I broke up with my bf a few weeks back,ever since he just cant seem to accept it's over and keeps begging in txt msgs for me to take him back,it's really annoying. Me and him have money problems which would be solved if we moved in together,i told him i didnt mind if he lived in my house as long as it was just as friends and he sleeped in spare bedroom,now he's saying all or nothing,problem is i have this new guy and i dont know how he'd feel about an ex living with me,plus how wud my ex feel about me dating another guy,what should i do?
2007-12-18 00:59:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said all or nothing.......say nothing. Your ready to move on and he needs to accept that! You need to NOT let him move in with you! You need to date that other guy and Your ex will be your friend and deal with the fact that you've moved on!
2007-12-18 01:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why theyre called Ex's. Its up to you at the end of the day lol but I would tell him its over & I wouldnt let him move in , he may cos trouble for you and the new fella. Dont bother about what ur ex thinks , your not with him , plus what if you and your ex did live together , would your money probs really be solved. Look to the future and dont turn back , the past is the past lol.
2007-12-18 01:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something doesnt sound right and I think you need to add more details for me to answer.
So in a few weeks you have a new bf already? Why does your ex need to live in your house? Were you living together before? Why would it be "we have money problems" if you are no longer together? Wouldnt it be your and his money problems separated the day you broke up??
Whats missing?
2007-12-18 01:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Pudge_Monsta 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to have your Ex or this new guy move in. Don't you have any girlfriends or co-workers that need a place to stay??? It's a lot easier living with a gf than an ex. You would only be putting yourself into an awkward sitchy.
2007-12-18 01:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Moffit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/MFiNQ
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-28 02:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
money problems or not you need to break all ties with ex bf or your new fella is going to asume you are still sleeping together if you live together. and your giving your ex the message that there is a chance of you being together by letting him live with you.
2007-12-18 01:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet with you ex, tell him that he is not going to win you back, and that any txt he sends, e mail or whatever, it just makes you more irritated. So if he could just leave it there, maybe you could still be friends later on.
2007-12-18 01:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a no no situation, get your ex out of your life first, it will only cause you more stess.He needs to move on, but dont rub it in his face,(ex).
Once your ex has accepted the fact its over for good, then u can start dating your new boyfriend properly
2007-12-18 01:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a fast mover. Broke up a few weeks ago and you already have someone else? You can't have loved your ex that much.
I dare say they'd hate each other. I can see a fight breaking out at some point.
2007-12-18 01:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there are pros and cons in love.u are the best judge.
just stick to the new guy and correct yr mistakes if any.
Ignore yr ex txt msgs.and dont bring him to stay under one roof with you.
dont ever introduce them to each other.u will be the looser.
take care
2007-12-18 01:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by george.m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋