Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

I'm a tall, attractive, blue eyed, athletic, young 38 year old guy with a great career and a nice apartment on Central Park West and I have no issues meeting women...I do, however, have issues meeting women I see myself forming a future with.

I usually meet high maintenance women/girls which isn't a real issue unless it becomes so expected that there's no appreciation for the little things.

Anyway, just throwing this out there to see if somebody can help me find someone to put a smile on my face...and vice versa of course.

Thanks!

2007-12-09 16:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by lewpaff 2 in Singles & Dating

depending on their sexuality! Marriage is one of the joys of life that should not be denied to anyone just because of their sexual orientation.Denying the right to marry is like denying the right to vote, or the right to free speech or even the right to the pursuit of happiness.

2007-12-09 16:14:01 · 25 answers · asked by !rose!{loves life} 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 16:13:13 · 13 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My classmates always tease me for their own pleasure. I dont tease them. In fact, I only talk to them only if its important. I have only 1 friend in the class. I've tried befriending them alot of times, but they just dont want it. They would rather tease me and bully me so that they can be a star in the class. I have read alot of suggestions like ignoring them until they stop. But the problem is the more I ignore them, the more they tease me. Everyweekday on the way to school, I always pray, hoping that the teasing will stop and for the people who tease me to realize what they are doing. Everyday I worry about that. Please, anyone who can spare just a few minutes to think and give an answer to help a person who is mentally disturbed everyday. It would really help me.

2007-12-09 16:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by George Hide 1 in Friends

Hello I have three daughters two of them are a lot closer in age http://img512.imageshack.us/my.php?image=saasasasdv0.jpg http://img212.imageshack.us/my.php?image=11cz8.jpg there good kids but they like to pick on there younger sister. http://img149.imageshack.us/my.php?image=34357741779114040ceyj6.jpg You name it they have try it I have to keep telling them if they would not like someone picking on them. Then they should stop doing to there sister but nothing has worked so far what should I do I know that they love there sister so why are they doing this?

2007-12-09 16:08:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When watching movies at my friend's house...my best guy friend...randomly when he gets up and back to sit down...comes by and tickles my feet. He then he tells me to come sit by him..when i'm sitting on the other couch. He also plays with my hair. Do you think he's flirting with me or do guys do this all their best girl friends?

2007-12-09 16:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well we are a military family so my husband is gone alot. we have been married 2 years and we have a daughter together. well he is currently away to nevada and he met some girl in a club and gave her our home number instead of his cell number. they both say nothing happened and he says she is his friends girl and they were all goin to go hang out but something in his story and her story just dont sound right. he is coming back home this weekend and the closer it gets to the day the more nervous i get. can someone give me some advice on this situation. i love my husband but i dont know how i should act around him when he gets home

2007-12-09 16:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by totally sad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everybody. I am a teenager who is looking forward into working in a field of bussiness. I want to do accounting and hopefully be one of those high class people. Three years ago when I was thirteen, I made the dumbest mistake. I was really immature and all and was lookiing for love in the wrong places. One time at night when I was walking to school this guy stop and convince me to talk to him until the point that I gave him my phone #. Two weeks later witthout me knowing him at all, meaning I knew nothing about him, I had sex with him, and I feel extremely sad and depress after I did that You don't imagine. My school now talks about sex more and relationships and I feel like I just want to die. Well, somebody told me that if you are not a virgin, it would not be good to marry a smart and intelligent person. Also many guys says today that they prefer to marry virgins. I really won't like to marry a dumb and a low class person because of many reasons. I really wont' like to tell my future husband that I am not a virgin. I was thinking of getting the hymen repair surgery, but at the same time I don’t want to lie to him. And I really don’t want to tell him the truth either. If I would pick one of those two, telling him the truth or doing the surgery, I would pick the surgery. What do you suggest? Do you have a better suggestion? Please help me I beg.

2007-12-09 16:03:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I started going out with this boy... Ryan. I have been single for almost a year, and i was getting tired of it so Ryan asked me out and i just said yes. I had only met him twice and we had been texting only a week, so it was really a get to know you relationship. First two weeks were amazing. Everything seemed really good. Then the third week. We go to the same church and apparently i was 'flirting with the whole f****** church' even though i am really outgoing and i didnt intend to flirt at all! we resolved that but then problems kept showing up. so i broke up with him. a couple days later i had the most horrible feeling and i just cried and cried. We got back togather but lately i havent felt anything with him. I feel like we cant talk and our relationship is all physical. i dont know if i should just wait it out, and see if this is just a phase... or break up with him and move on

2007-12-09 16:00:46 · 24 answers · asked by An Untold Story 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my family had been waiting for 3 years for our visa's to come over to the usa. whenever the visa process took a step forward it got knocked three steps back. i told my self that we would never get to go so when we got our visas in july i was gutted because i didn't want to move across the world.
so we have been living here since 8th september and since that day my life has been a misery i'm always arguing with my mum. to be honest i hate it here but when ever i bring it up my mum just does not listen.my mums friend said that i could stay there when i get back to england.
how can i get her to understand?

2007-12-09 16:00:02 · 3 answers · asked by british_gurl14 1 in Family

He is 47 yrs old and 4 kids..15,13,9,6.....I am 36 and have 16yr,14yr old. He has been thru so much I am so patient but I have my doubts. We are both Italian and love each other. He brings his past up a lot and it makes me feel like i have to pay for his past.
What can I do to help him and I thru this?
He says he doesnt compare me but i think he does. What do I do.

2007-12-09 15:59:00 · 12 answers · asked by callybaby71 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we are fourteen.. and i dont want to spend a ton of money, but i want to get him something cute. i was thinking a $10 girftcard to a local movie store (blockbuster or something), his favorite candy,drink and some popcorn.. then i was thinking we could hangout one night and watch the moive he picks out.. is this to girly? guys would you like this? if not ideas please??

2007-12-09 15:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was recently introduced to a girl by my former colleague who is my best drinking pal! Both this girl and my pal are in the same field so they have constant phone contact. I started messaging and calling her and we got on well until I told my love to her.She told me that i was possessive etc.and avoided my contact most of the time.I told this to my friend who helped me build my friendship with her again.Now again we're contacting but not like those days as she has asked me to limit my calls.Now my biggest problem is my jealousy.Im jealous about my friend's and this girl's "over the phone official contact".I used to ask about the girl everyday from my friend who doesn't tell clearly what she spoke and I suspect that they're really close to each other.I checked one day and I found that both of them were on their mobiles!! I think they're close to each other and I really can't beat my jealousy and feel like ending my friendship too!! Im desperate,depressed,jealous and lovelorn..pls help!

2007-12-09 15:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im visiting 3 little girls in a hospital in NY they are 80% burned , there mom passed away in the home when it burned they do not know this.There dad is staying withe them in the hospital they have no where to live they have no money And the soul provider is there dad and he is with them with no Income I want to visit them I know I should take money and things for them but what could I do or say to really comfort them!!!! It would be great help thax

2007-12-09 15:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-09 15:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or if someone says she is a lovely young lady?

2007-12-09 15:46:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Single dad with 3 boys age 7,10,11 keeping me very busy. Been divorced for almost 1 year now but have'nt been out on a date due to exe's inability to help with kids. Looking for some dating advice for meeting, and quality date ideas that are exciting but not all day or all weekend affairs, just to get back into the seen. I'm an attractive 40 y/o, intelligent, honest, compassionate, professional living in Dallas metroplex. It should'nt be as hard as it's been. Any good ideas?

2007-12-09 15:46:11 · 26 answers · asked by sap62_99 1 in Singles & Dating

My father was never involved at all. My parents were teenagers and went separate ways. He treated her bad, was hooked on drugs, and he robbed her parent's house. Im 20 now and recently found him and he wants a relationship. We have been getting to know eachother for 7 months now. He is also dying from primary pulmonary hypertension and basically his body is shutting down on him. He is in the hospital right now and is hoping to be out soon. The problem is that this will be my first and possibly last christmas with him, but my mom has me feeling so guilty about talking to him i can't even explain it to her. I have a close family and Christmas is special to us. But should i spend this time with my birthfather instead of the family who HAS been there for me the past 20 years?? Please someone help me...I need mature, adult advice...

2007-12-09 15:44:32 · 18 answers · asked by briana113 1 in Family

Just wondering why you think men cheat on their wives even after years of marriage and when they claim to be happily married and love their wives and family? Do you think they end up having feelings for other woman?

2007-12-09 15:42:30 · 66 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi im 29 years old and been married for 9 years, i love my wife to death but have been recently not as sexually active as i want to be 2 years ago i had a vasectomy and since they it had dwindelled my sex drive,3 days ago my wife out of the blue asked me if i be interested having a threesome with another women in hopes of restarting our sexlife, even tho this is everymans dream im having mixed emothions about it, she even mentioned going to a swingers party, i dont know what to do

2007-12-09 15:42:19 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 15:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4 in Family

I just split with my wife, she is a mental patient and suicidal, I couldn't take it anymore so i decided to end the relationship after trying to make it work for three years. We had a daughter in 05 but when my wife tried to hurt her in 06 we had to give full custody of her to my wifes parents. now that we are split I can care for my daughter and raise her myself, i even have a baby sitter for when I'm at work. The problem is that my wifes parents will not give her back. What can I do. I love my daughter and want to raise her myself, but it seems like nothing is going my way.

2007-12-09 15:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by andrew b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so I was talking with my cousin on the phone the other night and I heard her soon-to-be-husband saying something in the background behind her and then she said to me "oh, 'sam' (her soon to be hubby) wants you to know that his mother just LOVES you". I didn't know what to say since I've only met this woman 3 or 4 times in my life. I said "um haha, tell him I love his mom too(she really is a very sweet old lady)" and she did. Today she informs me that she is annoyed because his mom doesn't like her very much and she apparently "loves" me and she's kinda been taking it out on me since then. I don't know what to say. Did I say something wrong? Why is she acting like this? She declined my dinner invitation and has been very short with me.

2007-12-09 15:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently went to jail for intent to distribute, now my girl's father hates me, and i want to ask her to marry me. But before I do I need to ask her father's prmission, do you have any suggestions?

2007-12-09 15:36:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 15:35:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 15:32:05 · 4 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

three months later not care if you live or die? He really doesnt

2007-12-09 15:31:22 · 4 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Singles & Dating

It's not unheared of where I live for a 16-17 year old to date a guy who's 23-24. a good friend of mine is 20 and his girfriend is 16. The parents don't mind that. But it's different when you are 23. My friend is 16. I can't tell you how much we relate. We've spent hours talking about nothing lol. And hours talking about everything. We've known each other for 3 years and it's cool. I've almost convinced myself to talk to her and her mom (spepretly and mom first) about asking her out. But I can't quiet get myself to do it. The only thing that makes me hesitate is the age gap. If her mom told me no I'd back off and never bring it up again. Her mom's a friend I went to college with. She's mature for her age, if a bit of a rebel. For those of you who don't think Im crazy, can you give me good ideas? Maybe some stories of your own if you have been in a similer situation? I dout her mom would call the cops. just don't know how to ask her permission...any ideas? (lenghty if possable)?

2007-12-09 15:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by fullmetal479 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have liked this guy for a little while, not very long, he used to sit behind me in one of my classes and when he went to the bathroom, my friend next to me leaned over to me and said that she thought he likes me. Since I liked him i got a little excited.

3 weeks pass and I was walking to lunch and saw the girl he was sitting next to was wearing his jacket! (well it looked like his jacket, it still wasn't a girl jacket.

I don't know if they are going out but im freaking out a little bit.
What do you think?

2007-12-09 15:27:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went off the pill, and i never want to go back on again! it feels so different without the hormones. but i hate condoms.. what should i do? (married, have never had kids) (and don't plan to in the near future) (3yrs)

2007-12-09 15:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by asp 1 in Marriage & Divorce