Long distance relationship... one day she is say I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread then all the sudden no contact fo a few months then you are really great but I want to stay near my family but her family tells me she thinks I am the greatest too and are trying to tell her how great I am I'd of made those sacrafices why would I not be allowed just shuting the door on 3 years something is amiss wouldn't you say?
2007-12-18 08:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she has someone else on the side? I'm sorry for your situation.
2007-12-18 08:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Katy B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A letter, phone calls, e-mails, flowers, and cards can't take the place of not being able to see one another. Long distance relationships aren't for everyone. Many times one of the parties would eventually find a mate that is closer to them. Unless one of you plan on moving, I think although you may still love one another that this relationship just maybe growing tired for one of the parties involved.
2007-12-18 08:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sunday's Best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey well maybe before you two started dating she was in the middle of another relationship and then it ended and maybe she got back together with that person! Or she could have just been confused and things were going too fast so she needed to slow things down well hope I helped bye Cherry
2007-12-18 08:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, something is amiss. She probably feels insecure and thinks that you are cheating on her. Regardless of how wonderful you are.... it's just something that pops into a girls head.
Either that or she met someone else.
2007-12-18 08:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something doesn't sound right to me. I wonder if there is someone else in the picture and she doesn't know just to tell you. 3 years is along time to be together end not know what is on someones mind if you haven't figured her out by now you probablyh never will your heart knows what your head won't let you understand.
2007-12-18 08:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Brown eyed girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I can gather while reading your "question", the only thing "amiss" is you need to not be afraid of proper sentence punctuation.
Merry Christmas
2007-12-18 08:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah strange. hmmmmmm dont we realize that when you have a long distance relationship its more of a security blanket or a good excuse for not having a real relationship. bottom line is your relationship was with your right hand.
2007-12-18 08:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes mate, sorry to say. I have a similar stuation, the reality is she kept me as an 'in case'. Long distance relationship?
It's her way of telling you it's over, but in case things go wrong.........
2007-12-18 08:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she means that much to you, take the time to travel the long distance to find out what's wrong.
2007-12-18 08:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems you lost the full stop button and comma button too.. you should get that fixed..
as for your gf, if shes messing you about then end it, she sounds like she doesnt want the commitment your after and is in two minds of what to do, dont pressure her, just let her b, if all else fails.. end it
2007-12-18 09:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be issues with commitment or just the distance. That sucks though.
2007-12-18 08:45:37 · answer #11 · answered by ~DJ Sammy J~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋