Why does my girlfriend say I look like a girl?

Question

OK. She says I look like a girl because I have a cute face. I asked her what she meant by that but she just said I look like a girl. I was offended but she wont see no wrong in it. And she acts like I should be proud of it. I really dont understand what her point was but she was like all sweet when she said it. Am I like exaggerating it or was she hinting at something?

PS: I look younger for my age but I can never look like a girl. I am 21. I even have a short beard so I dont get her point.

Answer 1

Haha.. yeah, that's a little insulting, but it's obvious she didn't intend for it to be, so don't take it to heart.

I love pretty brown eyes, but large eyes and eyelashes are usually considered a feminine trait, so if I tell my boyfriend he has beautiful eyes, is that an insult? No!

Don't bring it up. If she mentions it again, either teasing or otherwise, calmly tell her not to say it again and ask her to respect your wishes, no matter how trivial it may seem to her.

But trust me, this isn't a big deal. She's trying to compliment you, in a cutesy kind of way. If she thought you really looked like a girl, she wouldn't be dating you!

Answer 2

She does not have the right to make remarks like that.My advice, is simple. Get rid of her. A person like her is not good news. A comment like that today and who knows about tomorrow?. Big mouth.

Answer 3

LOL! I tell my boyfriend that too! Don't worry.. she doesn't mean anything by it. You probably just have a babyface. Or you have slight female features. Nothings wrong with that. Your just a pretty boy.

Answer 4

Sounds like she's just trying to tease you, although it's not very nice.

Answer 5

dont be embarrased. there is nothing wrong in what she is saying. if she didnt like it she would tell u.

Answer 6

maybe shes saying that cuz ur cute.or maybe you behave like a girl.....but i mostly think that she says that cuz u r cute=)