Do you have an overly-perfect sibling?

Question

My sister's the most dsciplined, organized person I know. she schedules and prepares everything. she's in control of everything.
I live in a world of chaos and uncertainty. I can't do anything on time.
the worst part is: she can't seem to choose her own thing. she keeps following me in EVERYTHING. every time i finally figure out how things work, she comes along and sponges the info from me and starts from my level.
i love her and i'm happy for her, but at the same time i feel like life's been beating me down on every level for a decade while she's never had any real hardship to discourage her.
i can't stand her arrogant, judgemental attitude anymore.

Answer 1

I have a sister like that too. I used to resent her, and blame her for using me to learn about things too. The truth is that you should both be learning from each other.

You can improve your situation by benefiting from some of her actions. Don't be so negative about her. She may be a pain, but she is your sister, and family will eventually mean everything, even if it doesn't now.

Your sister may, in fact, actually be trying to help you, in the only way she knows how.

Answer 2

Yes I do. He never fully developed but he is in my abdomen and he is always stealing the attention from me. And he gets all the chicks.

Answer 3

No, because I am the perfect sibling. My sibling are always jealous of me, because of my greatness.

Answer 4

meh just put up with it till she moves out hehe

Answer 5

Ignore her she's the one with a problem.

Answer 6

just realize that it is up to you to create your own destiny, so make better choices

Answer 7

nope dont have one of those

Answer 8

I been there