2007-12-18 08:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's okay. I wish a 24yr old would show me some interest.
2007-12-18 09:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess its OK, as long as she's not using you just for the eye candy factor.
I find it hard to believe that a 35y/o woman would WANT to be dating a 24 y/o guy.... it would seem that its one of three things:
1) She's recently divorced / seperated from a serious relaitonship and enjoys feeling "young" again by hanging out with a younger crowd.
2) She's emotionally immature and thus likes hanging out with a younger crowd.
3) She feels the need to be able to "prove" to the world that she can still land a young lad.
I don't want to sound harsh, but MOST women in their mid 30's have some definite ideas about what a man should be able to bring into a relationship..... most often these things being, a well paying job with benefits to support them (and any kids they bring into the situation), stability (emotional, financial, and social), and a certain maturity in their "man". Example - they want to be able to afford a certain car, a certain house, a certain level of lifestyle and to do "classy" things in their social life (i.e. upscale vacations, concerts, etc...)
Sorry to say - but the MAJORITY of 24 y/o males out their do NOT have the means to provide this type of lifestyle yet. Your idea of a fun vacation is backpacking Europe and staying in hostels along the way, her's is likely to be the upscale hotel in the "other" part of town....
At 24 y/o most guys are after the bikini clad, frat boy, drunk fest beach vacation, the 35y/o woman would probably want the week at the beach-front resort with add on snorkle and sightseeing tours to the tune of 5 - 8K plus.....
After the young hot body, and mediocre (usually at best) sex skills - what else does the 24 y/o bring to the table ?
Like I said - unless she's using him to feel young, or look good with her "boy toy" on her arm, I would highly doubt the relationship would / could last long term....
Sorry to be harsh, but its true. The same holds true for the 35 y/o guy who dates a 24 y/o female.
2007-12-18 09:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Age is merely a selection till you get into the legalities. He would desire to be categorized as a intercourse criminal and would desire to be monitored by ability of police for something of his existence, serve penitentiary time, on no account get on my own time together with his young little ones if he has any, have a demanding time getting a activity, and lots extra. You no longer ending the relationship will harm his existence if all of us ever found out approximately it, no count number how lots of a astounding guy he would be. Any smart 24 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous guy does no longer even evaluate being with a minor, fairly no longer pass close to a minimum of one jointly as doing so.
2016-10-08 21:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my fiancee was 23 and he married a 35 year old woman before he met me. Obviously, that marriage ended in divorce. The age difference didn't have that much to do with it though, I don't think. So yes, it's probably alright.
2007-12-18 09:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by phatchick182004 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell yes! My best relationship was with a woman 17 yrs older than me, and we lasted 15 years
2007-12-18 09:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Scott M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only a problem if there is one. If you are both happy and committed then it's okay.
But if for example the woman is just dating you because she wants to be seen with a young stud then that is not commitment but self centeredness.
You be the judge.
2007-12-18 09:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by PokerPlayer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age is just a number - if you're both free spirits and enjoy each other's company and have much in common - who cares you're younger than she is. Good luck to her for finding you - and you have a mine of experience in that lady too!!
2007-12-18 09:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably sees you as a kid she can control and manipulate and "mold and shape" into her ideal man.
If she has kids, get ready to be their door mat if they walk all over her, because thats proof that she doesnt discipline them and she sure isnt going to let (what she considers to be) some 24 yr old kid discipline them either.
2007-12-18 09:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
without any further info, i'd say sure. it completely depends upon the maturity level, motivations and compatibilities of the two people, really, and the age difference is secondary.
2007-12-18 09:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To each their own. Wouldn't work for me but I'm not in that situation!
2007-12-18 09:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋