Maybe I do not want to forget things though?
but, I was in a relationship for a year and a month. It was nice; at least so I thought it was. I come to realize I always had troubles and I always felt like I was being attacked or backstabbed in some way or form. She cheated on me a few different times; but I gave her second chances because I had feelings for her and thought she would change. (but as of today I found out she was flirting around with another guy days before we broke up).
I found myself treated like dirt too; and I'm talking to a friend right now and she's telling me about the different times she has listened to me - and it's putting everything into perspective.
I'm happy I am free of the relationship; but from here I am confused and lost on where to go.
I'm wondering is there anything I can do to help this heartache I have?
and is there any true hope of me finding someone else who is kind like me?
- feel free to ask questions - I will update details if needed.
2007-12-09 14:20:05 · 4 answers · asked by r0d3n7z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find another girl
2007-12-09 14:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jimbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive guy, there is no exact right or wrong in relationship cause it is real very up to personal's definations.
It seems that you guys not meant to be together, you'll need to take some time off and talk to yourself that this relationship is overed. Think about what is the things that you can't accept/agreed in her, will you be able to take all of it if this relationship continue? be realistic though.
If cannot continue, clear your mind, freshing up yourself and ready for another relationship, with a health mind/soul to start new. I would not so agree that you find another girl immediately cause sometimes it will crowd your judgement in the new girl and if she knew that you only want to forget about the pass that you choose her, it will hurt her feelings too! You know, when you have hates/anger etc in your mind, will tend to do things (make judgement) without careful thoughts, why not give yourself some space right?
2007-12-09 22:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by woodpecker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u need to forget about it because not every girl is like that! my sister was in a relationship like the except she was the one being pushed around and she just needed to forget about it and get out! she is better now......u need to wait for the right girl to just come along and just enjoy things in life now! u dont need to rush and try to find someone! when u find someone new and great u guys will just click! keep looking and the right person will pop up!
2007-12-09 22:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by ~Drea~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is get another girl.
2007-12-09 22:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋