I told him that i wud go out on sat nite, but it ended up that my mom had people ovr for dinner and i cudnt go out. Now he is kind of mad at me. How can i make it up to him?
2007-12-18 03:57:01 · 36 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing to make up chick,if he thinks anything of you he should understand and respect you better,if he cannot then you perhaps need to find a REAL man
2007-12-18 07:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by the gaffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and get over it. It's not like you ditched him for friends or anything. It was an unexpected deal.
If he is going to act all butt hurt over something like that, you should kick him to the curb. You can do better than a loser that gets all hurt because you had dinner with your family instead f him. He is a control freak and will only cause you grief in the long run. I have seen it play out many many times and it always ends the same.
2007-12-18 04:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen that's life, and if your boyfriend (not man) can not realized that in life there are curve balls, like the one you had at your parents, maybe you may want to rethink the relationship a bit. Offer to go with him later, or on a different night and plan it, see what happen, if he's still whining over you not making it on the missed date, then you'll know for sure you have a whiner/ and, a potential control freak on your hand. Good luck.
2007-12-18 04:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by J. M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get over it!
Don't feel like you have to make up for being with your family.
Give it a couple of days and see if he is still mad, if he is mad then there is something wrong with him!
Part of making relationships work is understanding.
When you get older there are enough things that can make a relationship hard, you know like real problems.
Tell him he maybe too young for a real relationship with a real female.
2007-12-18 04:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by getupkeepmovin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. Or maybe the way you broke it to him was harsh. but let him know that you love hanging out with him and you were really looking forward to it, but you also had to be there for your family since they are important to you also.
Maybe you could bake him cookies or invite him over for dinner next time. they say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach! lol
But if he does not accept your apology an doesnt understand that you also must spend time with your family then he doesn't deserve a place in your life.
2007-12-18 04:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not. Either he accepts it as the truth in good faith or he does not. Does he expect you to be rude to your Mother's guests? They were possibly also looking forward to meeting you. I do not know if they were family or just friends but I am always sad if my friends or family's children are not around if a am having dinner with them . The chances are that I have known them for a long time.
2007-12-18 04:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family and boyfriends/girlfriends can be difficult to juggle during the holiday seasons. Your boyfriend should understand you didnt have a choice but to stay at home. As far as making it up to him, well....just make new plans to go out. That should be good enough.
2007-12-18 04:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by gtstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no business being mad in the first place. There is nothing to "make up" for. If he's putting you in that position you should consider finding a different boyfriend.
2007-12-18 04:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by snoopy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, your mom made you stay in.
Tell him, that the family that came over, you haven't seen for a while.
He can always see you, and its not like you did anything wrong.
You didnt tell him you coudlnt go out, because you wanted to fool about with another guy..you had a good reason for it.
xo
2007-12-18 04:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to make it up to him, it's not your fault that you're mom wouldn't let you go out. Try asking your mom before you commit to doing something next time, that way this doesn't happen again.
2007-12-18 04:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by G is for Grover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋