I like this boy at school and I and pretty sure that he likes me back. Today someone said to him, you like her, you told me that.
But,, I don't know but I just said eww.. b/c I was kinda nervous
He also said she probably will like Asian boys( since I am an Asian)
I am too afraid to ask him my self.
What do I do??
2007-12-18 08:51:56 · 32 answers · asked by 『♥loveholic♥』 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does this mean that he doesn't like me anymore??
2007-12-18 08:52:43 · update #1
don't be mean please
2007-12-18 08:57:32 · update #2
sorry for not being clear
I meant
There is a boy that I like and he probably likes me back
Today, someone revealed that he likes me
So my friend said hey that guy likes you
So I said eww
Then he said she probably likes Asian guy
sorry if this still doesn't make sense
2007-12-18 09:09:34 · update #3
Okay not to freak you out but
Asian girls are usually HOT and I am sure he was just as nervous as you.......thats where the "she probably likes Asian boys came from" In his head he was saying "**** WHY DID YOU PUT MY ******* BUSINESS OUT LIKE THAT"
he probably was thinking of an excuse and that was the first thing that popped up
If he did like you feelings dont go away in a mater of min so dont worry he does still like you
Now the only problem not is that you dont know what to say to him
SO THIS IS ME PROPOSITION
go to him and give him your number or get his....(I know how are you suppose to do that)
talk to his best friend and tell his friend that you like him then have his friend call you then you two call him on three way.....
OR
Invite him to the mall with a big group of friends and get his number so you call call him when you get there so ya'll can meet up
now that you got the number....call him as a friend
talk to him for a long time
ask him questions like "who was your last girlfriend" and "If there was one person at the school you would date who would it be"
FLIRT...BIG TIME
and if all else fails tell him you like him
if he doesnt like you back **** HIM
but maybe he will
Its a chance you have to take
YOU CAN DO THIS AND IF YOU TRY HARD HE WILL BE YOUR MAN...^__^
I hope I helped you and tell me how it goes...BYE
2007-12-18 09:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lithia O 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. I had this same issue a few days ago. If you think he likes you and you like him back go for it. He might be waiting to see if you are that courageous girl he's been looking for. Give it your best shot. The worst thing that could happen is rejection, and you know what, big deal, I'm not a fan of it myself but there's always someone for everyone.
2007-12-18 09:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you but probaly lost hope in asking you out when you said ewww. But you can't just lose intrest in some one right away. studies show that boys are always afraid to make the first move (relationships when girls make the first move are proven better) so I think you should use your guts and aleast try to be friends or talk to him or ask him out. I know it sounds horrifing but it will give you a big sign of relfe when its over! And whater you do don't ask your friend to do it for you.The boy might get you confused with her and ask her out which will break your heart. And if you don't haves guts to talk to him then ask one of his buddies for his e-mail cell phone-# to im him or e-mail him so you don't have to face to face. And if you have enough guts try to tell you like him!
-good luck
2007-12-18 09:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by kuoityiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you. Don't be afraid either. Just write notes to him and flirt with him as you can. Tell someone that knows him that you like him and tell that person yo ask the boy if he likes you if he replies yes then ask if he would like to go out with each other. Don't act like your afraid or you will LOSE HIM!!!!!
2007-12-18 08:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
You may not want to hear this but you are young and the main thing you need to do is pay attention to the reason you are at school.
Boys will get you in a lot of trouble.
if you wait and be patient the right one will come along at the right time.
happy holidays.
2007-12-18 09:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon Dae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your explanation is a little confusing so im not sure if i got it right but i think that if you think he likes you, then you should just write him a note or something b/c he may think you dont like him w you saying ewwww. and i know how you feel about the whole asian thing too! good luck!!
2007-12-18 08:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by L.o.s.t. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO hes probably not that confident. If you really like him, ask him out don;t waste time. Trust me I did this once and I waited to long and he ended up going out with someone else!
2007-12-18 08:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said ewww then you don't know if he realized that you're just nervous (chances are he didn't), now that he maybe thinks you don't like him you should stop worring about if he likes you and just go talk to him. If he heard you say that he would feel hurt. Just be casual, say hi to him. Good luck
2007-12-18 08:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a dilema.
i suggest you dont ask him face to face. it may be that he does like you and hes shy or he may just see you as a friend and does nt want to hurt your feelings. putting people on the spot might make them feel awkward, get another mate to casualy, bring it up to him.
good luck x
2007-12-18 09:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by austins mum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he thinks you don't like him, cause you said "eww". You should let the boy know that you do like him, You said "eww" cause it was a automatic reaction and you were nervous.
2007-12-18 08:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by darylann_dewitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋