ok lets say have a best guy friend (brad) that has a gf (shanon). but that girl is cheating on him (brad). so the point is that should i tell my best friend that his girl is cheating on him. brad really likes her. the other guy is my other guy friend (jake) that lives in texas and is moving to cali for his girl (shanon). but he dosnt know he's dating a other guy (brad). should i tell both of them that or just one of them. or should i just keep my mouth shut.
2007-12-18 08:47:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good friend would let them in on the fact they are being played.
2007-12-18 08:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by bryan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They definitely deserve to know. Since you are good friends with both the guys.... I think you should tell them. Or you can tell Shanon that you know she is cheating on them and give her a chance to break the news to them both or you will.
2007-12-18 16:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Torrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like total tv / highschool drama lol but anyways the only way I'd not want to tell is if shannon was my friend but even then I'd probably tell brad then jake. or you can tell shannon she needs to stop or you'll have to say something just be aware your gonna probably be enemies with her but if you don't say anything brad wont see you as a friend.
2007-12-18 17:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by sbarajas16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would keep my mouth shut if your just friends with them because in the end they'll end up resenting you for telling them. but if its you best friend id say im not trying to hurt you im trying to help you....shanon is cheating on you
2007-12-18 16:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how much is she cheating on him? was it just the one time or is it over and over again? if it was just the one time u should probably keep ur mouth shut but if its over and over again u should tell ur friend. i think that u should also tell that other guy what this girl has been doing.
once a cheater, always a cheater. she's cheated on ur friend and so she has the potential to cheat on the other guy if they were to get together and he needs to know that
2007-12-18 16:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they won't believe you and they'll think you're out to hurt them so don't just come out with it - they should know, but maybe it's best to talk to shanon and tell her you know and that she needs to make a choice or you will tell them
2007-12-18 16:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl isnt your friend.. tell them, generally i stay out of peoples business assuming i know both parties, but if you know only one of the two ( by that i mean in a frienship way) then tell them. In the long run they may look down upon you for not telling them and thats generally not worth it.
2007-12-18 16:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by billyjoeelkhorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. I understand you have friends involved in something complicated, but you don't want to get caught in the middle of it. Let them work on their own problems.
2007-12-18 16:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Holly W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend Brad but ask him not to give your name when confronting Shannon.
2007-12-18 16:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit both of them down together and tell them what going on!
Dont let that girl cheat on him!
2007-12-18 16:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥I'm not Bob♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋