Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

This is based on the stats on the number of single black women that are out there. I get so tired of be catergorized. Any Advice?

2007-12-09 13:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by A K 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been house sitting for my mom and stepdad for the past 5 days while they were on vacation. I also have three kids that I had to pack up and take over there. I made sure the cats and dogs were fed (one of the dogs gets an insulin shot twice a day). Anyway, she left me $50 to house sit. She also wanted me to clean for her. I spent all day today making the house spotless before she gets home. She'll probably try to give me more money for cleaning but I don't know if I should take it. I really need it but she did stock up on food for us. I did not have to buy groceries for five days. I feel like, she's my mom so I should just to it without expecting anything in return, right? I'm just having a dumb moral issue, should I take it if she tries to give it to me or not. Be honest.

2007-12-09 13:37:00 · 15 answers · asked by Leigh 3 in Family

2007-12-09 13:35:09 · 29 answers · asked by sami1024@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 13:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It seems no guy can every figure this out, don't linger on her stomach. It may sem right to you, but I have friend who is freaking out thinking the guy she's seeing thinks she's fat. Will you all ever learn?

2007-12-09 13:26:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how did you guys happen to hook up each other? i mean how easy or hard was it to approach a girl of a different race. please just be polite to me cos i am trying to approach a girl of a different race but a bit scared of rejections that will make me crazy even though see look like interested in me. i am a shy that finds it hard to tell girls how deeply i like them en wanna be with them, i am not agly but not handsome however i have met many girls who like to say i am so handsome and suprisingly like to calll me lovely. some hints please thanks a lot.

2007-12-09 13:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 17. OK so i meet this girl at a camp and we got on realli well and she laughed at my jokes and everything so i got her number and rang her when we got home. We talked for a while and hung up and a little while later her friend told me that she liked me so i asked her on a date and she accepted but when the day came she said her mom wanted her to be home too early so we couldnt go on the date because of not much time so instead we met in a park and talked for a while. her friend turned up which killed it so we didnt get anywhere that dAY. after that any invitations to places got the "sorry im doing something" response until finally we met up except it was with her friends so it was kinda boring. she then told me she didnt know if she still liked me but when i went to see her in the mall she kept saying thanks for coming to see her and smiling and when i went to her house for a swim i kept catching her staring at me but she doesnt seem to be keen to do anything with me by her self. y?

2007-12-09 13:25:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just to get both sides ;-)

2007-12-09 13:18:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she bought it for my birthday....(december 4th this year)
and if we have a disagreement, she always uses the: 'i bought her, and i can take her back' line.
every since we got the dog, she has been harsh to her...she calls her dirty, she tells me to put her down...and just mean things.
she gets mad at me because i treat the dog like the baby that she is.(3 months old)
she told me that she was going to give the dog away because i have a bad mouth and she said that she would throw her out on the highway. i told her that she wouldn't do that..and that if she put the dog out, i would go with the dog. she said no, i can't because she bought her, therefore, it's her dog.
so, lately, i have been kinda ignoring the dog. i feel bad because she's used to me playing with her, but my mom made it clear that she did not buy here because she wanted me to have her. now, she's saying that she's giving her away because i don't do anything for her. idk what to do now. any suggestions?

2007-12-09 13:15:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is it so wrong? how come the bible does not consider it wrong?

2007-12-09 13:13:23 · 4 answers · asked by DespairGoddess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like him and he likes me but he has a girlfriend and they are always arguing. how do i let him know i like him without sounding jealous, easy, or desperate? how can i get him to break it off with his girlfriend?

2007-12-09 13:13:22 · 4 answers · asked by Alexylophone 2 in Singles & Dating

I REALLY do. I have been married for 3 years, but have not been happy for the last 2. I really want to make this work, but it seems like a dead end, and everytime I try it blows up in my face. Husband says he wants to make it work, but he doesn't really try. Maybe I shouldn't say that....he may try for about 1 week, and it will be great for that week...the he will just go back. And believe me, Im not a saint myself, I have a temper, Im spoiled, but I have NEVER EVER lied to him, which is something that I get a lot. Could someone please tell me some steps that may help in saving my marriage and maybe turning us BOTH into something that the other will love, and what we can not change, learn how to live with it. I know marriage is hard and NOT in any way easy....but, it can't always be like this. Any help is appreciated...thanks...=)

2007-12-09 13:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 13:07:07 · 34 answers · asked by Could 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a few friends that are gay and that are lesbian, and I admit, before I met them I was pretty close-minded about the whole thing. I was pretty much against the whole idea of homosexuality and believed that people were meant to procreate. But now that some of my closest friends are gay, I think otherwise.

I think it's the case that the people who still bash gays/lesbians don't really know any on a friendly level to begin with! It's like me hating red-haired people even if I haven't met one before. (This is not true. I love red-haired people, too)

2007-12-09 13:05:04 · 5 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Friends

My family is quite complex, I've got my Father, mother, my mother died 6 years ago, my father remarried, now I've still got my father step mother, half sister and step brother.....

Why are families so complicated these days ? What ever happened to the traditional family ? Father, Mother, Sister, Brother etc ?

What is your family like ?

2007-12-09 13:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

BTW, I don't think that's okay, I'm just asking...

2007-12-09 13:02:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

omg helppp i dont wanna hurt her but i wanna hump him lol

2007-12-09 13:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 27 year old woman who is going to be 28 in february.. I am feeling old and I was wondering at what age do you consider to be older or washed out? am I supposed to start dressing differently or doing my makeup different at a certain age ?? and what kind of things can I do to look younger ... gawd I miss 21 LOL

2007-12-09 13:01:39 · 22 answers · asked by ilymds 2 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking about proposing to my girl on Feb 29, do you think that this is a good idea or not?

2007-12-09 12:56:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really want my parents to think im responsible to get me a pet. How would you do that?

2007-12-09 12:55:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My aunt is sooo hot .. i dont really know what to do .. everytime im at her house i sneak in her room and sniff her thongs .. i wanna **** her so badly .. should i tell her????

2007-12-09 12:52:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Even if they look good, and even if they don't have kids. Indian men in particular seem to want to marry the twenty something who's unattached to anything if they can. But a single woman will go for a forty something year old guy if his pocketbook's thick enough. I know men are visual; but they might stare at a beutiful woman, and want her, but as soon as he finds out she's over thirty, he looses all interest. Y is this? He doesn't even want to find out about her or anything, whereas if she lied and said she was twenty, he'd be pursuing her as he wanted b4.

2007-12-09 12:48:20 · 29 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a freshmen in high school and theres a really good looking guy whos very well liked but he goes to a different school. He's dating a very pretty sophomore. He walked by me at a football and just stared at me so now he IMs me all the time and we talk a lot. He tells me that he would rather hang out with me than his girlfriend. He's very nice and cool and i can be myself around him, but what is he trying to do?

2007-12-09 12:46:22 · 4 answers · asked by Cara d. 2 in Singles & Dating

he got her pregnant but not sure if its his cause she had a partner as well and she dosent want to be found what can i do he dosent know were she lives she change her number i dont think he know her real name how do we look for her

2007-12-09 12:45:32 · 56 answers · asked by Nora+ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in an argument with a female friend of mine over something stupid and we both got pretty intense about it, and she called me an asshole. so without thinking I slapped her in the face, I felt really bad right after I did it, as I didnt even know what I was doing. But before I could even apologize, she brought her knee up and nailed me in the nuts.
I think its so unfair that girls have such an advantage over guys in that they can so easily just lift their knee or give a little tap and the guy can do nothing but fall to the ground in pain? do u agree with this or am i completly wrong?

2007-12-09 12:45:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well..i was dating this guy..but then i broke up with him cus i thought he was being a jerk..but then afterwards i started to miss him like crazy and was so mad at myself that i broke up with him..so i started liking him again..and i hav this friend...she is like my best friend and i love her to death. if i could spend a day with anyone in the world including celebs..i would pick my best friend...and she found out that i liked him..and she told me she hated him..and i asked her why..and she told me cus he blamed her for me breaking up with him and every argument we had...and that he was just so mean to her...so i told her that if that was true then i wouldnt go back out with him..but she said if i like him i should date him..so we are dating..and i mean everything is normal between me and my best friend..but its the little things..the way she looks at me when i talk to him..and just the way she acts..its not mean..but idk what to do..please help!! what do i do...???

2007-12-09 12:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The brides maids and the grooms men walk in from two different areas and meet in the middle at one location. The groomsmen will have the flowers behind their back and when they meet the brides maids, the give it to her and then walk her to the front, bow and then go to his area.

The ring berrow, I want one to do the traditional thing and bring the ring. But I want the other one to run in and ring a bell announcing "the bride is coming, the bride is comming".

Also,,,not to give the mothers corasges, but give them roses..

I know it's my wedding and I do what I want. But I really want to know if these are good ideas or bad ideas. SoWhat do you think of all these things?

2007-12-09 12:41:55 · 50 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

I don't have any assets. My parents do. I went to india for marriage. ANd in arranged marriage, the family's assets are discussed. My parents told my husband's family that I haVe no assets because I don't work. IT was discussed that I have disabilities and this is y I don't work. It was said that they do have assets and I will be getting a share of it upon their death. My husband was well aware of this and ok with it. Everything was fine and the marriage took place.

Five months later though(now), he wants a large sum of money, and is punishing me for not providing it. Divorce is dancing around in my head at this time since he knew what was at stake when we wed. I thought he married me, not my father's bank account....maybe I'm wrong. Idk. Anyway, I want to know, if I get divorced next month(hypothetically), who will get what? I have nothing...so he gets nothing right? My parents support me(I live with them), do I get anything from him? He has a job in India; but he lives at home too.

2007-12-09 12:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so i guess I'm a very odd female, because I have a very high sex drive, and my boyfriend doesn't. It's okay, I can deal with that, but I'm just wondering, if you are willing to answer, what your sex drive is like. And please don't 'report' this question, I'm being serious. Female answers appreciated as well.

2007-12-09 12:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gets deleted so much of the time?
He is really a good a funny guy, though some do not understand he makes a joke out of seeming irreverent,and yet he's got much wisdom and a good heart.
He's not on as much as he used to, but every time he seems to come up with a question, And go to answer it, I discover that very question has been deleted!
Does anyone know the cause of this, because it happens so often!?

2007-12-09 12:38:54 · 1 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6 in Friends