ok im 16 and she's 13 and before u say anything we both DO know what love is when we are without each other or we go one day without talking to each other it torments us. The big problem is that her parents don't want her seeing an older guy which is understandable to an extent, because i learned that as long as u really do care about someone age shouldn't matter. Its not me personally they let us do things together like go to the mall before she knew we were dating and she IS allowed to have boy friends. So how can i make them see it our way i wanna talk to them
2007-12-18 00:05:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people im not after sex that WOULD be wrong
2007-12-18 00:13:30 · update #1
hey kiddo..your still just a kid..how sure are you that you know what love is? don't be confused about love as there are different kind of loves...as for the age gap..it really doesn't matter but wait till you get older..just stay to be her friend for now..listen to her parents as most parents knows best for their children..
2007-12-18 00:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ronnie 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
In some states this may be unlawful and can desire to finally end up together with her dealing with fees and being a registered intercourse-criminal for existence. definite, i understand which you stated "nonsexually" yet while there is allure between 2 human beings in that age variety their hormones will possibly--and in all hazard--override the perfect intentions. additionally, i do no longer care how sensible and mature you're--15 is a protracted way from 22. As you become previous the age distinction will count much less yet at 15 and 22 it fairly is not any longer possibly to paintings for extremely long. in basic terms be friends--no count if it fairly is meant to be then it fairly is going to paintings out interior the destiny. If the relationship can no longer proceed to exist in basic terms being friends then it would on no account have lasted as a romantic relationship. good good fortune to you!
2016-12-18 04:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband when I was 17. I knew the day that I met him that I would marry him. Everyone told me I was an idiot and that "love" is only for the mature.
Anyone who says that is a moron.
Love is something that transcends age, that cannot be contained in boundaries called "maturity." It is for all people, of all race, of all nationality, of all ages. Everyone knows what love is and can experience it at any time for anything. Do not let anyone tell you that you're too young to be in love.
Now, with respect to your actual question:
16 and 13 isn't that bad of an age gap. And I don't get all of the comments about how 13 year olds are "little girls." With all due respect, 13 year old girls can be just as mature as a 16 year old boy... I was more mature than my brother (who is six years older than me) by the time I was 10! You are not giving teenage girls very much credit, people. When I was a Freshman in HIGH SCHOOL, I was 13. I turned 14 shortly into the school year, but at any rate, I think you understand what I'm talking about. Anyway, all you can do right now is wait it out. Show her parents that you are dedicated to her. A parent's biggest fear for their daughter is that she will be preyed upon by an older man who wants something sexual. If you love her as much as you say you do, all you can do is wait and be faithful to the love that you say you have for her.
If you can't be her boyfriend, be her boy friend. Be there for her, treat her with respect, and continue to see her in whatever capacity her parents will allow you to. All you can do is prove yourself to her parents and the rest will follow.
Good luck to you.
2007-12-18 00:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
If its the age that is the problem, then her psrents will take a lot of convincing
in 2 years you will no longer be a minior under us law.
so dating a minor could land you in serious trouble - if you both are not very careful.
as i said on your other question.
you can marry at 16 in Scotland ---- not a solution but a thought
2007-12-18 00:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by steven m 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Beg to differ - at 16 & 13 you're a LONG way from understanding love. You've made a start, but be patient. Love grows.
What you've really got is raging hormones.
2007-12-18 00:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sorry, but y'all don't know what love is (although infatuation feels very strong and similar) and a 13 yr old is too young to date ANYONE, period.
In 3 yrs she'll be old enough (and hopefully mature enough) to date...until then, stick to chicks your age and up. They'll be a much better match...truly.
2007-12-18 00:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
At 16 and 13 there is no way that you know what love is. You're both immature, and if it's meant to be, it won't matter if you wait until you're a little older and more mature.
2007-12-18 00:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You can't..she's their daughter and you are 3 yrs and (mentally way older) than she is...no age doesn't make a difference unless one of you is a child...and until she's 18 (maybe 16 to date) she's a child...leave her alone.
2007-12-18 00:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
im sorry she is to young and you need to date someone else if you like her that much and care for her you will do what is best for her and the parents wont like you to talk to them their minds are already made up but you are mature enough to ask for advice so good for you and later on when she is much older and you still like each other go for it
2007-12-18 00:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
sweetie they will not see it your way, becasue 16 year old boys are panting to have sex, and a 13 year old is much too young to be doing that.
Also, Love isn't about torment, its about having someone to improve your already full life, not to be your life.
2007-12-18 00:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by jadethechemgeek 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋