My classmates always tease me for their own pleasure. I dont tease them. In fact, I only talk to them only if its important. I have only 1 friend in the class. I've tried befriending them alot of times, but they just dont want it. They would rather tease me and bully me so that they can be a star in the class. I have read alot of suggestions like ignoring them until they stop. But the problem is the more I ignore them, the more they tease me. Everyweekday on the way to school, I always pray, hoping that the teasing will stop and for the people who tease me to realize what they are doing. Everyday I worry about that. Please, anyone who can spare just a few minutes to think and give an answer to help a person who is mentally disturbed everyday. It would really help me.
2007-12-09 16:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by George Hide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm sorry your suffering like this,and these *** clowns are just bullies with low self -esteem.Who need to pick on others to make their own pathetic lives seem better.But if they're truly bothering you, you need to tell one of your teachers or principal about the problems you are having with these morons in school so they can clear up this problem.Also,forgive me if you think that this is wrong.....take up some type of martial art or self defense class to hold your own against these kids if it gets out of hand.It builds your confidence and gives you a sense of self worth,also the kids will never mess with you again if you have to make an example out of them.Goodluck and hope everything turns out well.:0)
2007-12-09 16:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are bullies in school and then after they are still bullies working somewhere. they really dont change, and there not worth worrying over. they seem to think they are better then everyone else. if they could only see themselves. by you getting upset you are letting them win. they know what there doing but dont care. just keep ignoring them and walk on. eventually they will find someone else as youwill get old to them.
2007-12-09 16:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short of moving schools, it is really difficult to deal with bullies and bullying behavior at school.
Change something, such as a hairdo, way of dressing, get your parents to drive you instead of using the bus, or walking. Arrange to join clubs to do extra activities so you are always busy.
Volunteer to do work for the school, paid work if they are available. or get a job after work.
All of this has to do with your not having time to deal with their &#^#. You are too busy .
2007-12-09 16:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know what you mean, I've been in the same position, and sometimes still am. Sometimes, the best way to gain respect is to show random acts of kindness, and also, before they can respect you, you must respect yourself. As corny as that sounds, it's true. Also, if you have the respect of your friends, and of your professors, it can make all teh difference. Hang in there, you'll make it through!
2007-12-09 16:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Claire W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:'( this question makes me cry just thinking about second grade all over again i feel for u those fuc.king homos i wish i can turn back and beat them up!! AHHH!!!!! ok calm down......... dont suck up to them there imature and odnt ever let them see u cry and fight back!! and simply say
"im sorry you feel that way" if they tease u leaving them confused.. still be nice to them and.. ahh...lets see they have nuttin better to do!!!
2007-12-09 16:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋