Many of you ladies have heard my story but to refresh. I am 8 months pregnant. My boyfriend cheated on me and I caught him. Me and the girl set him up. Anyway. Now today a girl called my cell phone which he usually has and asked for him. When I asked who she was she hung up on me. When I called her back on my house phone she told me her name and said they are just friends should I believe her? Even though honestly I dont because that is what the other girl said at first to. He also gave my number to some girl on myspace. Many of you have told me many times that he is just using me for my home and my car. Should I take this as him still cheating and call it quits? i wanted him to be here when the baby is born. Why would the girl just hang up unless she is guilty?
2007-12-18 08:48:55 · 10 answers · asked by kindra1988 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The major problem you have is with yourself. Let me explain.You are 8 months pregnant by this guy, you caught him cheating( apparently you also forgave him), he gave your number to a girl on my space( how dumb or disrespectful can you get), and another girl is now calling you house. This guy obviously does not understand or care that he has a pregnant girlfriend, and is going to be a father soon. What does he have to do before you decide he is not worth the heart ache. While I believe in second chances, it only works when the person is truly sorry and changes their ways which this guy is not interested in doing.When the baby is born, he can participate in raising and caring for it but that does not mean you have to be in a relationship with him. I know it is never easy to end a romance with someone you love, however, you have to in this case or this guy will continue to take you for granted and abuse that love. I wish you a safe delivery.
2007-12-18 09:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him then it doesn't really matter if he is cheating. It certainly doesn't sound like he has any respect for you or your relationship. Personally, I would kick him out but tell him that he can be an active part of his kid's life. If he wants to be with you then he will be willing to go to couple's therapy and move out until he has proven that he is trustworthy.
He can still be a good father. But don't let him keep disrespecting you as a woman
2007-12-18 16:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly girl i think you should just leave that buster alone because once a liar and a cheater always a liar and a cheater! even though u are pregnant he should be a man aand take care of his responsibilities so regardless of what he feels about you he needs to be there and if he won't be there for you sue his *** for child support i bet you he'll wake up then!!!!
2007-12-18 16:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this time it must be hard to let him after u r carrying his baby. Once a cheater is always be a cheater. It is up to u to leave him alone and just move on with your live.
2007-12-18 16:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits girl! He is not good enough for you!!! He continues to cheat on you and you can't just put up with it!
2007-12-18 17:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by In<3w/myBOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. the baby will be fine if he's not there when you have the baby. And yes she was lying to you about being just friends.
2007-12-18 16:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by faithful_nascar_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think shes guilty since she hung up, you should ask your bf thou
2007-12-18 17:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st time he cheats, let'em go, he's disrespectin you and the baby you're carrying.
2007-12-18 16:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl leave him along
2007-12-18 16:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are beyond help
2007-12-18 16:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋