimes.

I have heard that it's hard to let go of your children, but it seems to me that at some point if you don't allow them to break away, it can't be a healthy thing. In nature, there is always a time for the young to leave their parents.

Thoughts?

2007-12-18 04:11:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is the information about where your father was born?
My fiance was supposed to call his dad last night, didn't do it.
He just put down where we're at now, columbus....he's like "it will be alright"
i told him it wouldn't be, it might take longer to get his passport or he may have to pay to have it shipped quicker.

Im hoping im wrong....but i have a bad feeling, what do you guys know?

2007-12-18 04:09:19 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

My wife wants to do it on top of a car. Note the ON TOP OF not in a car. Anyone have experience with this, if so what's a good way to not get caught and what's a good position so as to make it most comfortable.

2007-12-18 04:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel kinda stressed out :(

2007-12-18 04:08:22 · 50 answers · asked by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ஜღMRS.STARღஜ♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing this guy for a few months...and when he was drunk he was sayin how he wants us to get a house together and that he's inlove with me and wants me to go to his family xmas things and wants to sell his car n buy 2 cars one for me........but when he was sober he said he didnt remember saying any of that and he was too drunk....am i meant to believe him or believe that the truth comes out when your drunk?

2007-12-18 04:07:08 · 5 answers · asked by loopy_elmo69 2 in Singles & Dating

Well these boys at school (quite a large number) wont leave me ALONE! lol when i say they wont leave me alone i mean that they always have to comment on me or what i do and sometimes this one boy says some really graphic stuff (if you get what i mean) not graphic but he says as a joke to everyone that i want to have sex with him.

why do the boys feel the need to do this? any ideas?

2007-12-18 04:06:43 · 26 answers · asked by g 3 in Singles & Dating

last night i found out my ex and his girl broke up....i was worried that they would be together new years eve and i would run into them ..im not yet over him and cant handle seeing him with another girl yet. i refuse to see it actually its only going to stress me out even more. so should i be happy that there broke up or should it not matter at all if they are?

2007-12-18 04:06:30 · 4 answers · asked by ♥katie♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-18 04:03:47 · 24 answers · asked by J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I work at a fast food place and my restarunt maneger has been on the sick for 2 months he was allways in a rush and got tierd out. his wife is an assistant manager at another store and has been helping out for a bit. Now the assistant manager at my store has been made restarunt maneger. do you think theres any chance of him comeing back? hes been working for the company for 26 years.

2007-12-18 04:03:28 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-18 04:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sabine 6 in Singles & Dating

Been known this girl for a while. We are both single and I've always liked her. Lately I've been throwing her signals by inviting her places and texting her more often. She declined the invitations with valid reasons, plus her friend told me that she really wanted to go, but couldn't. I'm not positive she's in to me or not. I have not sensed any clear signals. Do you think she would find it odd if I gave her a gift? Nothing expensive or fancy. Just to let her know I'm thinking of her.

2007-12-18 04:02:59 · 34 answers · asked by juniper 2 in Singles & Dating

A Dad has a 5-year-old with his ex-wife. She has had 3 more children since they split up. Do you think it is right for Dad to have to spend money on Christmas and Birthday gifts for his son to give to his siblings? I think it should be the Mothers job. I know the son should be able to give gifts to his siblings, but it wasn't the Dad's choice for his son to have them. Just wondering others opinions on this.

I mainly ask this because my boyfriend has primary custody of their son and his ex has asked for money for presents for her other kids. If I didn't know her, I would have a hard time believing someone would do that.

2007-12-18 04:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whether it be a notary or officiant, if you can tell me the difference... neither of us belongs to a church, so where do i find someone to perform our ceremony? HELP!

2007-12-18 03:59:54 · 13 answers · asked by twininfl 1 in Weddings

So I posted an ad on Craigslist in the Strickly Plotonic Area.

(man 4 woman secition) Looking 4 someone of same religous & cultrual beliefs in the area, to get to know, become freinds & maybe more. I am new to the area.

We met (1 month ago), shes great, we go and have drinks, tells me I'm attractive, shes touchy (maybe the booze). She tells me she ALWAYS has a good time with me EVERYTIME we hang out. We talk almost every day, and hang out every other day. We even talk about touchy subjects (fathers passing).

I broke up with my gf about the time we met. (un realiated).

Cuddles when watching movies, and we walk arm & arm when going around the city. Look eachother in the eyes in a confortable silence.

Her boyfriend lives 500 miles away, she talks about him sometimes, makes me feel unconfortable (i usually try to show it). They have only been together for 4 months. She maybe sees him twice a month?

How can I find out if she likes me? I get mixed signals. I'm confused.

2007-12-18 03:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by moe 2 in Singles & Dating

Basicly... this morning before I left for work, I asked my boyfriend of almost 4 months if he would ever cheat on me. He got frustrated by this and wondered why I even asked. I didnt' really say anything for 5 minutes. We just hugged. Saturday night we were at some bar, and I saw him glance at some big boobed girl like 6 times. I was drunk...and I know I am a very pretty girl and really chillen too, but for some reason I guess I felt unpretty at that moment. It was sort of on my mind for a couple days, so this morning I finally said something. He is an amazing boyfriend that is so sweet and does every kind thing he can do for me! If I am thirsty or need anything... he tells me how amazing I am all the time. This morning though, he woke up to that question, making him wonder if I trust him and he was sick last night too. I feel bad about it. I usually go into his work 4 lunch on Tuesdays cause he waits tables this day. Now, I think maybe I should give time- he will miss me soon

2007-12-18 03:59:21 · 12 answers · asked by Rainbow Bright 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 03:58:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We talk on the phone at least three times a week, he always suggests getting together which we do, but he never tries to kiss me or hug me or hold my hand he justs flirts the whole time. Is he just a flirt or is there something there to work on or should I just kick him to the curb?

2007-12-18 03:57:21 · 1 answers · asked by Nic L 1 in Singles & Dating

I told him that i wud go out on sat nite, but it ended up that my mom had people ovr for dinner and i cudnt go out. Now he is kind of mad at me. How can i make it up to him?

2007-12-18 03:57:01 · 36 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

We are in love. I have 2 kids who welcome him and are loving getting to know him. He has an 11 year old daughter who will not even discuss my existence with him. She shuts down and ignores him. So we haven't even met yet. He's been divorced 4 years...me a lot longer. I know this isn't an easy thing for a child...I was her exact age when my parents got divorced.

We have been talking about marriage...but our whole relationship seems to be in a holding pattern because of this issue. I want to be supportive of my love and his precious and vunerable daughter. but I feel as if she's running the show so to speak...she is getting exactly what she wants. Daddy to herself...and stopping an unwelcome change.She will never like the idea of me...especially if she doesn't even know me. Help? What do I tell my love? what advice can anyone give us?
What is the right thing to do for his daughter?

2007-12-18 03:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by truthceekr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many women have been dumped because of their weight or believe they missed a shot at a good guy because she was too fat ?

2007-12-18 03:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering what other things there are to do at my wedding. We will have music if people want to dance, but are there other games or anything else that are common to have at weddings? When she would do them?

2007-12-18 03:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings