What do women want? Why is it when a guy meets a women he want she is less interested when he becomes more interested. Is it a fear that he is not what you want or is it just fear of what you want?
2007-12-18 02:25:45 · 12 answers · asked by purejc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably fear of what we want.
2007-12-18 02:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different, every woman wants different things. Most women I know, do not like a guy who is smothering or a push over. Every man I dated before my husband, would buy me whatever I wanted, would call me 500 times a day, would want to see me everyday, but in reality thats more annoying than flattering. Then when I met my husband, it was rocky in the beginning. He didn't seem as interested as the other men I'd dated before him, so I was questioning whether or not he really did have feelings for me. And it turns out he had very strong feelings for me, but he made it a challenge for me, and that's what I liked about him. I had to work for his love, and he never ever overwhelmed me. My advice to you is, be respectful, take your time, don't jump into things too fast, try and establish a friendly relationship before going into a romantic one. And even if you are REALLY interested in this person, dont show it right away. Let her think that you like her, but not as much as she wants you to. Basically, play hard to get, but also don't shut her out completely either. I know, it's a very puzzling concept lol. Good luck with everything, I'm sure it will work out.
2007-12-18 10:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Army Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear either way could have something to do with, or maybe there is just not a mutual interest there. Maybe she is insecure and wants you to pursue her to prove that you want her so badly. Not saying that is a good thing, but sadly it's a game played by some. If you are interested, try to show her you are. If it's not worth the BS, let her and her ego find someone else to play with.
2007-12-18 10:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by alabize 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be she finds she doesn't like what she is experiencing. It could be that the "chase" makes her want to play it cool. Depends on the two people involved.
When a man is interested in me, he has to prove who he is, I don't listen to what he says, I look at what he does (actions speak louder than words). I become turned off, cautious and begin to lose interest if he isn't who I thought he was from the beginning.
How are you presenting yourself? Are you being honest, kind, considerate and respectful? Take a good hard look at how you interact in relationships, be very honest with yourself, you may find your answer there. What is your basic view of women? If it is not good, a smart women will smell that a mile away. Good luck.
2007-12-18 10:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want a sensitive guy...some one that knows what they go through and can help them go through it all women want is someone to love.....if she is less interested she just may not see what you have to offer
2007-12-18 10:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by princessuknowit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are fickle creatures ever... ups that is - men are fickle creatures ever.
actually its not tat hard to understand. sometimes wen we meet a guy we like and he seemed to like us, we take a figurative step backward when they ... come on too strong, you might be married, oh my god he's too good to be true, maybe he's gay. (all these thoughts enter a womans mind in less that 10 seconds)
knowing what we want does not necessarily mean we go out to get it. a healthy dose of caution is too ingrained to be ignored.
but isn't it fun that we keep you guessing? the allure lies in the mystery after all.
2007-12-18 10:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by sc2zabala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little of both.
You just have to start picking the ladies who want the same thing in a relationship that you want.
2007-12-18 10:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts too eager, too soon, it can raise suspicion. Most women want a man that's interested, but not desperate.
2007-12-18 10:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by LoFlo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk. In my experience, I'm afraid to be loved 'cause I'm afraid of being hurt. So, I don't believe I am worthy of that love. I want to be treated like a princess and put on a pedestel. But I don't want my man to be a push-over either. Treat your girl like you would walk through fire for her and you'll find someone who would do the same for you.
2007-12-18 10:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by marigoldkelly95 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a fear of oh dear what or how will he break my heart ... and can i trust him and all kinds of stuff, in other words you must urn your trust and stay for them to be happy
2007-12-18 10:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋