Even if they look good, and even if they don't have kids. Indian men in particular seem to want to marry the twenty something who's unattached to anything if they can. But a single woman will go for a forty something year old guy if his pocketbook's thick enough. I know men are visual; but they might stare at a beutiful woman, and want her, but as soon as he finds out she's over thirty, he looses all interest. Y is this? He doesn't even want to find out about her or anything, whereas if she lied and said she was twenty, he'd be pursuing her as he wanted b4.
2007-12-09 12:48:20 · 29 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to American men
2007-12-09 12:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by freeD 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What is age but a number associated with how many days you have been on the planet? A guy who would run from a girl because of her age doesn't deserve her. Kind of shallow, don't you think? A 30+ girl is probably more mature and more than likely has experienced more in life than a girl in her 20's. Think about it, perhaps she could teach me things about life that I had yet to experience.
Maybe it is me, but I wouldn't care if she was 30, 32, 35... whatever. And if I found I loved her I wouldn't care if she had not been married or married 5 times with or without children. From my point of view...... she was born the day I met her. All I would ever want to know about her past is whatever she would wish to tell me. Because if I did fall in love with her, aren't those same life experiences what helped that girl become the person she is?
2007-12-11 13:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by ezgoin_newyorker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becuase the best age for marriage for a women is 22-28. During this age she got matured and is best age for fertality also. Best age for family life is 30-45. After 45 ailments starts due to harmonic changes. No women 22-28 would life to marry a man of 40. The difference of 4-5 years is acceptable. Becuase women wants little older man for security reasons. These all things are not in hands of human. It is God's will to tie each other. As the maariages are made in Heaven.
2007-12-09 15:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by dev_bsg 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IMO, men don't want to be pressured into having kids too soon. If you're over 30, the automatically assume that your biological clock is ticking loudly. Not always the case, but that is what a lot of men think.
2007-12-09 12:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by cas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is time you give men from another country a chance. There are plenty of men from many different countries that would love a good looking 30 something or 40 something woman. You need to check out some web sites that will match your personality traits, character, likes and dislikes to men from around the world. All you need to do is be willing to learn their language or they can learn to speak yours.
2007-12-09 12:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women tend to pick up baggage as they age. A woman can only see the HORRIBLE qualities of the last twenty men she has known.
The man she just met doesn't stand a chance.
She'll whip out that microscope and see if you smoke like Jeff did, look at other women like Bill did, drink like Joe did, sleep past 8 on Sunday like that loser Brad, drive too fast or too slow like Carl and Ben did . . . it goes on and on and on.
The current guy on deck hasn't got a prayer.
We like the young ones who haven't been "damaged" yet.
Drop the baggage and pick up some men, or keep your baggage and forget the men.
Life is FULL of choices.
2007-12-09 13:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hey, it ain't all men, just the superficial more worried about looks assholes. Stop going after those types.... look for someone who has a great personality and some substance to them and wants more out of life than a trophy on their arm.
They are out there, I found one!
2007-12-09 13:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indian men want a woman who can mould herself according to his needs and his family's need..as a woman ages she becomes more mature and independent which is something they want to avoid because then she wouldn't mould herself..whearease a young girl who is still in her early twenties has less exposure and hence will gel accordingly to the family more..according to me this is the primary reason for indian men to avoid woman in their thirties..
2007-12-09 23:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Katzz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All people are different with different values and morals. Don't become bitter, spend your time finding someone whom will love you for who you are. The sexual attraction is a plus but a good personality will get you through the years.
2007-12-09 12:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are neeting the wrong people! There are plenty of guys who don't worry about age in a relationship unless she is too young - like 15 or 16 and some don't worry about that either.
Remember Aston Cutcher married Demi Moore who is quite a bit older than himself.
2007-12-09 13:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because older women have so much baggage from their experiences being with jerks instead of real men that we guys are looking at hell on earth every day of our lives paying for the stuid mistakes of women.
We'd like to find an unjaded woman who could treat us like actual people. Unfortunately they are so few and far between that many of us have given up completely and are stuck on Yahoo Answers.....looking for answers too
2007-12-09 13:02:29 · answer #11 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋