well..i was dating this guy..but then i broke up with him cus i thought he was being a jerk..but then afterwards i started to miss him like crazy and was so mad at myself that i broke up with him..so i started liking him again..and i hav this friend...she is like my best friend and i love her to death. if i could spend a day with anyone in the world including celebs..i would pick my best friend...and she found out that i liked him..and she told me she hated him..and i asked her why..and she told me cus he blamed her for me breaking up with him and every argument we had...and that he was just so mean to her...so i told her that if that was true then i wouldnt go back out with him..but she said if i like him i should date him..so we are dating..and i mean everything is normal between me and my best friend..but its the little things..the way she looks at me when i talk to him..and just the way she acts..its not mean..but idk what to do..please help!! what do i do...???
2007-12-09 12:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
0f course ud miss him; just trust ur 1st instinct, im sure u were right
2007-12-09 12:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Juicy Girl.♥♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your past mistakes and avoid making them again. After being in the dating game you begin to see what you want and what you don't want.
Do you really want a jerk?
This was the only word you used to describe him.
Sounds like you'd rather be with your best friend anyways. Don't ruin a good friendship over an idiot.
Think about it and good luck!
2007-12-09 20:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by firemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be jealous because she can't spend as much time with you when you are with him. So, reassure her that she's still your best friend, and that you'll still make time for her even though you are dating your boyfriend.
If you have more than one friend who dislikes him, though, stop and figure out why. Oftentimes if a lot of your friends don't like your boyfriend, it's because he isn't always as great as he is when he's around you.
2007-12-09 20:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by girlfromslc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is being a friend...she's watching him with a jaundiced eye just waiting for him to mess up, but she's holding her tongue because she wants you to be happy. You're a fortunate young lady because that's a good friend there. She'll probably never like him, but that's okay because she won't mess things up for you...she's got your best interest at heart. But if he messes up, she'll probably be hell on wheels going to his a s s . So, there's nothing for you to do (other than cherish your friendship); she's got your back! Good luck to you, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-09 20:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. Learn to take the blame for your life.
2007-12-09 20:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good phrase "bros before hoes' but in this case BFF before BF... your man isnt always going to be there and your best friend is... what ever you do keep that quote in mind cause she will always and forever be there for u...
2007-12-09 20:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by pookster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋