How to make out?

Question

yes i know..its a stupid question. and dont say im not ready if i dont know cuz i totally am. i need answers FAST! no links please..
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Answer 1

Keep your breath fresh and your lips soft at all times. You never know when you and the other person will cross paths and have the opportunity to lock lips. Wear lip balm on a daily basis--no one wants to make out with sandpaper lips. If you know you're going to be spending time with them, brush your teeth and bring breath mints.
Move slowly. The best way to prevent head-butting, elbowing, and clanking teeth is to do everything slowly, especially in the beginning and especially when you're changing positions. As time progresses, you can introduce more passionate kisses, but they can only be sustained for so long. Always return to a slow, comfortable pace.

Make eye contact and smile. Pause every once in a while to meet your eyes with theirs and connect emotionally. This is also a good time to gently lean your forehead against theirs and put your hand on their face. Doing so reinforces an affectionate bond and can last anywhere from a few seconds to an hour. If your partner seems put off, they may be nervous, unsure of how to handle emotional intimacy, or they may not feel emotionally attached. If you're with someone you love, this is the best time to tell them that you love them.
Kiss the face and neck. Vary the kissing routine by moving away from their lips occasionally. Again, move slowly. If you move too quickly, they might not know what you're doing and next thing you know, your lips are crashing into their nose. Kiss the corner of their mouth gently, and make your away along their jawline. You can move up to their temple and forehead, or down to their neck. If you want to kiss their ear, don't peck--the kissing noise is quite loud and can leave a ringing in their ear!
Hug. Right after a forehead or neck kiss is a great time to wrap your arms around your partner and give them a warm, affectionate embrace. Like eye contact, hugging is an emotionally bonding act. Give both of your lips a rest, take a deep breath, and gently caress their back with the palm of your hand.
Stroke their hair. If your partner is a guy, run your fingers through his hair along the scalp from front to back, all the way down to their neck. If your partner is a lady, you can run your fingers down her hair, letting the strands run through your fingers. Keep in mind, however, that some hairstyles are not conducive to this. If they have their hair tied up or it's quite curly, your fingers might get trapped. Instead, run the tips of your fingers slowly along the top and around their ear, as if you're tucking a stray strand behind their ear.

Talk. A little verbal communication will keep things interesting. It's not a good time to start a deep conversation. Just a small phrase in a soft voice will work (especially when accompanied by eye contact and a reassuring smile):


• "Hey."

• "Are you comfortable?"

• "This is amazing."

• "Wow."
Lighten things up. This isn't the movies, where it's all perfect and passionate. You're both human, and there will be awkward moments here and there, no matter how many instructions you read. If anything awkward does happen, be quick to laugh with your partner and mend it with a hug or a kiss. A little bit of tickling here and there can also lighten the mood and make your time together not only intimate but also fun.

Answer 2

Snogging comes naturaly , you open your mouth and gently rub the tip of his/her tounge , when you feel ready put more tounge in and the rest realy comes naturaly , suck a little bit but make sure you dont seem like a vacume cleaner ... some people prefer tounges some dont ( youll find out for yourself soon lol) its not a stupid question ... most people dread doing the rong thing , dont wory about it !

Hope I Helped lol x x

Answer 3

You didn't want a link so I won't tell you where I got this ! But it is SO cool! Here read this and your welcome no charge. Just vote this best answer!

Get comfortable. Nothing ruins the sense of the occasion than sitting or standing awkwardly. somewhere that you won't be bothered or stared at. Make sure the place, time and occasion are all right.[2].
Take time. Make sure both of you want to be intimate by kissing. Don't assume that just because you're dating that you have to make out. Both of you must feel that this is right.
Hold each other. It is much nicer if you are considerate toward one another and embrace. A hug is always a special start to making out and then you can hold one another in different ways - around the shoulders, across the back or simply a hand pulling his or her face forward. Stroke one another's hair or face lightly - this adds to the tenderness of the occasion.
Lean in for the kiss. Your partner should respond and lean toward you as well. Avoid bumping one another's noses - make sure to angle your faces to avoid this.[3]
Begin kissing. Gentle kisses on closed lips to begin with is just fine.[4] It might help to keep your eyes closed, allowing you to dive into the ocean of desire and swim together in your minds.
Test the waters. Making out isn't normally about discussing what is coming next, so you need to take your cues from how your partner reacts. This means noticing any body language that encourages or discourages further kissing and passion. For instance, a body that draws back indicates enough. A face that leans in for more is letting you know that your partner wants to keep making out too.
Open your lips. Let your tongue gently slide across your partner's lips.[5] If he or she doesn't draw back at this point, you can explore a little further with your tongue, sliding your tongue into your partner's mouth while continuing to kiss or "peck" him or her. Quickly, if the passion is mutual, your partner will catch on and do the same back to you.
Make it last. Passion deserves a little time and respect and one should never waste the first time! Add some special touches:


For girls only: Hold onto his head and slowly and lightly move your hands to the back of his head. Rub your hands through his hair and down his shirt. Grab his biceps if you feel confident and give it a squeeze while kissing him. It will turn him on fast.
For guys only: Wrap your arms firmly around her and rub up and down her back (or lower back if she responds happily).
Compliment your partner on how good he or she is at kissing. Not only a confidence booster but probably also a great encouragement for more!
Be assured that you can now make out without fear. Once the first time is over, there's no need to sweat it anymore.after a while try something new exploring new things



[edit] TipsGuys -make the first move to kiss; a girl loves a confident guy. All the same, don't be shy if you're a girl to make the first move because sometimes a guy is too shy!
Make sure to close your eyes while kissing but some eye contact is important to gauge each others' reactions, so don't overdo it; use your commonsense.
It's important to have good dental hygiene, so brush those teeth well beforehand. A little deodorant doesn't go astray or anything that makes sure that you're smelling fresh.[6]
It's a good idea to make a quick bathroom run (if you're at home) before you make a move for several reasons. You don't want to have to go to the bathroom in the middle of a good make out session. Another tip is to hide a toothbrush and toothpaste/mouthwash in the nearest bathroom before your date if you're at your own residence. This allows you to ensure good breath before you swap spit. Going to the bathroom also gives you an excuse to change your position when you get back, allowing you to get closer to your partner to make the first move.



[edit] WarningsDon't forget to swallow to avoid drowning in saliva or accidentally depositing it in your partner's mouth.
If the other person is a bad kisser, don't say anything! If they say something like that to you, respond gently with a short retort such as "You're not a pro either and it's more important we get to know one another better than make this into a competition." Don't bother kissing the person again if he or she dismisses you; after all, who wants to kiss someone mean like that?
Make sure you're comfortable with it first. It's not something that everyone knows how to do the first time, and if the other person is a little shy or embarrassed, reassure them that there's no hurry or pressure.
If you have a beard, you might like to shave it. Prickly faces can be off-putting to the female of the species.
Make sure that you don't have anything stuck in your teeth! (especally if you have braces).

Now that is how to make out!
My comments:
Watch out! The guy will usually try to put his hand up your shirt and down your pants! Or he will kiss your neck and work his way down and I mean all the way down! So be careful! And good luck.

Answer 4

It comes naturally... everyone told me this when I asked, and it made me so frustrated because I figured that they were holding back on me, and that there had to be some sort of other advice they could give me to make it better... but when it finally happened, I realized they were right... it is so easy, and so natural, just let it happen and you'll see!

Answer 5

and not its not a stupid question its curious and just give ur best shot and as u do it ull learn more thing and remember there is no rule about making out and take care now

Answer 6

I'm assuming if you don't know how to make out (ie never did it before) he does, just go with the flow and if anything doesn't feel right tell him.

Answer 7

just kiss....trust me! it comes so naturally ull giggle urself into fits when u realize the question u asked didn't need to be asked in the first place!

Answer 8

all you gotta do is kiss me multiple times. if you're not ready for tounge just do that....if you are then open you're mouth a little bit and let him take over, but don't let it go to far, ecspecially if you're not expericenced.

Answer 9

Practice tying a cherry stem or opening a starburst in your mouth. :)

Answer 10

The best way to learn is to just to do it. just a tip..wear a little lip gloss. guys love it.