There is this junior that i like at my school but i don't know him that well. he is really hott and people tell me he is nice. I would love to get to know him!i am a freshmen though. but EVERYDAY when i pass him in the hallways he always glances at me, he glances at me at lunch, he looks at me when he thinks i am not looking but my friends are for me, he sometimes stares at me in the morning times, and he will kinda show off by bending over to tie his shoes in front of me, sticking his butt out in front of me, and standing right in front of me stretching and taking off his sweatshirt. My friends think he is interested in me but he has a gf from a diff town and they have been goin out for like 3 weeks.
All this stuff that I listed above was going on for like 2 1/2 weeks and today at school he didn't look at me.not even once. What is going on? Do you think he is just trying to play with my head? He did look back a few times in my direction at lunch but idk if it was directly @ me.
2007-12-18 00:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF HE COULD POSSIBLY BE INTERESTED IN ME...WHY WOULD HE LOOK AT ME SO MUCH ONE WEEK AND THEN TODAY NOT EVEN LOOK AT ME AT ALL...DOES THAT MEAN HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN ME ANYMORE..?? COULD HE JUST BE HAVING A BAD DAY??
2007-12-18 00:03:18 · update #1
You have to be sure that he is not fooling you.the best thing you can do now is"remain apparently aloof".Observe indirectly how he behaves .....how he stares at you to draw your attention and similar things.It's hard to say right now that he is all out for you.It's too immature a stage to arrive at any conclusion.You are not to act in a manner that gives him a feeling that "you are eager to get him at any cost".That will give him an edge which ultimately , will go against you.Wait and watch , that's my suggestion.OK?
2007-12-18 00:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can second guess yourself into seizures or you can start talking to him. If he has broken up with his gf and likes you then that's good, you have a chance. Otherwise, you will likely have a new friend. Sure, it may be odd at first, but I think that to really love someone or even get attracted beyond the physical level, you need to really get to know the person first
2007-12-18 08:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by norman steve 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
judging from what you saying, I think this guy likes you. He's probably shy to tell you maybe because he's your junior(but that doesn't matter). Tell you what, stop watching him from a distance. I suggest you start up a conversation with him. You can never know until you take the initiative. You'll be surprised. The fact that he kinda ignored you is not evidence enough to suggest that he doesn't like you. Maybe he kinda feels insecure. Please do me a favour, take the initiative. Love, Flash
2007-12-18 08:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by flash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...you are obsessing...the most attractive woman is one who is not needy....it sounds like he is toying w/ you....why don't you take control of this by working on YOU - focus on doing well in school & on an outside and or physical activity that will get those endorphins going....if this person likes you, he will pursue you w/out the games...and if he is just messing w/ your head...you're sure going to be in great shape for "the real thing" when that person comes along ;)
Added - 12/18 You need to stop....no one can second guess another person...YOU ARE OBSESSING AND THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY THING....get on w/ your life - if he likes you & you still care - it will work out - if not - someone better will come along.
2007-12-18 08:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, he is not right, I think. Because you need to judge his honesty. You test him. Don't see at all for 1 week, still he is following you and trying to talk to you...observe any "losing" on his face. If yes then he is right. But becareful. Don't get trapped. Because you are a nice gal.
2007-12-18 08:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's a kid, surrounded by multiple members of the opposite sex on a daily basis. Chances are someone else has caught his attention by now. Sorry, but you are yesterdays news.
2007-12-18 08:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by mama a 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, he's probably not interested anymore because you gained some weight.
2007-12-18 08:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Abe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should tell him 'hello".
2007-12-18 08:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by Track1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask him
2007-12-18 08:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lady lovely locks 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i know he does cause thats wat my boyfriend did to me
2007-12-18 08:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋