Jealousy, the monster that's Killing me..pls help!!!?

Question

I was recently introduced to a girl by my former colleague who is my best drinking pal! Both this girl and my pal are in the same field so they have constant phone contact. I started messaging and calling her and we got on well until I told my love to her.She told me that i was possessive etc.and avoided my contact most of the time.I told this to my friend who helped me build my friendship with her again.Now again we're contacting but not like those days as she has asked me to limit my calls.Now my biggest problem is my jealousy.Im jealous about my friend's and this girl's "over the phone official contact".I used to ask about the girl everyday from my friend who doesn't tell clearly what she spoke and I suspect that they're really close to each other.I checked one day and I found that both of them were on their mobiles!! I think they're close to each other and I really can't beat my jealousy and feel like ending my friendship too!! Im desperate,depressed,jealous and lovelorn..pls help!

Answer 1

hi frnd, jeoulous comes within us, since we took birth in wourld,
So don't think that u only have jeoulousy in u.
My suggestion is that find out the way to get close to her, inspite wasting time in jealousy , think some plans.
don't lose heart , evey thing depends upon ur hands.
shou her that u r cool boy.
Lasty frnd , stop expecting more , u have to control ur expectations .

Answer 2

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Answer 3

you are right jealousy is a killer. you know this so stop. it can kill a romance real fast. you have to trust and believe. well so far you have not seen this for yourself apparently but there is nothing in this relationship but what you are thinking. you have to find someone that is interesting and you like. you can't just not trust and keep doing this. try someone you don't work with working with a person you date is bad business. i would never date whom you work with or near. take care.