I will be studying in my last year of uni next year. Which situation should I choose:
1. I am currently living away from home and have been for nearly 4 years. During this time i have been studying and broke. I cant afford a nice wardrobe or to get my hair done. I cant afford to buy regular meals and i feel sick a lot from not eating enough. Im also always worried about money. I have also being single for nearly 2 years and i believe this is because i cant afford to go out much or look pretty. Do I stay in this situation?
OR
2. Move back in with my mum, younger sister and brother. I moved out nearly 4 years ago because i didnt get along with my mum. I hardly speak to her and am not on good terms. If I move back in with her i get to eat regular meals and my own room but the house will not be very quiet so i will have to study in the library. I will be able to buy clothes, get my hair done and i hope these things will also help me find a guy.
Situation 1. or situation 2.?
2007-12-18 02:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to say without knowing all of the details, but, from what info you have given... here's my answer....
You have to think about your future.
Do you want to live at home with your mom forever or until you find a man to financially take care of you?
OR...
Do you want to finish your studying so that you can get a good job making good money some day soon? Then, you can have all of those things and never have to count on someone else.
BTW... any one can look beautiful with confidence.
2007-12-18 06:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nina Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situation 1 is causing you heatlh problems. You could eventually starve to death. I know it will not be convenient for you but Situation 2 does sound logical.
2007-12-18 10:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends what your real motive is for doing this,because you seem to be more interested in finding a guy, but do whats best for you and make sure its for the RIGHT reasons.
2007-12-18 10:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Lincy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with 1, youll be back home after ur graduate. Enjoy your freedom and get a credit card! Finding a man shouldnt be hard. GL
2007-12-18 10:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ammbless 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was in your shoes I'd choose (1) and try to make it work.
I'd rather go get a job than live with my mum (*shudder*)
2007-12-18 10:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bad hobbies in the bathroom
2007-12-19 04:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jai K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋