Well these boys at school (quite a large number) wont leave me ALONE! lol when i say they wont leave me alone i mean that they always have to comment on me or what i do and sometimes this one boy says some really graphic stuff (if you get what i mean) not graphic but he says as a joke to everyone that i want to have sex with him.
why do the boys feel the need to do this? any ideas?
2007-12-18 04:06:43 · 26 answers · asked by g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think they like me i dont see myself as an sttractive person and no one in my year has ever said they liked me
2007-12-18 04:12:31 · update #1
What you should do, when no one else is looking, is pull up your skirt and push down the front of your tights and pants.
Give him a good look, then say, come on then on your knees kiss it. He will run a mile.
2007-12-18 04:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They sounds like real jerks. They're probably really attracted to you but don't know how to express it properly. They may well be growing up in homes where they aren't being shown the right way to relate to women which is why they come off the way they do. It could also be that they knows better but do not want to be seen as soft in front of each other. Whatever it is, they are to be pitied, they have a lot more growing up to do. Don't let them be a problem to you, keep your head up, whether they express it or not, they and others will respect you for it. Good luck.
2007-12-18 04:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by aquamarie2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm no boy but I can answer that question. It's the age old "little boy's only hit the girls they like" syndrome. It may be annoying but you should feel flattered. These boys obviously like you but are too immature to be able to show it by flirting, or starting a conversation with you, or anything mature like that. Since they can't get away with hitting you like they would have done in grammer school, they resort to teasing. Don't worry, girls mature faster than boys but they will catch up with you eventually!
2007-12-18 04:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by saturdays child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys at that age are ruled by their hormones, even though they don't know what one is or what to do with them. They don't have any sense of purpose, and like you, are just living their emotions.
Ask them if they have a brain at all or realize what they're doing? Do they have a clue where they're going.
If they have a goal, is it more than six inches out there?
2007-12-18 04:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they like you, and I'm guessing it isn't returned so they feel the need to make it look like it is, so they don't look stupid in front of their mates.
Ignore them, it'll wind them up even more, but it'll also force them to give it up and either be honest, or run away.
Edit:
You might not find yourself attractive, but that doesn't mean someone who is attracted to girls feels the same way.
They might think you're the best thing since sliced bread.
2007-12-18 04:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think at first u have to show ur face before a mirror.hey i think it quiet intelligent. u no what everyone have a quite beauty within him/her.u have also.but u have a problem i think.that is u dont like to talk more & prefer urself to live alone or with family.n also like to read attentive.am i right?if yes.then ur intilligency jelous them.that why they want to bother u my friend.now u have to care urself,ur family n also care of them who r irritating u.change ur "attitudes" not "urself'.talk with them when they irritating u.just say like"hi my friend how ur life going on' 'do u want any help like notes ect' 'hey do u know my friend u r looking so gogess this day,what ur doing yaar' 'hmmm..i think ur in love with my sister in law'.u know what here is a dialauge "iron cuts iron".u have to behave with themselve like there were nothing done wrong before it. n u r so casual for ur life.n also they will surprise hearing all of these words from ur lips..that will prevent ur life.
2007-12-18 04:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Immaturity, some boys never grow out of it either. The best thing to do, which is sometimes the hardest is to tell an adult you trust (if it is sexually related) or hold your head up high and ignore them. They are looking for a reaction from you, so the better you handle it, the dumber they will look.
2007-12-18 04:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by vaya 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What they are saying is no joke, it is sexual harrassment and I suggest you take this very seriously. It is disrespectful, harmful and against school policy (and the law).
You need to talk to your principal about what is being said and that you want them to stop this at once.
They are pigs and need to be taught a lesson here, obviously their parents have not done a very good job of raising them to be good boys.
NEVER put up with this kind of treatment from males.
2007-12-18 04:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Becuase the retards are in dreamland and they know it bothers you.
You got 2 choices, either ignore them, or grab one in a busy place and plant a kiss on him and don't let him loose. May just embarass him so bad. Or get all your girl friends to start ganging up on one at a time and do the same. Eh,heeee!!
2007-12-18 04:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by smittybo20 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
they are young and their hormons are sky-high now.they all like you,that's all.also if you seem positive and you don't react to these comments,you become an easy target for their sex games and comments.when the time comes and you will chose one of them,the rest will politely get back.
2007-12-18 04:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋