what do u do when the prson u love and want to marrie gave up on u and said he did not want to be with u?

Question

he said he loved me and he wanted to spend his hole life with me but no were not together and hes messin with someone else

Answer 1

He does not love you nor does he wish to be with you so he is not worth the time you spent even asking this question.

You need to develop a sence of self worth and pride in yourself. Learn to love yourself and then you will find someone who loves you.

What do you do when you really really want to win the lottery? You can buy the tickets but you cannot control the numbers that are drawn. The same is true here, you feel like you love him but he does not love you, so you can either drive yourself crazy trying to win him or you can accept the fact the you cannot control him.

Control yourself and move on with your life and never try to win someone who does not love you, you deserve better.

Yoda out

Answer 2

Well If He Isn't Cheating And, Ur The One Talking'
To Someone One The Side... Hay At least He Wasn't Abusive And Never Hit You Like Has Been Done To Me My Whole Life And It Hurts.Knowing Someone That Loves You So Much To Take Th'ire LOVE Out In Such A Passionate Way With Such A Violent Manner.And i Know I Sound like The Girl In The Situation.But I Don't Put My Hands On Any Lady NO MATTER WHAT.OR ANY OTHER LADY IF I HAVE AN OL'LADY.THATS WRONG EVEN TO TALK'N' TO ANOTHER Person if u have A SIGNIFICANT OTHER.Even if its cause they made u mad,for example "They Yelled To Express How They Feel"And Never Touch You In The Process.I know its a long response but I'm sorry this has recently happened to me because i yelled at A woman i loved more than anything. For she betrayed me and "talked" To some guy with a Name.Starts With A "C" I Think..........For A Whole Weekend While Out Of Town. ??FOR PERSONAL REASONS?? And Continued To Talk To Him Once She Returned So I just Hope Ur not That Type Of Lady.but any ways.then she came to me To Put the Blame On me.i have been very unfortunate when it comes to women i yell they hit and lie about me just to make their self's look better not even to get them out of trouble just to get me into IT.So i Feel Like You Sweety And Yeah If He Cheated Fux him But if Not and All He Did Was Yell Give Him Another Go With out The Controlling abusive manner I've been delt.IF I Sound Resentful its because of the lack of trust i have accumulated from constant disappointment.but IF Things Are Honestly As They Say Then I Agree With Everone But As A Prominate "Head Doctor" I Feel There Is More To YOUR All's Situation.Based On all The Blaming,And Finger Pointing.Ofcourse it could be slightly! Different. But Go With Your Heart Hun.cause thinking clouds the heart and vice versa.

Answer 3

accept this and be thankful that you didn't marry him. I know that you're hurting and my words may seem harsh, but it's true. One day he will have this happen to him and understand the depth of your pain and hopefully by then you will have the right man and the guy that hurt you will be a long forgotten memory. If he's meant for you, then he'll return and make up for what he's done, if not then at least you will know for sure that he just wasn't the one for you. Never settle for someone who doesn't want you when there is someone out there who really needs you.

Answer 4

Anyone can say the words "I love You" and not mean it. Time and their behaviour mean more than just words. This is why it is of the upmost importance to take time to know someone or they can be convincing you with mere words which might mean nothing at all. He obviously was playing you and also this other girl. As much as it hurts and confuses you now, let this be one of life's lessons about how "actions speak louder than words". Now look at his actions and erase from your memory those words he told you as his actions told you all you need to know. Get a guy who will not only tell you that he loves you but will show it also. Best of luck to you!

Answer 5

Well, i know it's not easy because of the situation, but I think that sooner or later you will be glad you found out now rather thatn after marrying him... Some tend to think that once we're married he is mine, but if he is that "type" he would probably have problems committing himself to you 100%. I hope you're feeling better soon, and that you find someone that will truly love you and want to share his life with you!!
Good luck:)

Answer 6

Just look at the positive side. Be thankful that you found out before you married him what he's really made of, attitide-wise. Forget about him and try to move on. He is not the only fish in the sea, girl.

Answer 7

Let him go and move on.

Some guys, and women, say :'i wanna spend my whole life with you...' and the drop of a hat. Seldom is it true.

Take time, grab a dictionary, and move forward.

And remember: Spell check is your friend.

Answer 8

You have to think of it this way,,,, why be with someone that doesnt want to be with you, he wouldnt of gave you his whole heart and that is a sad feeling. Consider yourself lucky that you have a chance to find that person who will love you with every breath that you take.

Answer 9

I can give you two advices:
Forget, focus on you and move on.

or

If you love him, fight for your love.

Not sure what you want to hear, but If I were you, these two questions would be the ones I would be considering.....only you know which one will make you happier.

Answer 10

you just move on and be thankful..why?because you weren't married to a irresponsible one.marriage is a very serious chapter in your life..you must be with the right one,..let go..move on..there's gotta be more to life...something better will replace him