I started going out with this boy... Ryan. I have been single for almost a year, and i was getting tired of it so Ryan asked me out and i just said yes. I had only met him twice and we had been texting only a week, so it was really a get to know you relationship. First two weeks were amazing. Everything seemed really good. Then the third week. We go to the same church and apparently i was 'flirting with the whole f****** church' even though i am really outgoing and i didnt intend to flirt at all! we resolved that but then problems kept showing up. so i broke up with him. a couple days later i had the most horrible feeling and i just cried and cried. We got back togather but lately i havent felt anything with him. I feel like we cant talk and our relationship is all physical. i dont know if i should just wait it out, and see if this is just a phase... or break up with him and move on
2007-12-09 16:00:46 · 24 answers · asked by An Untold Story 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should move on if you continuously feel nothing with this relationship.
Sometimes there just is no spark. It was fun while it lasted but it sounds like you need to move on. If the only things you do is physical, a relationship will never work on just that; you have to be able to communicate with your partner for a successful relationship.
2007-12-09 16:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having these kind of problems during the "honeymoon" phase of the relationship, how will the rest of it be? Jump ship. The first 6 months of a relationship are supposed to be bliss. This doesn't sound like a good relationship. Good luck though! It sounds like you already know what you're going to do.
2007-12-09 16:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound full of yourself. Wow "most of them like you" yeah ok... Why are you so worried about guy problems. Focus on school and friends. Wait like 2-3 years before your really worry about this kinda stuff.. Even in 2-3 years though all this stuff won't matter when you go to college or after college. All the boys you made out with or dated, how popular you were or how many parties you threw aren't gonna matter, your true friends and grades will honey. Think about what you just read.
2016-05-22 10:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask Ryan what he's feeling. Maybe you're not the only one feeling the loss of connection. Tell him what you're really feeling. Talk to him on a mature level and make sure he knows you're not wanting to start a fight. But if it ends up that you guys break up, then at least you'll know what he was feeling.
2007-12-09 16:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by hann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes problems can turn you off from a person.....sounds like you guys had a great beginning and there must have been a lot of chemistry.....and now if the relationship is just physical, maybe you should just move on. esp if you dont think you can every get the relationship to how it was before.
just tell him you think the relationship has reached a plateau.
2007-12-09 16:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by m.bbc.nyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont feel anything then i suggest move on allot of people stay in convient relationships and its not a good idea for you ,, its better to be content and single then unhappy and together and likewise for him if you dont feel strongly for him then he deserves to be free to go find someone who does , so talk it over with him and yourself and see where you stand basically if you ask your self the question do you want and deserve more than this and the answer is yes then move on
2007-12-09 16:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by w j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man thats a whole lot of problems in a little amount of time break up quick and dont feel guilty about it at all. Continue to be your outgoing self and leave the jealous loser in his tracks.
2007-12-09 16:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tommiecat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating completely for at least 6 months or you are heading for an emotional breakdown. Grow up a bit before you get so involved with someone.
2007-12-09 16:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by thom t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest from all you've told me and what you're feeling now..... you're relationship doesn't seem like it's going anywhere, might be time to cut your losses and find someone else, or perhaps you're not ready for another relationship at this time, either way I say it's time to end it.
2007-12-09 16:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tragedy Crept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sounds like he's a bit insecure, maybe jealous of how outgoing you are, and it sounds like your needs are not being met. consider being single...i'm not telling you to break up, but it sounds like yr not happy, and life is too short to be unhappy, and it's definitely too short to watch Fox News.
2007-12-09 16:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋