Family & Relationships - 18 December 2007

I'm in the middle of Divorce
not totally in church(serving God like I shoud)
should i make a greater effort to see other people or no one at all
I want to have a drink or two
...want to be alone.don't want to be alone??
Help!!

2007-12-18 02:35:01 · 10 answers · asked by football2002 3 in Marriage & Divorce

with his Ex wife that what he is calling as he say that they already finish but still lived toegther for the sake of his kids...But he ask me to make a Bussiness Plan . And i did already pass to him the plan 3 half months ago and to this present he still not give me a feedback and his reason is . He is claiming 50 millions dollar to the cleint and a very busy person as well and have a big problem with her wife as well...So , what do i do ..? Do i still need to moved on and forget about the plan ..? He said if he say the plan have potentials he is happy to invest...The one who make my Bussiness Plan is giving him a ultimatum if he is not give answer before on 5 on january next year is it already Disapproval. And he told me that the one who make the Bussiness Plan is fall of ****.....

2007-12-18 02:33:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boy friend and i deeply in love with each other but he will be graduteing in 2008. and i dont know if he will wait 4 me like he said he will do what should i do.

2007-12-18 02:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by katia_londy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies how true is it that your guy friends can only be friends. I mean in most cases when your both single you both are very critical of the others choices in companions. And when you have a companion you friendship is compromisized with with time you have to give up to be with your companion. So tell me Can we really just be friends I mean a true friend?

2007-12-18 02:30:57 · 22 answers · asked by purejc 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u act
hard to get

2007-12-18 02:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by 100% husaina 3 in Singles & Dating

girls call me Coach.

Is that odd?

2007-12-18 02:25:56 · 34 answers · asked by Coach E! 4 in Singles & Dating

What do women want? Why is it when a guy meets a women he want she is less interested when he becomes more interested. Is it a fear that he is not what you want or is it just fear of what you want?

2007-12-18 02:25:45 · 12 answers · asked by purejc 2 in Singles & Dating

Moms out there I plan on giving this letter to my mom or emailing it to here tell me what you think...(Jesse is my ex whom broke up with me 3 weeks ago)

Mom-

I’m writing this too you because I am frustrated. I’m 23 years old almost 24 and living at home, and it is not fun. I think that is one reason I miss Jesse, because I had that place away from home I could go to. I appreciate you and all you do for me and I love you for caring so much, but there comes a time in a child’s life that the child needs to start feeling not controlled by their parents. I know it is your house and I need to respect that and take care of my room better for you, but please stop telling me what to do and when to do it. I’m just trying to be honest with you, I’m not trying to hurt your feelings, but I need to get these feelings out to make me a better person. I need to learn to make my own decisions, and stop listening to everyone else’s suggestions on my life, it is a thing I need to do to grow up even more, it is something I need to make myself better for my future. I love how we have gotten closer mom, but I need this from you. I need to start seeking approval from myself instead of you, this leads me to be more self-confident instead of self-sufficient in what your opinions are. Please work on this with me, just so I can start being a better me, more self-confident, more self-sufficient, I need to feel like I have control of my own life. I have been reading a book by Dr. Phil about getting out there and dating again, and the first thing is to start loving yourself, and being your whole self, so that is what I’m trying to do. I love you and appreciate you caring so so much about me, I’m doing this also so we are closer. Thank you for everything you do.

Ashley

2007-12-18 02:25:13 · 9 answers · asked by ashieannie 2 in Family

and thought you was ugly but now its all turned around and he has alot of feelings and cares about you but doesnt realise you ever knew what his origonal intentions were

2007-12-18 02:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by Lilly K 1 in Singles & Dating

When i sign in and he happens to be online..he will never reply to anything i say.!
i keep texting him & he never replies..
he told my bestfriend that he likes me and that he doesnt reply me cause he's either never near the computer or he's outta credit so he cant reply my texts...
What should i do??

2007-12-18 02:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, last night I saw messages that my husband wrote to another girl on the computer which were not PG13 so to speak....we got into a heavy argument and then he proceeded to deny our unborn child calling me every name in the book. I kicked him out. I know 100% that it's his..not a doubt in my mind, but he started saying very hurtful things. I didn't go to work today b/c I'm so upset..so then this morning he calls me and now he called and wants to take me to lunch on his lunch break...what the heck does this mean?? why? after he denied his own child?

2007-12-18 02:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Falls a sleep. Oh I was so mad. He had been wanting me so bad and letting me know all day by grabbing my butt and stuff and whispering in my ear I cant wait until tonight. So I get all excited about tonight I get a shower,shave,put on my silky night gown and spray on some perfume and whats he do he falls a sleep in the chair. So I go to bed mad b/c I didnt get no lovin but he says I will make up for it tonight. Ever happened to you?

2007-12-18 02:22:37 · 21 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be studying in my last year of uni next year. Which situation should I choose:

1. I am currently living away from home and have been for nearly 4 years. During this time i have been studying and broke. I cant afford a nice wardrobe or to get my hair done. I cant afford to buy regular meals and i feel sick a lot from not eating enough. Im also always worried about money. I have also being single for nearly 2 years and i believe this is because i cant afford to go out much or look pretty. Do I stay in this situation?

OR

2. Move back in with my mum, younger sister and brother. I moved out nearly 4 years ago because i didnt get along with my mum. I hardly speak to her and am not on good terms. If I move back in with her i get to eat regular meals and my own room but the house will not be very quiet so i will have to study in the library. I will be able to buy clothes, get my hair done and i hope these things will also help me find a guy.

Situation 1. or situation 2.?

2007-12-18 02:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently found myself falling for someone who is so not my type; in looks and in taste for music and interests. I'm just curious to know who has been in a situation like this before and how things worked out for them in the end.

2007-12-18 02:21:32 · 37 answers · asked by nohandtohold 4 in Singles & Dating

"When is the last time you had a boyfriend?" ???

When I meet new guys,most of the time they ask me...
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
If I say...
"No"
THEN they ask me...
"When is the last time you had a boyfreid?"

*Why would they ask me that?*

2007-12-18 02:20:04 · 22 answers · asked by 797979 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay so husband and are really young, I am 20 and he is 24- We just got married last June- he wanted to do something I wasnt intrested in Im not ganna go into detail- I wanted to leave him- I didnt come home or talk to him for 3 days- That was childish of me I know- We are raising his 16 yr. old brother and it makes it even harder- I dont want to be with him but he called my whole family and all of my friends looking for me and told them all of our business- I told him that I wasnt in love with him and I was even talking to someone else and he doesnt care he didnt eat the whole time I was gone and he said he even had thoughts of suicide- The only reason I am staying there- is b/c I feel so bad for him- I will always love him I am just not in love with him- SO my ? is how do I get away from him without terribly hurting him- I just want to be 20 not 40! But I did make my bed and I guess now I must sleep in it.

2007-12-18 02:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by JessieA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got engaged in May of last year. The planning was a whirlwind of chaos. Suddenly my fiancé lost his job and because of an earlier accident will need surgery. He didn’t want me to cancel our plans, which we had to with no money coming in on his side and he is now not setting a new date, though he does talk about “our wedding”. If pressed, he’ll yell at me and tell me I am being selfish for asking. So I don’t anymore. Before we met, he dated his sister in law’s sister. Her picture is still in his Mom’s livingroom being as she IS family and all. Now it’s been decided or rather I’ve been told, when he goes for his surgery he’s asked his sister in law to go to the hospital and take care of him. He said I work and can’t get time off and she offered so he accepted. Then he was telling me how he filled out paperwork and while he put me as an emergency contact he did not put me down as his beneficiary. Until now, he always did. He was saying that his sister in law pointed out that we’re not married and even though we live together, I am not entitled to any of his assets should anything happen, because I am not his wife and his blood family should get anything. Ok. Fine. I have my OWN stuff I don’t want his. I depend on his income and we live as husband and wife. Until now, no one’s seemed to have an issue. I do suspect he has issues with being told what to do, she is always right, she knows what she’s talking about. He will even go to her with advice I’ve given him and takes hers over mine. She’s not even older or wiser… or even has a job of her own, she lives off his brother. Should I run far and fast from this situation or just accept it and love him anyway? HELP… I don’t know how to read this…

2007-12-18 02:15:55 · 40 answers · asked by Just Me 7 in Marriage & Divorce

if a man pays the money that the child can live off only his money and there is some extra left over that the mother is using for house or rent payments why shouldnt the child just live with the man?

if the man can raise and take care of the child after work and during work can afford a babysitter to take care of the child, why does the father lose the child and the mother gets it when she cant even pay for the apartment herself not even including paying half for the child

2007-12-18 02:15:09 · 13 answers · asked by Peter P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been crushing on this guy since the beginning of the year and i thought he really liked me. I sent thousands of signals letting him know that I adored him. A bomb shell dropped when I found out he was going out with a tramp. She happened to be one of my best friends until I found this out. she also called me a slut. Now I like this other guy but Im not sure if he likes me. What should I do?

2007-12-18 02:14:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend said i should date other people...what do u thing?

2007-12-18 02:10:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why say "I love you" when you mean "I care".
why say "I missed you" when you mean "How are you?"

Geezus! So many talk above that "L" word!!!

2007-12-18 02:07:53 · 12 answers · asked by Freeman 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do,because I like hi a lot as a person not as a boyfriend...how can i explain that him...i know i will hurt him!

2007-12-18 02:07:38 · 17 answers · asked by Beautiful Girl for Webcam Fun 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 02:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend whom has a great realtionship sexually with her husband and she is constantly telling me that as much as they have sex, which is daily, that her husband will sit in the shower every morning and jerk off. She says that his showers take up to 45 minutes because he is in their going to town with himself. Her claim of great sex may be with frequency because she says he never reaches a climax and if he does it is rare. Do you think he just doesn't climax because he knows all too well of how to pleasure himself? She is pretty open-minded when it comes to sex and does just about anything. However she is starting to feel in adequate, not attractive...etc. Would you say that having sex with her 1 to 3 times a day on top of jerking off is too much? Any ideas or comments? Be nice!

2007-12-18 02:06:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-18 02:05:14 · 35 answers · asked by K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-18 02:04:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Going on a honeymoon for a week?

2007-12-18 01:55:13 · 20 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

2007-12-18 01:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by Artscola 3 in Singles & Dating

Is there anything cool I could tie into this for the wedding?

2007-12-18 01:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

At the hotel I am having a hospitality room for the guests to hang out in while we are taking pictures. What can I put in there beer?? What else?

2007-12-18 01:50:38 · 23 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings