2007-12-18 02:05:14 · 35 answers · asked by K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is just what they do. Completely normal. They need to release the build up before you get home or he wont be worth a whoot for you....(minute man)
2007-12-18 02:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Radertastic 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's completely normal, it's the time he thinks about all the things he wishes you two did in bed but don't. It's just as normal as masturbating to keep your fantasies a secret from your partner until you've became comfortable enough to tell them. Most won't tell their deep dark fantasies till after marriage.
2007-12-18 06:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say wait till I am home do you mean so you can watch him do it or do you mean so he can have regular sex with you?
If it's the first choice just ask him if he'll do it in front of you. If he loves you i am sure he will.
If it's the 2nd choice men have built up tension and sometimes need immediate release. Don't worry, it's totally normal.
2007-12-18 02:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by stevel226 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is normal. Guys masturbate a lot even if they are having sex every day. Don't worry so much. He is not cheating on you.....he is just pleasuring himself. I would be worried if he was out having sex with other women.
2007-12-18 02:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal....men have a very high sex drive, so it is perfectly normal for them to pleasure themselves without you around. Just be grateful that he is using his hand on not another woman. Things could always be worse.
Good Luck and Merry Christmas!!!
2007-12-18 02:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, if he never masturbated I would be worried. We get the urge at some of the strangest times. If we didn't get that release we would be more agressive and violent.
Worse yet would be that he just didn't care about sex at all.
I happen to know that many women also do this it is normal.
Yoda out
2007-12-18 02:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perfectly normal. It is called "Being married to your right hand".
I imagine you are a girl with large hands - remember, men prefer girls with small hands, because it makes their P###S look bigger.
What is his name ? I imagine he is one of the BATES family. There is Mr. Bates, Mrs. Bates and Master Bates.
When he comes home tonight - give him a big hand.
He may be unwell. Perhaps he has not been feeling himself lately.
2007-12-18 02:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by tonyflair2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man masturbates before a date or encounter, he should last longer during the encounter.
2007-12-18 02:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, it's not normal... he has probably been doing this since he was a teen and noone ever taught him to control himself...
I have a son, and he will be taught that it's not ok to play w/ yourself...
it's an addiction... if your man does not control this now you will have even bigger problems when you have kids...
consider me a prude? or someone who wants to have a boy who is respectable???
a mature man does not play w/ himself every chance he gets... and that's the truth...
someone who would rather play w/ themself than give their woman the sex she needs is selfish...
2007-12-18 02:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perfectly normal. This has been around for centuries my dear. As long as hes not ignoring you and you dont have a problem with sex then just ignore it and leave him alone with it
2007-12-18 02:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by jslorri 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋