Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

My Parrents divorced when I was 5...im 13 now....and I dont really have anybody to talk to....but.. i know she wants to be happy with a guy, but whenevr she brings a new guy into our life....she dosent ask of my opinon of him....and how do i talk to her about it?

2007-12-09 19:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well believe me it doesnt get better....it only gets worse

2007-12-09 19:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by machele 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We've only been married 1 1/2 years and he is self employed, and chooses to work at night and sleep during the day. when he's not working he stays out in the garage all night playing online poker, watching porns behind my back and doing drugs. I've asked him to come to sleep with me but he wont unless we have sex. I'd love to have sex, but I just wish he'd want to spend some time with me. Or at least come to bed with me every night. I don't understand why he lies about everything and continues to watch porn and keep a bottle of lotion by the computer instead of being with me????

2007-12-09 19:05:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am divorced. Have been for 7 years. I have 2 children. My son is 11 and my daughter is 2. They both have the same father. I wanted another child but I didn't want a relationship with someone for the wrong reasons. Also, major family issues in my life would keep me from being fair to a man so I skipped the heartache and voila, my beautiful daughter.
My ex-husband wants nothing to do with our daughter. To be fair, he ignores our son too, but he actually pretends that our daughter doesn't exist. His girlfriend, now his wife, hates our daughter because they had been in a relationship for years when she was born. My daughter knows who he is and it kills me that I had to watch her cry when my son recently was telling me about the day he spent with his dad ( 1st time in 4 years ) and she overheard him talking about daddy. What would you do to keep your baby from pain like this? I don't even make him pay child support on her. I knew he was a lousy dad. I didn't know how bad he could be.

2007-12-09 19:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by Amy J 3 in Family

MY AUNT was abusive sometimes. BUT my UNCLE walked out on her and gave her no MONEYS 4 support.
AS my cousins got older she apologised. SHE explained the world was on her shoulders. THEy was no support money wise from my UNCLE.
AND my cousins gave her a hard time. THEY fought all the time and never did what she told them. MY aunt did all the work.
ONE day i went over there she was in tears.
NOW all my cousins have turned against my aunt even tho she apologised.
AND you should see my cousins. They are worse then my aunt ever was. THEy do drugs.
THEy are PLAYERS. THEy lie 4 moneys. THEy never ssay sorry. AND they think their poop dont stink.
I told my AUNT you did what you needed to do. AT least you apologised.
DONT you think my cousins will get it all back 4 attacking my aunt? THEY are far from perfict. WHAT do U think? THEY never remember her

2007-12-09 18:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-09 18:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by pilgrimofspace 2 in Friends

i am not from america and i just move here so please excuse me if question is soo weird, but i have 2 thing to ask.
1. i think i have a very hairy vulva and i want to know what other girls have same problem in this country.
2. i think my vagina lips are shaped very strangely...or maybe they just stick out alot...

can another female please help me answer these questions? i am 18 years old and would very much like to chat with another girl of my age. thanks

2007-12-09 18:50:14 · 5 answers · asked by sevana balasarian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

are high school won state and we rushed the field and i got hit bye an oposing palyer and think i broke my leg.

2007-12-09 18:42:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know it is not a good thing to "try" to do, but sometimes it just needs to happen!

2007-12-09 18:38:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every perons behavier is differ from charecter. some talk roughly their heart is very kind, they wnt harm or cheat others. some are talking very smoothly but their inner mind is very selfish, cheater like. some are smooth as well as good. but some are not good in talk as well as in charecters but some are good in both. Is goodnss in heart is always rewarded or not. Can u plz

2007-12-09 18:35:14 · 13 answers · asked by she s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married and pregnant. My Husband and I split up about 6 months ago. This is our third child. ( I am due any day now.)
He has a girlfriend that he moved into our family home a few months ago and I have my own apartment. He has the kids most weekends, which means I have to see him every weekend. I still love him, and would love to be with him again but he is unwilling to give up his girlfriend. I have decided to be strong for myself and my kids and work my *** off to be able to give them a good life. My problem is that everytime I see him I want him back. I can't keep myself from getting weak in the knees for him. How am I supposed to get over him? I don't want a rebound, I want to be happy without a man, and live for me and my kids. Any advice?

2007-12-09 18:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by anyhoo085 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do if I have a lesbian cousin. See I just found out today that she was a lesbian on a profile of facebook. She keeps saying how she misses that girl and woke up in the morning and kissed her. No one knows about this except for my family. Her family does not even know. Should we tell her family or just leave it. It we tell her family and then her family and her will get mad. I f we don't tell them they will also be mad at us. When they discover that their sibling is lesbian they will get mad at us for not telling them.

2007-12-09 18:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-09 18:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mississippi to visit his girlfriend's family. He has made a habit of leaving town with her and my 10 year old is raising a fuss. Tonight she called and left him a silly message and he returned her call pretty much chewing her out and he just wants to hear from her only when it's an emergency. I couldn't believe my ears, he has never behaved this way to his kids ever. There has been some tones from his gf to the fact that he's had to explain he has enough love in his heart for her and his kids (red flag) Well, my daughter became VERY upset and was crying uncontrollably. I tried calling him to help me to console her and he wouldn't pick up. I called his Mom who I have maintained a nice relationship with and she said she would call him. Well, he did return the phonecall finally and I am in utter astonishment that he treated our daughter that way. All I can think of is someone is telling him to treat her that way, was I wrong to do what I did?

2007-12-09 18:19:34 · 19 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 18:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by highthoughts 4 in Singles & Dating

what the hell is the difference when a girl says i just wanna be alone and she is texting me constanly the whoel time whats the point of being alone and texting me and calling me i dont get her and what about a break she asked for a break i gave it to her she said well talk every nwo and then at night so what does that mean for me can i date while im on a break to me it sounds wrong but if its not going to work out i need to step up and try to do something so i dont dwell on it and stay home thinking oh i wonder who shes AND for everyone whos going to say i dont love her i ******* do with all my heart id kil for her but if its not working out between us and we both realize it why bother fighting a loosing battle?

2007-12-09 18:14:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I am 21 and away at school.

Today I get a call that my parents are splitting up.

I don't even feel like going home for christmas now, i was excited now i just feel weirded out. My dad did something outrageously jerkish to make my mom wanna leave him and now it makes me think differently of him because of what happened and that my younger sister was there to witness it and be traumatized.

Does any one have advice for this type of situation?? I know plenty of parents divorce or split up and its gonna be hard but i almost think its harder now that im older.

2007-12-09 18:12:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy is crazy, he has been in and out of jail since they have been together. He does a lot of drugs, cheats on her and beats her. She wants to leave him but she is too scared because she believes that he will kill her, our mom and I also believe that he would do it. She has an apartment offered to her and she could move in in January, but it is in the same small town that he lives in. Is there anywhere she could get help? What can I do to help her? Should she move to a different town/city? This is scary.

2007-12-09 18:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by Lady Rae 6 in Marriage & Divorce

the question is pretty much self explanatory. How do I go about this??? She had all the details that really scare me about this and now that I betraid her trust, she will hate me. WHAT WOULD YOUD????

I notised that a screen door was off the window a few nights a few months ago but I didnt think that it was anything. I guess now that she was going out the window???OR this perpadrator was coming in...SO I guess he is over 16 and his name is Bones.

I thougt she was a virgin

she is at her dads tonight

2007-12-09 18:02:13 · 35 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Family

the question is pretty much self explanatory. How do I go about this??? She had all the details that really scare me about this and now that I betraid her trust, she will hate me. WHAT WOULD YOUD????

2007-12-09 17:56:51 · 21 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My son come home in 4 days from IRAQ after sreving better then 4 years over their!
Here back ground:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AniD2jHP_RogMjYvoy4Y.r7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071205205233AAx7qAr

I asked my husband to self the DIVORCE until after the the holidays because my son has been hurt so much latly with the lose of a few of his friends and the woman he was in love with (CIVIL ENGENGEER) that let him have some peace in his life for a few weeks!

My husband out of the blue said he was willing to recincile our marriage if I wanted to, that he was a fool and that he loved me! Now I got a delema on my hands what to do because I still love him, and my 3 daughters ( all over 30) still think of him as their father, but the issue of him leaving me wont go away, as well as him infering that I was not my sons REAL MOTHER that cut me to my core!

The reason he left me was in his words I made everyone more important them him and his needs ad thats why he left me.

2007-12-09 17:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In most situations, when a guy is developing a crush on a girl, he is sexually attracted to her... So if a girl is developing a crush on a guy, is she sexually attracted to her?

2007-12-09 17:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Soooo my gf and I have been going out for 6 months but we've known each other since 2004...we are about to move into an apartment in a month or so, her best friends are a couple minutes away from us. These are 2 guys that I haven't met and they've known her for years. Her question to me tonight was what if I go out and I spend the night with them and spend the night over would that be ok? Uhh no I mean what is so special to spend the night with them? Isn't spending time with them enough? Help how should I even explain this to her....thanks for your time and answer away

2007-12-09 17:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by wtnprez 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-fiance was 400 lbs, "forgot" to take his blood pressure medication, he was selfish, always had to be right about everything. He had emotional problems. I wasn't that attracted to him, we couldn't have sex because of his size, he kept his house dirty and nasty. I didn't like his family that much. He would embarrass me in public. He looked at porn behind my back. He wasn't very romantic. He didn't take care of his responsibilities sometimes. If this was your boyfriend would you leave him??

2007-12-09 17:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy in Paris. He is from Italy. Then I went to China for work. He has visited me twice in Paris and twice in the Far East. That's a total of three years long distance relationship. We both spent a lot of money in internaional phone calls, sms. We chat almost everyday on yahoo. I have been trying to get employment in his area Luxembourg, but it's not one of the easiest places to find work as a teacher. But inspite of how much he "loves" me, he is not willing or ready to marry me, since he said it's against his principles. But I don't see it that way. We love each other and this distance is causing us a great deal of pain. Besides, he said I'm one woman he truly enjoys conversations and exchange of ideas, even outside of the relationship. Now I'm working on getting an employment contract in Spain, it's nearer to Luxembourg than China just to stay nearer to him. I'm now very close, it will take less than a year. But he says he wants to stop this relationship.

2007-12-09 17:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

Asides the, you smell so nice, you taste nice, your skin is soft, your skin is smooth. What else can I say?

2007-12-09 17:38:32 · 5 answers · asked by Adam S. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 17:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi!
well obviously my professor has a crush on me and I kind of like him back, and in my country there is no rules against dating your professor, but I don't want my friends to think I date him because I want an A. And I will get an A without his help anyway. What should I do? go for it or leave it?

2007-12-09 17:34:35 · 27 answers · asked by Nuwanda 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I have been separated for the last couple weeks and he comes home right before Christmas, so for most of his gift, I decided for it to be...well....fun.

Keep in mind, he is a very romantic guy....

I rented a suite at a fancy hotel that has a hot tub in the room. Got some lingerie and some "couple's games" and plan on surprising him the weekend before christmas since christmas will be spent with family. I will go to the hotel and check in before i bring him there and stock the room with wine and some candles, but while I do want it to be "romantic", I also want it to be fun...which is where the games come into play. They both involve fun questions as well as positions and what not. I want it to just be us having fun with eachother and experincing new things, as well as some old favorites-all over again in a new light.

Would you like it if your significant other did something like that for you?

2007-12-09 17:34:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's the most dsciplined, organized person I know. she schedules and prepares everything. she's in control of everything.
I live in a world of chaos and uncertainty. I can't do anything on time.
the worst part is: she can't seem to choose her own thing. she keeps following me in EVERYTHING. every time i finally figure out how things work, she comes along and sponges the info from me and starts from my level.
i love her and i'm happy for her, but at the same time i feel like life's been beating me down on every level for a decade while she's never had any real hardship to discourage her.
i can't stand her arrogant, judgemental attitude anymore.

2007-12-09 17:31:57 · 8 answers · asked by Happy-Miserable-Female 3 in Family