Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

I've been tlkin to this boy and i lied and told him i wasn't a virgin but i called him and i told him i was virgin after we been tlkin for 3months and idk if he's gonna see me different now. i mean i want to lose it but I'm scared of being pregnant

2007-12-09 14:29:07 · 12 answers · asked by Mz.Single90 1 in Singles & Dating

Were going to have a renewal of vows for our 10th wedding anniversary. Weve narrowed it down to a few places. I am considering leaving our children at home with a sitter while hubby and me go on a private get-away without the kids(weve never taken a honeymoon or spent a night away from them). He wants the kids to be in the ceremony. I'm not sure if I want the same thing that he does. I need some advice or suggestions as to what to do?

2007-12-09 14:27:16 · 32 answers · asked by Leslie Y 2 in Weddings

ghhhh. Ok, so I have a friend but she discreetly brags ALL the time. She ALWAYS brings the subject back to her all the time and whenever someone calls her a wierdo she says "yep. thets me. the wierdo. and im proud of it!!" it gets realllly annoying. She thinks shes so crazy and insane/funny/random but shes just a wanna be. she drives me insane.

What should I do?

2007-12-09 14:26:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I invited this guy I really like to join me for lunch today, at the spur of the moment. I'd never been out with him before, but I decided to be brave. He then insisted on picking up the check.

Is the fact that he accepted my invitation on such short notice and the fact that he insisted on paying a sign that he could like me as more than just a friend? (Is this "man code" for something, or was he just being a gentleman?)

2007-12-09 14:24:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you guys out there think the hottest girlfriend would look like cuz i think she would have brown eyes brown flowing hair a beautiful smile elegant body and you get the idea oh and i find the name megan a big turn on

2007-12-09 14:22:27 · 9 answers · asked by sealteam564 3 in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy and i really like him we have been going out for at lest two weeks..well all the suddon he ignored me for 4 days then we where talking on myspace today and he said he wanted to role play and I said ok cool so we where role playing (witch we do a lot) and in ti he killed me (I ahve no idea why) then he kidnappened me (for some reaosn I came back to life I have no diea why or how) then he held me agaenst my will and for no ******* reason eh started slapping me in role play and cutting my wrist...my friend said if hes doing that online he might do it in rl and its not safe..I really like him and its very odd of him to do that because hes not like that...and I know it was him because I was talking to him on the phone right before he started doing that..and I told him it freaked me out and he said "its jsut role play baby you know I would never do that"...I dont know what to do....can you help me out?? advice plz??

2007-12-09 14:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by death_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 14:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe I do not want to forget things though?
but, I was in a relationship for a year and a month. It was nice; at least so I thought it was. I come to realize I always had troubles and I always felt like I was being attacked or backstabbed in some way or form. She cheated on me a few different times; but I gave her second chances because I had feelings for her and thought she would change. (but as of today I found out she was flirting around with another guy days before we broke up).
I found myself treated like dirt too; and I'm talking to a friend right now and she's telling me about the different times she has listened to me - and it's putting everything into perspective.

I'm happy I am free of the relationship; but from here I am confused and lost on where to go.
I'm wondering is there anything I can do to help this heartache I have?
and is there any true hope of me finding someone else who is kind like me?
- feel free to ask questions - I will update details if needed.

2007-12-09 14:20:05 · 4 answers · asked by r0d3n7z 2 in Singles & Dating

had a situation where you liked someone but weren't sure whether or not they liked you back, but another girl/guy liked you a lot for sure, so you just went with them instead?

Do you feel like this is just "settling for whatever you can get" or is it just the easy way out, not having to face the possibility of rejection?

2007-12-09 14:19:49 · 5 answers · asked by pieninja 5 in Singles & Dating

someee b0y asked meee.

2007-12-09 14:17:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I'm upset about something, no matter how gently I bring it up to him, he usually gets angry/defensive and yells at me and then ends up apologizing like crazy. We've established repeatedly that we're supposed to talk it out. No fighting/yelling. So he's promised to do better. But we still fight every week! Sometimes every few days or every other day. I often end up crying because I hate it when he yells at me. Every time, he genuinely apologizes and promises, "I'll do better next time." But next time, yelling happens again. This has happened for months. The past two fights, I almost left. I got driven to that point. He just asked for another chance, which he'll be given. We've been together for ~2 yrs now. Generally, he's an amazing guy. He cares, he's loyal & trustworthy, he does his best to be there for me, he goes out of his way for me, etc. He wants me to stay. I don't want to leave him. But he's driving me away. Is waiting for him to come around worth it? Should I stay patient?

2007-12-09 14:16:36 · 21 answers · asked by lol 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres a guy at work who is always flirting with me..but he flirts with other girls too...except there married an he knows that. An when i havent been there n a while he tells me he misses me. He always stares at me, an touches my hand every chance he gets.Two people have asked me if were involved. How can i tell if he likes me or just wants to use me?

2007-12-09 14:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious,

What she looks like, how she acts, smarts etc.

2007-12-09 14:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by yeahrightlove 2 in Singles & Dating

So my BEST FRIENDS LITTLE SISTER loves me like a brother.... yea that sucks, but i am going to make a move on her soon. He will be pissed...(he will get over it) but here is the thing. I am 18 and she is 15. I don't wana do her or anything, just be her man... i don't think i am too old for her, but my best friend, her brother dose. How do i get it into his brain that i am NOT TOO OLD. or do you think i am??? If so why (please don't say stuff like "If you have sex with her you will go to jail" or "She is jail bait" i am not going to have sex with her anyway.... I mean i don't think i will... NO i Willl NOT. or will i? no. i wount.... ;-[]

2007-12-09 14:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WE HANG OUT AND STUFF BUT IS NOT THE SAME I KNOW PEOPLE CHANGE BUT IS NOT THE SAME AS WE WERE

2007-12-09 14:15:26 · 14 answers · asked by yeyohljhj 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are seniors in high school. She wants to rent an apartment with me when we both graduate. We are already both 18. Is she crazy for wanting to rent an apartment with me. Is she over confident?

2007-12-09 14:14:44 · 5 answers · asked by Greg G 1 in Singles & Dating

You know, the ones that have commercials on t.v. every 5 min. I met my last husband on one and he turned out completely false to everything he said he was. Divorced after 2 &1/2 yrs. Think I should try again?

2007-12-09 14:14:42 · 5 answers · asked by Good-american 4 in Singles & Dating

what is you most memorable moment with the person you love?? (nothing inappropriate please, just something verry sweet)
mine would definitely have to be when the two of us went on out one night. we were going to dinner (it was also about 2 days before christmas) and it was going to be formal. he showed up at my house with queen anne chocolates and roses and was in a tux. he also also gave me a card telling me how much he loved me and gave me a gold locket as an early christmas present with words engraved on it and a picture of the two of us inside. i thought that was the most amazing thing in the world. it was just so sweet because he knew exactly what would make me happy. i love him so much!!

ofcourse every time we're together is memorable, and i have lots of other memories that i absolutely love, but what are some that really stick in your mind?

2007-12-09 14:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by jamie 2 in Singles & Dating

Well someone just told me my bf had cheated on me about a month ago. And i want to break up not cause of that but because it hurts me being in the relationship.

so what do i tell him?

2007-12-09 14:12:25 · 11 answers · asked by yermom:) 2 in Singles & Dating

im on my goal to grow tall, im still 161cm and im 13. my mom is so worried that i wont be tall anymore, lol. anyways, do walking make you tall? coz like i really love walking hihi

2007-12-09 14:11:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 14:10:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend called me the day before yesterday
and I was like why are calling me and he said to talk
well the same situation happened before
he called and told me he missed me but he had a gf and he said he loved . i believed him and we ended up having sex more then once and i figured he didnt love me he had a gf and he used me for sex i was crushed cause i believed that he loved me and missed me but he just wanted sex aside from that well now im starting to believe that his trying to do the same . its so weird cause he called me fat and etc. but now his like my beautiful and etc. i dont want to end up hurt but his saying he just wants to be friends and etc.
from a guys perspective what do you think of this
or a girls

2007-12-09 14:10:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK. She says I look like a girl because I have a cute face. I asked her what she meant by that but she just said I look like a girl. I was offended but she wont see no wrong in it. And she acts like I should be proud of it. I really dont understand what her point was but she was like all sweet when she said it. Am I like exaggerating it or was she hinting at something?

PS: I look younger for my age but I can never look like a girl. I am 21. I even have a short beard so I dont get her point.

2007-12-09 14:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not married, but hope to be one day soon. So I have a question to those who are married whether happy or sad. Can two people really be in a happy marriage for the rest of there lives? I've seen a lot of divorces or marriages that are just married becuz of the kids, don't believe in divorce, etc. I do believe that marriage is hardwork just like anything else in life. Well for me when I do get married I want it to be for all the right reasons. I'm the type that dont' believe in going to sleep mad, we have to talk about our problems. It just seems as if in every marriage something goes wrong.

2007-12-09 14:10:15 · 27 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok me and my friend (nick)
we talk on I.M sometimes, and we have this joke were we're doing stuff for money "stuffff" <-- its a complete joke and im not a **** in person.

Well nick gets really horny when he starts. He 99% always starts it. So we just kid around saying like, "ya i'll be over there in a while, ur buying. .......bring the pink handcuffs etc." It's not intense or direct or anything but last time we were joking around he got SOO horny, he just started saying stuff like 'I want to hold you in my arms, all alone." or "I need you (my name)" and he even said he wanted to touch me. This was too much for me so I told him that i'll let him cool off and be back on later.

But the wierd this is, i've tried to talk to him recently, like just normal people would. But he didn't pursue a normal convo. Does he just use me to get horny or was he embarressed that he got so horny he said those things? or wat????

please be nice!!!

2007-12-09 14:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by yeahrightlove 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like him and sometimes I feel like he likes me but I'm never sure.

1. Most of the time (in class) when I turn to a side we'll look at each other and smile.
2. He talks to me more then any other girl.
3. We laugh alot together
4. He'll sometimes compliment me
5. We have alot in common
6. He's called me across the room to talk to me
7. He knocks down my backpack alot when I'm right there (idk if thats to get my attention or to irritate me)

2007-12-09 14:10:03 · 3 answers · asked by Megster 6 in Singles & Dating

that I like and she said she likes him 2 what do I do.I have liked him on and off and we had a connection ever since this persons b-day party and we talked a lot and i never really got over him.And she had also had a on and off thing with him but I love her she's my bf.. and I don't know if he likes her...I don't know what to do bcuz if i tell her she will take it as a competetion.My other best friend said not to worry bcuz she thinks he still likes me.O also my friend that likes the guy also just got her license soo she can go to his house and hang out with him when ever she wants.What do I do????

2007-12-09 14:09:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf broke up with me
i love him TO DEATH
i can't live without him in my life
but i can't live with him
he cheats
he lies...and all that stuff a good bf WOULDN'T
the question "will you marry me" psh means NOTHING when it comes to him...and "i love you" means NOTHING
i was about to break up with him becuase i hate getting hurt
i love him and i'm trying to move on..i havn't cried yet. :\
but a part of me is him..and i can't just leave him behind..
he'll come crawling back and i WANT him to but i won't take him...
idk i know what you all will say but..idk

2007-12-09 14:08:20 · 38 answers · asked by angel cage 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yet a proud one. I've learned I'm waiting to have sex with the right girl. It just dosen't show maturity but it shows how respectful I am to all women out there.

2007-12-09 14:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've heard conflicting things about who can and who cannot be a bridesmaid. Apparently, only unmarried women can be? If this is true - would someone who is divorced be considered as a bridemaid? Do these silly rules apply for groomsmen as well?

2007-12-09 14:06:22 · 20 answers · asked by BeX 4 in Weddings