how did you guys happen to hook up each other? i mean how easy or hard was it to approach a girl of a different race. please just be polite to me cos i am trying to approach a girl of a different race but a bit scared of rejections that will make me crazy even though see look like interested in me. i am a shy that finds it hard to tell girls how deeply i like them en wanna be with them, i am not agly but not handsome however i have met many girls who like to say i am so handsome and suprisingly like to calll me lovely. some hints please thanks a lot.
2007-12-09 13:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been scared of rejection is a man -woman thing,absolutely nothing to do with race.my advice to you,go for it,you got nothing to lose and if you wont try you will never know.every day and avery person we do not take the chance with,never comes back so chin up,chest out and just GO4IT!!!!!!!!
2007-12-09 13:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach her normally. Act like shes a girl in ur own race. It shouldnt have to b this hard. Shes a girl and ur a guy. Thats all that should matter. Not race.
2007-12-09 13:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rawr I'm a turtle? ^_^ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be positive, understand her race, faith and possible problems that may arise.
I dated a Sri Lankan woman for about 4-years, it was not hard despite her and her family being strict Catholics and me having no beliefs.
Be yourself and get to know her.
Do not try and force anything.
2007-12-09 13:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have numbers of times... some of my friends called me "benetton" as in international colours of..
you like who you like is the simple answer..
YES its tricky at time, there are a lot of bigots about.. older people I kinda understand more so down to age, but still not excusable.
best one, I had a singer who happened to a black girl.. wasn't seeing here, just went food shopping with her.. the dirty looks I got off some black guy was very funny.. more funnier was he had a white girlfriend..
or another time years ago I went shopping with another girl, she went to buy jeans asked me "how do I look", a rather annoying white shop assistant was being funny.. said "they'll look better on the floor in the morning dear".. the woman walked off in disgust. I wasn't seeing her, but it's funny how people ASSUME things, she laughed at it and my normal warped sense of humour.
so yer. people are odd.. if you like someone and they like you.. thats your business. no one elses.
it is trickier, but thats down to other peoples views..
2007-12-09 13:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by junglejungle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
race doesnt really play a part or shouldnt at least, on determining who you ask out. i mean, yea everyone has their ethnic preferences, but it really isnt liek everyone is going to stick to those preferences.. I was completely unattracted to asian guys.. and guess what? my boyfirend is half srilanken and half chinese.. like the epitome of asianness lol
2007-12-09 13:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Priya 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun they are no different than any other girl. They have feelings just like any other color person.
2007-12-09 13:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sing under her window at night,and if her old man comes out with a shotgun,then quick change songs to bat-out-of-hell!! and runnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!
2007-12-09 17:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters stop worrying about the colour of someones skin.....wow!
2007-12-09 13:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stick to your own race, thats what I say
And thats not being racist its protecting everyones origin and future existence
2007-12-09 13:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Muzikman 5 · 0⤊ 6⤋