I don't know what to do...?

Question

I'm getting married in 6 months and my fiancé and his father are at eachothers throats. I have ask my fiancé if he wants to invite his dad and he says no, blah blah blah...you know how stubborn men can be. And since he isn't very active in planning the wedding I don't know if not inviteing him is the best thing to do.
Now his father did call him at work on his birthday and he is being stubborn and saying no he called my work not me. He didn't end up talking to him.
So pretty much should I invite him if they are not getting along?
Oh and his mom passed away 4 years ago so no parents at the wedding just seems not right.

Answer 1

Invite him anyways. Are they constantly at each other throats or is this a off and on thing, where sometimes they get along and other times they don't? I'd invite him anyhow and if it's an off week, his dad just won't show. But I think in the end, your husband will regret his father not being there.

Answer 2

If you can't get through to your future husband, then you should talk to dad. Invite him, unofficially, and let him know that it would mean a lot to YOU if he came. If he shows up and your husband gets mad, say "I wanted him here."

Also, I have to wonder what kind of husband he's going to be if he can be this childish with his own flesh and blood father- are you prepared for how he may treat you should something not go his way?

Answer 3

ur fiance may not like it right now but invite his father ur only going to get maried once and if he misses it he nor ur future husband will ever forgive themselves for not going or inviting and then when there not mad at each other they will regret it forever so i would invite him for the best outcome in the future

Answer 4

I wouldnt marry him until he works out his problem with his dad, because if this is how he works through relationship problems then how he treats his dad is how he will be treating you if he gets mad at you.Also, itll be how he treats your kids.