my boy friend and i deeply in love with each other but he will be graduteing in 2008. and i dont know if he will wait 4 me like he said he will do what should i do.
2007-12-18 02:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by katia_londy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to understand that about 99% of people do not marry their high school sweetheart. I know this is harsh, but you need to be prepared for him to graduate and go to college or whatever and within a few months break up with you. It won't happen right away. You'll grow apart for awhile and who knows, you might meet somebody else first, but it will happen. Don't worry so much about planning out your entire life at 15 years old. Just have fun for now and see where life takes you.
2007-12-18 02:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall into the trap of making a baby with him just for the sake of trying to keep him, or dropping out of school early to trap him into an early marriage. If he's going on to college while you're still in school, then just keep in touch and remain close during school break times. That will help keep things straight between you and keep him from possibly straying while away. But you have to admit the 2-year age difference may be a problem, especially if he goes and joins the military and is forced to be away from you for long periods. So, you gotta give this some serious thought about keeping the relationship going without getting hurt doing so.
2007-12-18 10:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this high school or college, big difference. H.S. romances rarely ever work out in the long run, especially when off to college. Do you really think he will not date anyone at all while he is away from you? Be realistic here, don't prolong the agony or hang on false hopes. End it nicely. Understand that if this were really meant to be, later on when you are both finished with school, it can be rekindled.
You both have a long life ahead of you and need to experience the world, meet different kinds of people so that someday, you can make a good decision on who you want (or don't want) to spend your life with until death.
2007-12-18 10:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt wait for you then you arent deeply in love. End of story.
2007-12-18 10:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation and i think you should talk to him and see whats going on.Discuss what yall are going to do. Ask him if he will wait for you.
2007-12-18 10:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tatiana H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cares about you the way he says he does then he'll wait. i know that i was supposed to graduate before my boyfriend.....but he quite.I'm still going to college and he is going to wait on me. i know because I've seen how much he really cares. he will do anything for me and if yours really cares about you then he'll do the same for you. huney don't worry about it. if it's meant to be then it'll be.
2007-12-18 10:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by amber~nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm you'll get to that bridge later...so dont worry about it when its 2008 june....see if hes going away for school if he is... i'd suggest you leave him.
2007-12-18 10:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by ☆ღღ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you, it's yours, if not, it was never meant to be.
2007-12-18 10:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by DR W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that before.. Doesn't work out.
2007-12-18 10:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will. Don't do anything. Time will tell.
2007-12-18 10:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by white tiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋